My Surgery Journal And Impressions

The final frontier. Deciding when, if and how.
pockie
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Re: My Surgery Journal And Impressions

Postby pockie » Wed Jul 29, 2015 3:23 pm

Thank you for all the suggestion and words of praise.

I wanted to post an update:

June 20th - June 29th

It seems like all the issues I stated are gone. Yes! Life is good again! My penis is hard and reliable, doesn't let me down. Even though it's early, so far it seems like I definitely made the right decision. Only regret is not having the implant done earlier.

I've had plenty of sex these past 10 days, I called my girlfriend maybe 4 or 5 times to come over and have sex. She usually stays for 3-4 hours and we usually have sex 2 to 3 times within that time frame. I have a very high sex drive.

The sensitivity right now is not just better that it was when I had sex for the first time with the implant (June 19th), but it is even better than it was pre-op, the delayed ejaculation issues are gone. I'm able to orgasm much more easily than before I had the surgery, I'm assuming the viagra I had to take pre-surgery was making ejaculation difficult, and now I'm functional without it.
It seems like everytime we have sex it feels better for me, I think this is due to me regaining the confidence in myself, and having sex without the anxiety of my penis going limp.

Both oral sex and regular sex feel great. The pump has gotten much softer and I can pump it up very easily and discreetly. She's not suspecting a thing. Deflation is even easier, takes seconds to do.

chiali09
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Re: My Surgery Journal And Impressions

Postby chiali09 » Wed Jul 29, 2015 5:46 pm

What is your pumping strategy with her? Do you go to the restroom and come out pumped? Or do you do it during foreplay indiscreetly because you've gotten good at it. For me it will have to be the restroom ahead of time. 5 days in I don't think I could pull it off during the pre-game show.

dg_moore
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Re: My Surgery Journal And Impressions

Postby dg_moore » Wed Jul 29, 2015 6:26 pm

What is it with all the secrecy about the implant?
Dave, 80, Maryland - Implant (Titan) 2008 by Dr. Andrew Kramer (failed Sept 2020) - never used due to a stroke that, among other things, ended my sex life.
Life is not the way it's supposed to be, it's the way it is.

MickCrowder
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Re: My Surgery Journal And Impressions

Postby MickCrowder » Wed Jul 29, 2015 7:35 pm

I imagine its different if your significant other is your wife (like myself) versus being with several girlfriends. Everybody sees their own situation differently and has to devise the best strategy for themselves.
The good news is... The end result is we all get laid! :)
57 yr old living in Lancaster County, PA. ED for the past 10 yrs. Bionic on July 2, 2015. 22cm Titan OTR. Dr Garber in Philadelphia did the surgery.

chiali09
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Re: My Surgery Journal And Impressions

Postby chiali09 » Wed Jul 29, 2015 7:36 pm

dg_moore wrote:What is it with all the secrecy about the implant?
I agree with that. No big deal.

But I ask you the same question with your wife. When do you pump? My girlfriend knows because she was with me, but I still can't see myself pumping it beforehand. I have no idea what I will do the first time, so I would like a take from each of you if you wouldn't mind. I don't know how my first time is gonna go. I feel like a Virgin all over again. I really don't know what to do

MickCrowder
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Re: My Surgery Journal And Impressions

Postby MickCrowder » Wed Jul 29, 2015 7:54 pm

I either pump it up while we are playing to start the engines or let her pump it some. Its kinda fun when both of us play with my balls. She lets me know how hard she wants my dick to be - medium, mostly hard or drive-a-nail hard.
If it seems like she is in a hurry i just pump it soon as my shorts hit the floor before any :twisted: action starts.
57 yr old living in Lancaster County, PA. ED for the past 10 yrs. Bionic on July 2, 2015. 22cm Titan OTR. Dr Garber in Philadelphia did the surgery.

chiali09
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Re: My Surgery Journal And Impressions

Postby chiali09 » Wed Jul 29, 2015 8:36 pm

MickCrowder wrote:I either pump it up while we are playing to start the engines or let her pump it some. Its kinda fun when both of us play with my balls. She lets me know how hard she wants my dick to be - medium, mostly hard or drive-a-nail hard.
If it seems like she is in a hurry i just pump it soon as my shorts hit the floor before any :twisted: action starts.


This is good stuff! Thank you. I am seriously freaking out about my first time. Cycling I know it's gonna work, so that's good. But I still want things to go as natural/rico suave as possible. I'm sure in a couple months my situation will mirror yours. At least I hope it does!

pockie
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Re: My Surgery Journal And Impressions

Postby pockie » Thu Jul 30, 2015 2:07 am

Regarding the secrecy I'd be only open to revealing about the implant if I'm into a serious long-term relationship. I don't want the whole world to know about it. Younger guys are more concerned about this, I'm 29.

About the question on how I pump it discreetly-
I would usually head over to the bathroom, pump it up there, then tuck the boner neatly in my pants. After that, I'll go over to her (since it's tucked she doesn't notice it) and start kissing her, touching her, soon after she stars touching me and discovers the boner - she is very flattered, it seems as if her touch/us making out made the erection happen just like it normally would.

As far as deflating is concerned, I can do it in seconds - while in bed I'll just turn away from her, press the deflate button and squeeze the penis. Within seconds I'm flaccid just like I would normally be without an implant

You could also start eating her out, and pump it up while you're doing it.

Yarak84
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Re: My Surgery Journal And Impressions

Postby Yarak84 » Tue Nov 15, 2016 4:26 pm

Hello
First off al I want to say that I am very happy to have found this forum and especially your post. That made me do a lot of research about dr Eid and it seems a lot of people are happy with their results with him. I'm in a similar situation to what you have been through, I am also young (31) and also from Europe. Before I found the forum I was going to do the intervention with a local surgeon, but since then I cancelled everything and decided to postpone until I save enough money to do it in the USA. As you can imagine, I'm also absolutely terrified about size loss. I read the horror stories. It seems the common denominator is the bad or average doctor. From what I read, seems like dr Eid is very emphatic about this issue so he always aggressively sizes the implant. If you don't mind, could you please answer me a few questions?

1. What size was your penis in flacid state before the surgery and what size is it now? About the erect size you already mentioned in the post but you didn't say anything about flacid. What about circumference? Have you gained or lost some?

2. Given that over a year passed, how do you feel? How is the sex life? Do you get comfortable with the device? Is it easy to pump and conceal it from women if you want to? What's your technique after a year of using it, do you go to the bathroom or do you pump it during foreplay?

3. I see you made a very quick recovery and after only one week you were already pumping and after 3 weeks you were pumping to the max. What did dr Eid say about this? Is this more the exception than the rule or is it common for young guys to heal faster? I've also read that the sooner you start pumping, the better the chances are to regain the initial size because it doesn't heal over a 20-30% pumped up device.

4. How much did the intervention cost if you don't mind telling?Please PM me if you don't feel comfortable saying that here. I hear it's about 30k usd. If I would get results similar to yours I would not mind the price even if it takes one more year to save up. If there will be little to no size loss(I am willing to accept 1.5 cm of loss, but not with a peace of mind, the best scenario is that I lose nothing) it would still be the best money I will ever spend


Sorry to bother you with all the questions, I would get in a conference call with dr Eid so he could answer all of this, but since I'm a year away from having the money, I thought I should wait a little until I do that... I also want to contact as many of his former patients as I can to hear unbiased opinions.

Thank you in advance


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