First time posting

[jrp16830]

Live in Clearfield Pennsylvania. Just switched urologist from who did my surgery, as moved to Florida a month after my surgery. Now seeing one in State College.

[GoodWood]

I can’t recommend Dr Eid highly enough, but NYC is a bit of a drive for you. If making that drive is acceptable consider making a consultation appointment with him.

Otherwise I would seek out the best implant surgeon in Pittsburgh.

[Desperado]

Keep up the VED till then.

[LGXDownunder]

Thanks again for all the great support. I’m told constantly that I’m cancer free and that’s the most important thing. And that’s true but I feel incomplete with having that handful when I need it. Maybe it’s a gay thing, not sure. Even when I was married to my wife for 23 years, I always had this connection with my dick. Weird I guess. In any case I’m hoping to regain some of that. I’ve always had challenges with anal sex regarding girth so I guess I could lose some there.

I agree, thankfully I've also been cancer free now for over 4 years. Regular PSA tests have been zero/undetectable for PC.
I think most of us probably have a strong connection with our dicks, which I believe should be enjoyed as often as possible .
It seems like it might be possible to keep what you have with a standard implant. Elbowroom is not far off your girth and has been able to maintain his size. Fingers crossed for you brother. Keeping up with the regular VED routine as preparation for surgery is worth it in my experience.