Advice for women...

[rachell]

I just realized that the guy that I yearned for two years to get in bed with has a penile implant (erection pump).I felt it during our last intercourse. I waited about 2 years to get in bed with him...I don't care about the implant, it does not decrease my sexual desire for him...I am just wandering if the ones in this forum who have one could give me some tips& tricks for cautions of handling the penis and increasing pleasure...For sure I won't let him know I realized he has it...
Any tips & tricks & advices is highly appreciated!

[ED2013]

No tips or tricks are needed. He can stay hard as long as he or you wants to. Enjoy!

[DaveET1]

He won't mind at all if he knows you know. Maybe he'll let you pump it up and stuff. It can be a lot of fun, and as has been said he can keep his erection for as long as you both wish (or even longer).

Go get him and love him, but be sure he loves you back.

[adamshea]

No special treatment needed. Works as well if not better than original equipment. My wife loves my implant and say it feels and looks the same except it's just bigger.

[Lost Sheep]

I just realized that the guy that I yearned for two years to get in bed with has a penile implant (erection pump).I felt it during our last intercourse. I waited about 2 years to get in bed with him...I don't care about the implant, it does not decrease my sexual desire for him...I am just wandering if the ones in this forum who have one could give me some tips& tricks for cautions of handling the penis and increasing pleasure...For sure I won't let him know I realized he has it...
Any tips & tricks & advices is highly appreciated!

Welcome to the forum, Rachell. Bless you for caring enough to join and ask for advice.

Some men are a bit sensitive about having an implant or having ED or having any issues at all. That you are understanding about this may be all that you need to bring to the relationship. So be assured.

I am writing this on a mobile device, so very clumsy. I will expand on my thoughts later.

Your guy is a lucky man, indeed, to know you.

[Lost Sheep]

.For sure I won't let him know I realized he has it...

One thing to consider: Keeping a secret from one's lover drains one's emotional energy.

I opine that he would like to unburden himself to you. (I could be wrong, but I hope not for your sake if you want a long-term relationship). If he feels emotionall "safe" he will. What you do to make him feel so is up to you.

[stiffupperlip]

I'm curious. How many times did you have sex before you noticed he had an implant? And how did you notice? Also from a woman's point of view how did it feel? Did it feel like a normal penis?

[Xomanow]

Yes,....I have a tip for you.....first, as others have stated.....you don't need to do anything out of the ordinary or limit yourself (or your kink if present)......but I would suggest this:

If/when you are on top and you raise yourself high and his penis becomes disengaged from you.....don't slam yourself back down on him, but lower yourself slowly.....because if he misses your vagina, it's going to hurt......yes, even if he wasn't implanted it would hurt but more so with the implant.....at least that's my experience......

[RichardTheFrog]

If/when you are on top and you raise yourself high and his penis becomes disengaged from you.....don't slam yourself back down on him, but lower yourself slowly.....because if he misses your vagina, it's going to hurt......yes, even if he wasn't implanted it would hurt but more so with the implant.....at least that's my experience......

Thank you!

This is exactly what I'm worried about. Not so much "hurting," but breaking.

At this point, just over a month out, I'm worried about this even in other positions.

[Lost Sheep]

I just realized that the guy that I yearned for two years to get in bed with has a penile implant (erection pump).I felt it during our last intercourse. I waited about 2 years to get in bed with him...I don't care about the implant, it does not decrease my sexual desire for him...I am just wandering if the ones in this forum who have one could give me some tips& tricks for cautions of handling the penis and increasing pleasure...For sure I won't let him know I realized he has it...
Any tips & tricks & advices is highly appreciated!

I sent you a private message (PM) as well.

You have invested two years. Please invest a couple hours to read these, and to find some more of your own. I found these just paging through likely sub-forums.

I truly do wish you the best, for I believe you are sincere and caring. A few hours spent here will return untold benefits to your love life (both of you).

These threads may give you some insight into how durable an implant is. Do not be put off by the thread titles.
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=7577
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=7571
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=7538
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=7259
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=7353
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=7325
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=7269


These threads do not address your question, but you might enjoy reading them
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=7365
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=7477

This VERY short thread might give you some ideas on how to broach the subject
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=7383
but I suggest going with the bare-faced truth, but gently.

This thread, I think will be VERY valuable to you. Ignore most of the posts on first page, though.
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=6513&hilit=woman%27s+perspective
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=6513
and this one might be worthwhile as well
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=5113