Telling your SO about the implant

[ThailandBound]

Has she noticed that you don't inject any more?

Women can be clueless about the mechanisms of erection, but also pretty savvy about sexual things...and observant.

I recall, a couple years ago a woman in her 20s who posted (became a member without realizing this is a "men only" site) that she figured out her lover was implanted after her second sexual encounter with him. She decided not to tell him she knew. Figured he would tell her if she wanted her to know. Didn't reduce her enjoyment of the sex and she did not mention to me any distress over him keeping a secret from her. His choice, which she accepted. Not looking a gift horse in the mouth. That was her choice.

But keeping a secret usually puts a strain on a relationship. If you are intent on this being a long-term relationship, remember that trust is an element of happiness. Besides, she might enjoy participating in the pumping up process.

You mentioned having sex with other women, too. Does she know? Does she accept/approve?

She never knew that I injected and my implant is brand new. I am just beginning the learning phase of my new life pleasure.
No. She does not know and I am content with just her. She is always accommodating and enjoys sex as much as I do (well, maybe almost as much. I have a major libido) without any inhibitions.
However, sex is my fountain of youth and I need it to remain strong and young. If, for whatever reason, especially now that I have my new, always guaranteed and ready tool, she can not satisfy it, I have to find it elsewhere. Cold? Maybe so, but I am not a martyr. I was in a 46 year, sexless marriage up until 4 years ago and on a mission to make up for lost time while I still have some time. This is why I took the leap from injections to an implant. Injections did not allow me the abundance of sex I care to have and the spontaneity, certainty and ease of it no matter where I am.

Yours is a great attitude. Men go to their graves unfulfilled and dreaming of what might have been. You’ve decided to live life on your terms. Good on you. I’m the same. Not letting my implant sit in the garage.

[Gt1956]

My opinion is still thus: men care about their dicks much more than women. This is true for size, shape, cut vs uncut.

I don't think this is true...but I respect your opinion

I'm in a unique position on two of his claims. I did have a minor circumcision. Although my head was still basically covered at flacid. She didn't care.

Yesterday morning she woke me up by playing with me. I did reach down & give her 4-5 pumps to get more to fondle. Finally I went the rest of the way. She slipped on top & had some fun.

True, long term relationship. Other than she doesn't seem to want to pump it. She is perfectly willing to change from uncircumcised & no implant to me being both. A dick that works rules over one that doesn't work every single time.

[Stupid]

My vote. Say nothing. Less said sooner mended is the phrase. Enjoy one less thing to worry about now. Listen to ssm YouTube and red pill advice. The book says women respect men who don't overshare all things all the time. I agree. My opinion that's all....

[hectorm64]

I agree with most guys here. As long as she is happy, you don't need to go into details.
Enjoy the fantasy of having a superpower. I do.