Lost Sheep wrote:Spanishxb wrote:So…an update here. Had some (what I thought) bomb sex last night…she came real quick, but I was a little tuned up so had to work for mine. After having my fun I decided to get to work and start pounding. Was pounding deep as I could and doing some moves I thought were what she liked in the past. Etc etc. anyways….after I finished she ran to the bathroom in pain and said that it doesn’t bend like it used too so when I do angles it literally was digging at her insides and she could feel the tubes rock hard poking her…..NOT what I wanted to ever hear but I’ve told her to be honest as I’m basically a virgin with this new dick learning how to use it and move it as it doesn’t bend like it used too…and the two hard spikes tips and the end in the glans definitely are easy to feel poke yah I’m sure. Feels like I have two pen tips in the head of my dick…so anyways…
Now we will have to practice positions and moves so she can tell me what it was that hurt her so I don’t do that thinking she’s liking it…….still no regrets….just wonder what a girl who doesn’t know I’m implanted think about it if I was poking them so hard. Would they think I had something in my dick? Idk…
I hope you don't mind unsolicited advice. Do you and your wife every talk frankly about what each of you prefer in sex? I mean, map out each other's erogenous zones (which can be a fun exercise in itself) or discuss different positions you might like to try or places around the house, etc.
Your post sounds like she does not feel comfortable telling you what feels good for her or hurts. Good communication is a factor in producing god sex (in my opinion).
Use this revelation of hers as a springboard to asking her to ask for what will make sex better. Give her permission to express her sexuality. You will likely be pleasantly surprized.
For sure communication is key and even though she says no, I think she likes my new dick better than the old one. She cums harder and more often. But yes communication is key. We finally did break up (not due to the implant at all…well maybe…cause I was dying to try it on someone who didn’t know about my issues)…
So new gf finally came along…and wow does she love it and not know about it. She’s obsessed and says best sex ever. She loves how I can go forever. I HAVE to imagine she knows something is different with how hard it gets and the oval shape and she’s heard the pump a few times. But for a girl that doesn’t even know this “technology” exists…she probably just thinks I farted. Or like to squeeze my balls to turn myself on idk…but praying she never finds out as honestly it’s just kind of a blow to the manhood when they know….like now they know it’s not a superpower you have, you were just cheating with a secret weapon……so for now I live on as King of the Bedroom.
I should add. I’ve had $20k worth of Phallofill installed to my new dick as well. Best decision ever. Now I have a dick that works and is hard PLUS added 1.5” of girth.
It’s simply an amazing life and although I know someday it will go away and replacement is needed. Choosing to live in the moment and enjoy it right now…