Telling new partner

[Juerhareb]

Hi guys, I have been out of here for a long time. Básically because thing were going fine and I just entered to answer messages.

I have finally found a girl who I would like to be with and we have been meeting for around 1,5-2 months. I wanted to tell her about this about 2 weeks ago, but I am not able to do It when the moment comes. However, in a relationship, this sometimes brings strange moments, for example when the penis IS not completely flacid or when she decides to suck mi still flacid penis and It cant go up. Anywqy, I feel I am deceiveing her and want to tell her.

I just wanted to ask you, has any of you been with a girl and told her after some time. How did she feel? Did she feel like you were "lying" to her until you told her?
Thanks for your experiences...

[ready2go]

well , i have a malleable and no i have not told any girl i have slept with .

[AlmostFifty]

Nope. Not saying a word! Ha!

[John Dday]

We all have a past Talking about it should bring you closer together.

[GoodWood]

The reason you want to tell her is that you feel like the relationship has a future. That’s great. People love to hear that they are valued and you can imagine it becoming more serious.

When it’s presented in that light it is a positive thing.

Like anything deeply personal, it would be inappropriate to talk about it at the very start. Sharing it as the relationship develops is the natural thing to do.

[ElbowRoom]

I tell women about my implant before having sex with them. It just makes things easier and reduces anxiety. So far all partners have been excited by the idea of the implant. If this woman really likes you it will be a non-issue.

[Juerhareb]

well , i have a malleable and no i have not told any girl i have slept with .

Nope. Not saying a word! Ha!

But I guess thats because you cant see a future in the relationship...

[Juerhareb]

I tell women about my implant before having sex with them. It just makes things easier and reduces anxiety. So far all partners have been excited by the idea of the implant. If this woman really likes you it will be a non-issue.

I Guess Its easier to understand at your age, but I am in my late twenties...

We all have a past Talking about it should bring you closer together.

The reason you want to tell her is that you feel like the relationship has a future. That’s great. People love to hear that they are valued and you can imagine it becoming more serious.

When it’s presented in that light it is a positive thing.

Like anything deeply personal, it would be inappropriate to talk about it at the very start. Sharing it as the relationship develops is the natural thing to do.

Yes, I Guess its positive, but she could also see the past as a lie, as I have pretended a lot of times that the erections were natural, I have avoided a lot of questions about my past... Have you been in this situation?


Thanks for your help.

[ElbowRoom]

I tell women about my implant before having sex with them. It just makes things easier and reduces anxiety. So far all partners have been excited by the idea of the implant. If this woman really likes you it will be a non-issue.

I Guess Its easier to understand at your age, but I am in my late twenties...

I’m dating women significantly younger than myself. I would think women in their 20s would even better appreciate a man who can have sex with 100% reliability, unlimited endurance, and no refractory period…

Give her a chance to be understanding and accepting.

[AnotherOldFart]

…..sex with 100% reliability…..

Couldn’t agree more. 3 months going strong.
The best thing since sliced bread IMO!!