1st time sex with implant (25th attempt)

[richard_goes_bionic]

Thanks Dan and you guys, I really hope you are right. Today was one of these days again where the frustration took overhand. It looks like I am in this deadlock wheel again. We had sex, it was late after dinner and older people shot avoid sex with full stomach I guess.
Anyhow we got it going with a short foreplay and then with her on top. Nothing either me nor her, change to reverse cowgirl without result. So we broke it off and asked ourself what is going on. I can see it on her that she is disappointed and depressed over the whole situation and sooner than later she is afraid of having sex. I can already see her anxiety before we even start and this is of course nothing to help my own excitement She also asked why I am not helping myself, because there is even less respons with masturbation than with intercourse.For the moment I feel I use a strap on and this piece down there does not belong to me. No sense ability what so ever. it's weird and a real mindfuck because I experienced the other side already many times.
Until now we had a rate of about every 4th day with PIV. We might try to take a break for a couple of weeks maybe and see how it works out.

cheers
Richard

[dan_bionic]

Thanks Dan and you guys, I really hope you are right. Today was one of these days again where the frustration took overhand. It looks like I am in this deadlock wheel again. We had sex, it was late after dinner and older people shot avoid sex with full stomach I guess.
Anyhow we got it going with a short foreplay and then with her on top. Nothing either me nor her, change to reverse cowgirl without result. So we broke it off and asked ourself what is going on. I can see it on her that she is disappointed and depressed over the whole situation and sooner than later she is afraid of having sex. I can already see her anxiety before we even start and this is of course nothing to help my own excitement She also asked why I am not helping myself, because there is even less respons with masturbation than with intercourse.For the moment I feel I use a strap on and this piece down there does not belong to me. No sense ability what so ever. it's weird and a real mindfuck because I experienced the other side already many times.
Until now we had a rate of about every 4th day with PIV. We might try to take a break for a couple of weeks maybe and see how it works out.

cheers
Richard

That's for sure, full stomach is the killer of sex, especially when you have some problem with acidity
On the topic:
What does stimulate you before starting sex?
Thinking about having nice sex with a horny chick, that makes you getting aroused ?
Oral sex to make her wet and horny?
BJ/DT to make you horny?

What I mean, you need stimulation to be or get horny and crazy.
Go for a nice wellness weekend in a nice place and relax, instead just focussing on your climax ability.
Talk with her about sex, maybe you both will like to watch a porn or check new positions, that you never did.

There are so many possibilities and situations to dream about sex, especially knowing, you could have sex on demand...

Good luck
Dan

[ElbowRoom]

It sounds like things are going great, you’re having more reliable results than I am right now. I think we just need to realize that having an on-demand always hard dick doesn’t mean our brain and the rest of our body is always ready. Sometimes while sex is still fun it’s not the right time for maximum benefit.