Frenchie wrote:One of the reasons that I am postponing implant (other than being really young) is that I am really worried about the failure of implant everyday when I go to inflate especially after reading so many failures here. It feels like having a time bomb and everyday could be the last day of your implant if something goes wrong.
I understand that you can do a revision but with every revision still is the chance that some fucked up shit happens and you might even get an infection and totally lose your dick and not get another implant. I know I am too paranoid but it is difficult to make the decision when you are young and still can get a 10seconds erection (worth of nothing anyway)
NO I do not constantly worry about a failure. I follow directions and don’t abuse my implant to prevent an early failure. That’s all I can control to help myself. I learned a long time ago that worrying about things we can’t control stifles a fulfilling life. If my implant fails I’ll deal with it by the best solution available at that time. Here and now I’ll enjoy the benefits. Why should I waste one precious minute thinking of it as a ticking bomb?
You are a young man so perhaps you haven’t yet experienced the loss of friends to car accidents, cancer, ALS, and other ugly shit that can end life far too early. My intention isn’t to cast doom and gloom. I’m simply saying; enjoy today - tomorrow isn’t guaranteed.
As I recall, you previously posted that you’re 24 years young. According to some studies, women reach their peak orgasmic frequency in their 30s and by age 55 (post menopause) 35%-40% of women loose interest in sex. So the girls in your age group are entering the horniest years of their life. Meanwhile you are choosing to sit on the bench worrying about an implant failing which you never got! I guess I’m just challenging your logic in depriving yourself of sex during the best years of your life - and for what? To protect your limp dick so it can atrophy some more and be even limper when you’re older? Remember, tomorrow isn’t guaranteed and VL doesn’t improve with age.
Consider this; there is a 12.7% probability you will be dead by age 55 and 6% probability you won’t see your 41st birthday. This grim data is according to the SSA Actuarial Life Table for males in the US. For the sake of illustration, let’s say you work up the courage to get implanted on your 25th birthday. Then two revisions follow before age 55. That’s 3 surgeries across 30 years based on a very conservative 10yr avg life span. In reality there is a higher probability of you dying from other causes vs getting an infection from revisions over the next 30 years. This example assumes, as you have, that IPPs and surgical techniques will not improve over the next 30 years. But I think it’s very likely you will be around many years benefiting from many medical advancements during your lifetime. So I believe it’s very possible for you to enjoy sex now and well into your later years. And all of this is possible without your dick falling off.
Problems here are typically discussed without representation from the thousands of implanted men who never visit this Forum. So what might appear like a huge issue on FT, in reality may be a very small percentage of occurrences across the total population of implanted men. Below is a link to a 2019 report estimating 50,000 penile implant surgeries are performed annually worldwide. So from that we can conclude 250,000 men received implants in the past 5 years. FT currently has 14,161 members spread across 23 different ED discussion forums. Obviously not all those members are implanted or currently active on the implant discussion forum. So I can’t arrive at a precise number but I think it’s safe to conclude; less than 1% of all men implanted in the last 5 years are represented on this forum.
In closing, what you read here is valuable but it’s not a substitute for professional medical advice. There will always be someone telling you “don’t do it” and someone else saying “ I regret not getting my implant sooner”. And both are 100% correct for their situation. Instead, take the valuable information you learn here to have intelligent discussions with your medical providers. Then make the decision best for you based on sound medical advice.
https://jovs.amegroups.com/article/view/29031/html#:~:text=Abstract%3A%20Every%20year%2050%2C000%20penile,higher%20volumes%20have%20better%20outcomes.
A-69, M-44, Battling ED since partial NS-Prostatectomy 2012 plus SRT for PCa return 2016
Pills & injections ran their course. Implant 11/11/22 by Dr. Eid.
Titan Classic 22cm, LH cylinder trimmed, Ectopic reservoir placement.