The Opinion of the Wife of GF.

[Hawkman]

I always wanted her to wake me up in the middle of the night but it has only happened once in over 30 years... I guess she loves her sleep too much.

Larry

Strangely it happens to us frequently (at least monthly)which was not always smooth when I used a VED especially if It was left in the bathroom. Nothing like being madly honey and having to look for a VED . Sometimes if I am awake I will start it by subtly putting my hand on her or putting her hand on me as she is sleeping. The message telegraphs through the subconscious. It starts out very subtle and builds. There have been times when we were both asleep and were almost in mad passionate sex before we woke up. It is great but strange. You would think if we were that horny we would just connect during the day since we are usually both home.

[Larry10625]

I always wanted her to wake me up in the middle of the night but it has only happened once in over 30 years... I guess she loves her sleep too much.

Larry

Strangely it happens to us frequently (at least monthly)which was not always smooth when I used a VED especially if It was left in the bathroom. Nothing like being madly honey and having to look for a VED . Sometimes if I am awake I will start it by subtly putting my hand on her or putting her hand on me as she is sleeping. The message telegraphs through the subconscious. It starts out very subtle and builds. There have been times when we were both asleep and were almost in mad passionate sex before we woke up. It is great but strange. You would think if we were that horny we would just connect during the day since we are usually both home.

lol... and I thought I was the only one that tried those subtle hints... IF I was lucky enough to get some it had to be close to the time she was getting up anyway AND, she made me tickle her back (for what seemed like an hour but was probably more like 5 minutes). I was hornier than a three peckered billy goat and she wants me to tickle her back... WTF...

Back in the mid 90's she would wake me up giving me head... nothing else. She did not finish the job and, because of work, I seldom had time to finish myself.

Larry

[kosh200]

Hey all, I get activated on 10/5, this will be 4 week’s post op. Do you think I will be cleared for sex? When did you all get cleared to do it? Also, how soon after learning to use the pump did you have sex? Did you wait to learn real well how to use it before engaging?

[cincinnatus1951]

Koah: Was released for sex at 6 weeks. Varies depending on the doc, residual swelling, incision state, etc. First time take it slow and use lots of lube. Enjoy.
cincinnatus

[rancherejim]

I have a wife that cares nothing about my implant. She didn't care if I could get it up or not. No sex in my house for the last several years. I stay married because she is now ill and I just can't bring myself to leave her.
Now my girlfriend just loves my dick. Sometimes more than once a day. Just started having sex with her after my surgery so she didn't know the old dick. I told her about it before we ever had sex. She had never heard of a bionic dick. Now she knows it all to well.
I made a very good decision, really nice to know I won't go limp halfway through a session.

[steveb1]

I am scheduled for surgery on Oct. 29. My wife is going with me. She seems excited. I guess we'll see if the old girl still has some life. hehehe

[roksolid]

Hey all, I get activated on 10/5, this will be 4 week’s post op. Do you think I will be cleared for sex? When did you all get cleared to do it? Also, how soon after learning to use the pump did you have sex? Did you wait to learn real well how to use it before engaging?

My doctor released me at about 3 weeks and change. My swelling had gone down and I had no infections so he said just go easy until you get a feel for the logistics of a pneumatic dick.

As horny as I was, I was still in some pain. Not a lot though.

rok

[Larry10625]

Hey all, I get activated on 10/5, this will be 4 week’s post op. Do you think I will be cleared for sex? When did you all get cleared to do it? Also, how soon after learning to use the pump did you have sex? Did you wait to learn real well how to use it before engaging?

For me, it was 6 weeks. Cheers

Larry

[Hawkman]

When did you all get cleared to do it? Also, how soon after learning to use the pump did you have sex? Did you wait to learn real well how to use it before engaging?

I had sex at 21 days. I was cycling the implant at 3 days so I knew how to use the pump. It takes little time to learn the pump, a little more time to master deflating.

[MK1965]

Hey all, I get activated on 10/5, this will be 4 week’s post op. Do you think I will be cleared for sex? When did you all get cleared to do it? Also, how soon after learning to use the pump did you have sex? Did you wait to learn real well how to use it before engaging?

Kosh,
My surgery was just day before yours.
My first post op appointment was on 9/17 and doc was supposed to deflate me. When he so how my healing progressed well he asked me if I want to learn how to inflate and deflate myself. He showed me and asked me to do inflate/ deflate myself which I was able to demonstrate for him.
He cleared me for cycling on 12th post op day.
So, I am cycling it twice a day since 9/17.
Atthe end of appointment, he reiterated it again: NO SEX FOR 6 WEEKS.
Today, I am at 3 weeks mark so have to wait another 3 before I get cleared for sex.
MK