TANGERINE wrote:a Being able to get her man "erect and hard" proves to a woman that she is sexy, and that she is attractive to her mate. If that proof is gone, then some women, especially the neurotic and sexually insecure ones, will be bothered by the notion that the bionic man's erection is "fake."...Dr Virginia Sadock states:...In my practice, I spend a lot of time reassuring them that this isn’t the case — and I tell men they must reassure the women too.”
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Second Moral of the story: "own your situation and act with confidence" (in other words, if you are bald--own it, if you are bionic and need to pump up--own it) None of us are perfect, and we need to try to feel confident in our own skin.
Above quote highly edited, for brevity and for focus
Assurance of being desired can be given to a woman in many ways. It has been said that a man doing the dishes or vacuuming is a turn-on to a woman (primarily because, in most cases, a man making an effort to help with "drudgery" housework is so rare that the small effort feels to her as a grand gesture). For sure, if a woman is tired out from doing laundry, cooking, dishes and making the bed, she is not likely to want to mess up the sheets with carefree love-making, either because she knows she will have to change those sheets tomorrow.
Make an effort to lighten her load and tell her it is because you apprecitate all she does (and don not mention sex) for you. The warm feelings will flow from her in more ways than one.
Just a generalization, but it does have validity in many cases. Especially tru where there is a loving and caring foundation of trust from which to build. If you don't have that, then start building it TODAY.
