Nope. I don’t miss the old me. This new me has become the new normal. I don’t even think about it.
And although I have a Titan, my flaccid still seems like a flaccid to me.
Does anyone miss their pre-op softie?
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GoodWood
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Re: Does anyone miss their pre-op softie?
58yo, NYC. ED started at 40. Pills, then shots for 10 years. 24cm Coloplast Titan XL w/classic pump by Dr Eid 3/25/2025. Will meet for show & tell.
Implant journal: [url] viewtopic.php?f=6&t=26225[/url]
Implant journal: [url] viewtopic.php?f=6&t=26225[/url]
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Bearskin777
- Posts: 29
- Joined: Tue Jul 21, 2026 6:26 am
- Location: Atlanta
Re: Does anyone miss their pre-op softie?
1sfman wrote:I love the "new" flaccid size I have now. I guess due to age and ED, there were days where I thought my dick about to shrink away. Looked like I pulled it out outside when the temp way below freezing. Now, I have an ≈ 5 1/4 inch flaccid (6 1/8 inflated) and I'm quite happy with that flaccid hang. The only downside I've experienced is my glans became super sensitive to movement against my underwear in an irritating way (I'm circumcised), and I've changed to a different brand that fits tighter to minimize the irritation. I'm 9 months out and I hope that irritation will diminish with time. Other than that, nope, I don't miss my pre-op softie!
The sensitivity issue - OUCH! I'm circumcised too, but mostly restored, which is great now, but I'll lose that coverage with the new flaccid size and not sure I'll be able to continue to restore after the implant is in. Whatever, I'll take my chances with that.
61 yrs old, gay, married. Nudist and exhibitionist. ED for 10 years, recently found Peyronies. Atlanta. Titan via Dr. Hakky October 20, 2026. 7"x6" before Peyronies, 6.25 x 6.25" post-Peyronies with moderate up-curve.
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Rider1400
- Posts: 1519
- Joined: Sun Dec 06, 2020 4:23 pm
- Location: Benton Arkansas
Re: Does anyone miss their pre-op softie?
Nope. After the first few months it becomes your new normal and you forget how it was before. However I recently had a revision and got and infection twice and then was explanted for 3 months….. so I had my softie back for 3 months!! I hated ever single moment of it! Couldn’t wait to get my semi boner back all the time. I’m 3 weeks and a couple days reimplanted and can’t keep my hands off of it! It’s so great to have my semi back all the time. Just can’t wait to get to start cycling it to see where I get pumped up and actually get to start using it!
Born 1965 ED at 45 pills,shots all failed.
Implanted 5-22 Titan 20cm with 1cm RTE.
Revision 3-26 Titan 24cm with 1cm trimmed off.
Infection, salvage 5-26 Titan 24cm -1cm trimmed
Explanted 6-17
Implanted 9-2 Titan 22cm less 1 cm trimmed
Implanted 5-22 Titan 20cm with 1cm RTE.
Revision 3-26 Titan 24cm with 1cm trimmed off.
Infection, salvage 5-26 Titan 24cm -1cm trimmed
Explanted 6-17
Implanted 9-2 Titan 22cm less 1 cm trimmed
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John Dday
- Posts: 149
- Joined: Thu Sep 05, 2024 8:30 pm
Re: Does anyone miss their pre-op softie?
NO.
After the prostatectomy my penis was non functioning. I had to sit down to pee and it would go everywhere. Now it's better than before in so so many ways. Do you self a favor. If you have had a prostatectomy and enjoy sex get an implant, it's a life changer, even more so at 70.
After the prostatectomy my penis was non functioning. I had to sit down to pee and it would go everywhere. Now it's better than before in so so many ways. Do you self a favor. If you have had a prostatectomy and enjoy sex get an implant, it's a life changer, even more so at 70.
1955. I have had ED for years. We were planning to go for an implant in October 2024. Heart attack & Stent then prostatectomy. Finally 11/8/26 Rigicon Infla10AX 22cm
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ElbowRoom
- Posts: 1300
- Joined: Mon Mar 17, 2025 1:58 pm
Re: Does anyone miss their pre-op softie?
If I was magically given back perfect natural erectile function, I'd seriously miss this big hawg hanging down and making me look like a god when naked.
59yo Coloplast Titan 28cm Penoscrotal with Dr. Hakky 10/21/2025.
Pre-op erect measurements:
8.5"L and 6.4”C
Post-op: 8.9” L and 6.2” C at 10 months
Pre-op erect measurements:
8.5"L and 6.4”C
Post-op: 8.9” L and 6.2” C at 10 months
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Bearskin777
- Posts: 29
- Joined: Tue Jul 21, 2026 6:26 am
- Location: Atlanta
Re: Does anyone miss their pre-op softie?
ElbowRoom wrote:If I was magically given back perfect natural erectile function, I'd seriously miss this big hawg hanging down and making me look like a god when naked.
And as much as we both love to be naked, why should we deny anyone the chance to miss that?
61 yrs old, gay, married. Nudist and exhibitionist. ED for 10 years, recently found Peyronies. Atlanta. Titan via Dr. Hakky October 20, 2026. 7"x6" before Peyronies, 6.25 x 6.25" post-Peyronies with moderate up-curve.
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cbinspok
- Posts: 1145
- Joined: Wed Feb 03, 2021 7:45 pm
Re: Does anyone miss their pre-op softie?
Rider1400 wrote:Nope. After the first few months it becomes your new normal and you forget how it was before. However I recently had a revision and got and infection twice and then was explanted for 3 months….. so I had my softie back for 3 months!! I hated ever single moment of it! Couldn’t wait to get my semi boner back all the time. I’m 3 weeks and a couple days reimplanted and can’t keep my hands off of it! It’s so great to have my semi back all the time. Just can’t wait to get to start cycling it to see where I get pumped up and actually get to start using it!
Rider, Its great to hear you're doing well after the competitions. enjoy the road back brother.
hugs
71 years now,Ed twenty years. A sever break to penis, vit E, pataba, Viagra, massage Ved cilas, exhausted, I tossed in my towel, Op for implant Mar 18, 2021 AMS LGX 18 x12 + 1 3cm RTE,yep standard size, happily gained girth and length,.. stay hwp!
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Bearskin777
- Posts: 29
- Joined: Tue Jul 21, 2026 6:26 am
- Location: Atlanta
Re: Does anyone miss their pre-op softie?
Rider1400 wrote:Nope. After the first few months it becomes your new normal and you forget how it was before. However I recently had a revision and got and infection twice and then was explanted for 3 months….. so I had my softie back for 3 months!! I hated ever single moment of it! Couldn’t wait to get my semi boner back all the time. I’m 3 weeks and a couple days reimplanted and can’t keep my hands off of it! It’s so great to have my semi back all the time. Just can’t wait to get to start cycling it to see where I get pumped up and actually get to start using it!
Glad to hear you're better and enjoying life again!
61 yrs old, gay, married. Nudist and exhibitionist. ED for 10 years, recently found Peyronies. Atlanta. Titan via Dr. Hakky October 20, 2026. 7"x6" before Peyronies, 6.25 x 6.25" post-Peyronies with moderate up-curve.
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