CigareVolant wrote:I've had great fun with my implant! Lots of sex with a partner who loves fucking.
In my opinion, an implant can help, but it doesn't "make you a great lover." First of all, many women love PIV (penis in vagina) sex, but it often isn't what gets them off. They need fingers or oral. (Not all women, but a significant number.) So if you think your magic dick is all it takes, then you will leave many partners unsatisfied.
How can it help? I mean, some women do just want a hard cock, so there's that. But also, worrying about whether your dick's gonna get soft can distract you, when you should be focusing on her. And really, focusing on her is the secret to being great at sex.
Glad to hear that you are having fun with it! I understand that an implant will not out of itself make a man a great lover nor a sex machine. After 15 years of ED (moderate to severe, I can still get hard from masturbation, I have nocturnal/morning wood (though it deflates as quick as I stand), but pills do not work anymore), I have learnt to use my fingers and tongue to please my partners. But as I said in another post, of my experience, even though many girls like or even prefer oral sex, ED is a massive turn off for them. Their brains are wired to be attracted to erections, and to associate erections with male pleasure and, by construction, to regard them as a validation for their own attractiveness. No matter how good your tongue play is (and I would bet that many of us here have become over the years very good at eating pussy), ED is a dealbreaker for the lion's share of women on this planet.
I totally agree with your point on the distraction that a non-functioning dick can be for men and consequently made sex less pleasant for their partners. This, together with the restoration of my self-esteem, is why I am seeking to get an implant.