merrix wrote:Apparently length is important beyond risk management.
I am no doctor and cannot say neither that your dick will/won't grow from hanging a book in it, nor that it will damage your dick.
But - and this is big fuckin but - I would not risk it.
The trade-off: Potentially being 6.5" instead of 6" (which is meaningless, no woman will notice the difference) at the risk of damaging your dick for life. Seriously?
You say damage doesn't matter since you're getting implanted. Hmmm.
What if you damage the blood flow to your glans?
The implant won't fix that.
Having blood flow to the glans is something that in my opinion is the difference between the implant being the best solution available, but nowhere near the same feeling as fucking with a natural dick for you or your partner - or having what basically feels just the same for both you and your partner as a natural dick.
So be careful and don't do something you will regret.
I'm no doctor, either, just a guy doing his best to reconcile the whole spectrum of what guys share here anecdotally vs what my surgeon tells me vs shit tons of medical literature vs what just makes sense to me or doesn't.
Fully acknowledge - everyone is different (I'm referring to partners, the people we are planting our dicks into). But no part of me believes that, on the whole, a woman, a guy, a vagina, or an ass knows the difference between 6" and 6.5". It's just not credible. That's some story we're telling ourselves which just makes no sense. A difference of 2+ inches or something? Sure. You're banging up against her cervix at some point and that'll get her attention. Not in a positive way, typically.
Girth? Different fucking story altogether, I'll grant you that and I say that as a guy who's lost a full inch of girth post-implant and as a guy whose partner is a girth-loving penetration animal.
Whatever penile calisthenics and gymnastics work for you...awesome. I'm certainly not diminishing or judging any of that at all. But none of it is a risk-free endeavor. In terms of going into the implant path with the best healthiest dick possible...maybe just do that. There's risk inherent in every angle of implantation, why add more to the risk equation than is truly necessary? I just couldn't bring myself to stretch and put my dick in traction and all of that. That's just me.
To merrix's point on blood flow to the glans - this was a key part of the discussion I had with my surgeon two days ago at my one year follow up. I had an extremely competent surgeon and a great easy recovery and my new dick works like a charm. Very happy overall. But. And of course there's a "but"...
Via measurements before and after, and via photos, it's clear to he and I both (and certainly to my wife) that the fat thick glans of my pre-implant life is gone. Why? We're working on that. Who the fuck knows, though? Arterial inflow and venous outflow are as much mystery as medical science it seems. My glans is remarkably smaller. It's failure to engorge as before is also a prime contributor to my loss of length, he says the major contributor. So I would just think - protect your blood flow like your future enjoyment depends on it. Because it might.
Interestingly...my glans is still very sensitive. It feels very much like it always had. It's just smaller. Damned if I understand it all.