1st time sex with implant, pics 7,13 (86th PIV)

[CanGetItUpButNotOff]

Hi again, Richard. Since you're keeping such close track of your, ahem "encounters", I wonder if you could estimate you and your wife's frequency? We're 72 and, to my wife's chagrin, I keep detailed records (primarily to monitor the TriMix shot locations and dosage response) of-each shot and intercourse or blowjob attempt and whether a successful orgasm for each of us.

Drumroll… the results:
My success rate (cumming): 83%
Frequency of my successful attempts: once per 4½ days
Frequency of wife's successful attempts: once per 6½ days
(You could extrapolate from the latter two numbers that she cums about ⅔ of the time I do)
I switch the TriMix left and right, and move from the 9/10 o'clock to the 2/3 o'clock and up and down the shaft in 3 positions (for a pattern of 12 different locations)

Considering how wrecked I felt after anorgasmia began creeping in, I'm very happy with the 83%. You can see from my sig, that I have tried just about everything under the sun so I know 83% is an improvement but because of my variety of modalities I can't say which ones are the most effective.

[richard_goes_bionic]

If I can give you a correct answer I have to explain and start from the beginning of my journey. Operated 6.11.25 first clear for cycling 2.2.26 but clearance cycling with sex. So i started my record that time which is now 9 months ago. That gives an average of 9 PIV in one month. Every 3 day. But in this time we also have been separated several weeks which put down the rate in reality on 2 5 days.
When it comes to climax rate I am far in front of her now the reasons I will get into later. I have not checked my rate compare to the number of intercourse. But I have a good feeling of about 75% all together I am able to come, I guess.
There are several masturbations in this time frame which i did not record. But be my guest and go through my journal you will find exact number.
She was an easy comer (still is if right circumstances) but age and health also takes its toll from her. Uterus cancer removal, 2 back surgeries one shoulder last year with hell of recovery gives us every day challenges when it comes to sex. This unfortunately takes her rate of climax dramatically down but still she is a sport to support our/my sexlife. In addition comes that I need much longer now to reach orgasm than before, pounding for one hour is not what she needs right now.
In my opinion, for a guy with heavy ED you still have a tremendous sexlife. But I think this is on the cost of your health and your penis.
Bro get an implant trimix fucks up your dick sooner than later.

All the best.
Richard

[SWorks17]

You know Richard, with all the circumstances that you and your wife have been through, you guys are still having a pretty good sex life, which is amazing!

I’m gonna PM you about your wife’s cancer journey.

Your Bionic Brother in Texas
SWorks

[richard_goes_bionic]

thanks brother I appreciate your acknowledgement
Its just I feel it is more a favour now from her side than something what comes from her desire too and this again I struggle with.
My sexdrive has gone a little out of control and she cannot deal with it. That makes me both sad and sometimes angry because I dont want that my ability turns out to be a curse instead of a positive thing.
Tried to have sex today but got turned down. Our relationship is under stress. I know I am to selfish but the drive is strong as hell.
She suggested already I should go to a pro but this I cannot do because its the same turn off, they also only do me a favour, just for the money.
I need the opposite person to enjoy what I do to her, that gives you hornyness and in the end satisfaction.

Yes please feel free to PM.

[richard_goes_bionic]

Maybe I have to work on my selfishness and not claim to much from her now because I can all the time. She was there also when I could not satisfy her.
Today number 86 in a nice new shaved PIV in spoon position with a strong orgasm for me.
I accept her favour and hope she will be soon ready to reach climax herself again.
I need to consider this too that we are screwing like teenagers in an age where the most turn the light off and go to sleep.

[click64]

Hi Dick,

I noticed that you two are still into "69". I hope I still want "69" at 69.
Please keep the updates cuming.

[AnotherOldFart]

Can’t wait for your 87th-100th PIV update bionic brother!

[LGXDownunder]

Richard, I really enjoy your posts and sense of humour. Likewise I've been to a nude beach a couple of times since implanted, with now much bigger flaccid dick swinging freely. It was liberating. Mrs isn't into that but sometimes joins me for a skinny dip in the pool at home.

I can also relate to your frustration and feelings. With my implant now well and truly "run in" I can literally fuck like a teenager. And I would do that every day if I could as I'm constantly horny. But I have to be mindful that my wife doesn't have as strong a libido as me, and she also has long standing chronic back problems.

I can't complain as we still have PIV sex three times a week. She enjoys it but can't orgasm from it, but can sometimes get close. Always get her off with toys before we start PIV. I love to then pound away for an hour or more, but I need to be aware that her back sometimes hurts long before that. I do try and take a few breaks and give her some clit stimulation, which helps. Thankfully I have pretty good control over when I climax and can finish early if she's too uncomfortable.

So I get how you feel in relation to your own needs and your wife's condition. I don't have an answer except to keep communicating with each other. I do sometimes wonder what I would do if mrs is no longer able or interested to continue. I hope that day is a long way in the future.

[richard_goes_bionic]

click, I always loved 69 because you can concentrate on everything at the same time, her lips on your dick with her ass and pussy in front of you. what else can you wish for.

oldfart I hope I can full fill your wish.

my Aussie brother thanks for the nice words, it seems we are sitting in the same boat and should not complain so far with 3 times a week. We now had several intercourse without her able to climax. she is so focused on her situation and the possible pain keeps her from not relaxing. I love to give her long oral as foreplay but as she knows whats coming, even this is not helping.
And her libido is in the cellar when mine is on the roof.
One hour pounding is now off the table. so is our favorite position, cowgirl, due to the movements in her shoulder. usually she is riding me like crazy when she is close and gets a really strong often multiple orgasm.
so now we are on the dull spoon position to keep everything nice and easy and not to heavy thrusting.
If you can control your own climax thats great, since implant mine is 10 times longer to work on and thats frustrates her.
But we have to be happy and humble as long they are willing to help us in our needs.

enjoy the weekend brothers!