Plausible reason for implant when dating

[LGXDownunder]

It’s been about a year post surgery. No complications. Everything seems to be fine and venturing back into dating and the apps.

Honestly, being intimate with a girl, she is going to immediately feel the hard pump. The front tips are also somewhat noticeable, at least until the blood flow to that area.

The real question is there in a plausible reason for why one has a implant? No one wants to end up on one of those sites like ‘are we dating the same guy’ with the giant Scarlet letter labeled as some freak. Especially when dating pool is somewhat smaller and everyone knows everyone.

Perhaps complication from a enlarged prostate? Biking accident? Certainly do not want to claim any kind of cancer. It’s got a hold up to a Google search. Women these days are like NSA investigators.

I know there’s going be blowback from readers who are just like go out and enjoy it, but I’m just trying to take a rational approach.

OK I've been married for nearly 47 years, so maybe a bit naive, but are girls really that shallow now?
Also I don't think my pump or tips are noticeable unless under a very detailed examination.
Personally I would just tell the truth, if the subject even comes up. What you can do, non implanted guys can't .
In the moment I reckon you probably have less to worry about than you think.
Best wishes for your renewed sex life .

[fucked0ne]

Here’s a radical thought: what’s wrong with just telling them you have an implant? I don’t think they’ll give a shit when you explain to them that it’ll never go down.

[danielocean]

Lots of great thoughts and insights. Much appreciated.

[Totitoti]

It’s been about a year post surgery. No complications. Everything seems to be fine and venturing back into dating and the apps.

Honestly, being intimate with a girl, she is going to immediately feel the hard pump. The front tips are also somewhat noticeable, at least until the blood flow to that area.

The real question is there in a plausible reason for why one has a implant? No one wants to end up on one of those sites like ‘are we dating the same guy’ with the giant Scarlet letter labeled as some freak. Especially when dating pool is somewhat smaller and everyone knows everyone.

Perhaps complication from a enlarged prostate? Biking accident? Certainly do not want to claim any kind of cancer. It’s got a hold up to a Google search. Women these days are like NSA investigators.

I know there’s going be blowback from readers who are just like go out and enjoy it, but I’m just trying to take a rational approach.

Dude is she going to fuck you or is she going to do an autopsy on you

She will not notice go and enjoy the thing, fuck her till the next morning, and she will probably ask how do you do it and you will say I have a bionick dick, and that way when all the other girls in town now about it they will all want to check you out

[Elyrev]

Implanted with a Titan 24 Jan 2022. I was active within 5 weeks post op. I am single and after years of struggling with ED the confidence of knowing you can do what you or your partner wants-as long or in any position you want- Was a huge confidence builder. In my 50’s I have more sex partners in the past three years than I have my entire life. There have never been any complaints, in fact lot’s of demand and repeat customers, so to speak.
I have only had a couple even notice the pump, I used the excuse I had a cyst. If you want a relationship, maybe just be truthful. I don’t think anyone will care. As for pumping you learn how to get a few pumps in here and there unnoticed during foreplay. To me kind of simulates naturally getting aroused. You went through the pain of the implant- go use it!! Don’t worry they will be satisfied even if they know.

[Elyrev]

Implanted with a Titan 26 Jan 2022. I was active within 5 weeks post op. I am single and after years of struggling with ED the confidence of knowing you can do what you or your partner wants-as long or in any position you want- Was a huge confidence builder. In my 50’s I have more sex partners in the past three years than I have my entire life. There have never been any complaints, in fact lot’s of demand and repeat customers, so to speak.
I have only had a couple even notice the pump, I used the excuse I had a cyst. If you want a relationship, maybe just be truthful. I don’t think anyone will care. As for pumping you learn how to get a few pumps in here and there unnoticed during foreplay. To me kind of simulates naturally getting aroused. You went through the pain of the implant- go use it!! Don’t worry they will be satisfied even if they know.

It’s been about a year post surgery. No complications. Everything seems to be fine and venturing back into dating and the apps.

Honestly, being intimate with a girl, she is going to immediately feel the hard pump. The front tips are also somewhat noticeable, at least until the blood flow to that area.

The real question is there in a plausible reason for why one has a implant? No one wants to end up on one of those sites like ‘are we dating the same guy’ with the giant Scarlet letter labeled as some freak. Especially when dating pool is somewhat smaller and everyone knows everyone.

Perhaps complication from a enlarged prostate? Biking accident? Certainly do not want to claim any kind of cancer. It’s got a hold up to a Google search. Women these days are like NSA investigators.

I know there’s going be blowback from readers who are just like go out and enjoy it, but I’m just trying to take a rational approach.

[Time2Change]

According to an article from last year in The Journal of Sexual Medicine, and based on the 2021 National Survey of Sexual Wellbeing, 25% of men your age have ED.

So, for women your age that are dating, there's a good chance that navigating ED comes with the territory.

My point is that it's not uncommon for you to have ED, and, hopefully, unlikely that a date will hold it against you.

Your signature indicates a legitimate cause of ED. My ED was caused by damage to my pudendal nerve while bicycling. But ED also becomes more prevalent in older men as part of aging.

I don't think you need to come up with a false reason for your implant As my doctor pointed out to me at the end of my appointment with him in January, you now have the capability of a man half your age when it comes to sex. I think women will enjoy that.

I hope this helps.

[principles]

I've had likely a hundred+ sexual partners with my all my implants at this point. I currently have a new GF, it's been close to a year. She doesn't know I'm implanted, and doesn't need to know that in the foreseeable future.
In all cases, I never let them touch my balls. If they try to touch my balls, I simply say I don't like it, it's too sensitive for me, and that's the end of the conversation. Be dominant in bed, be assertive, you direct the flow in bed. That's it, really.
Also, use a cockring. With the additional engorgement, it helps masking any kinks/tubing/edges etc you might have.

[dan_bionic]

I've had likely a hundred+ sexual partners with my all my implants at this point. I currently have a new GF, it's been close to a year. She doesn't know I'm implanted, and doesn't need to know that in the foreseeable future.
In all cases, I never let them touch my balls. If they try to touch my balls, I simply say I don't like it, it's too sensitive for me, and that's the end of the conversation. Be dominant in bed, be assertive, you direct the flow in bed. That's it, really.
Also, use a cockring. With the additional engorgement, it helps masking any kinks/tubing/edges etc you might have.

God point!
Don't be afraid to be the dominant part in bed, now you have the "balls" to be dominant, direct the girls, where they want to be, to have the best sex of their lives.
Keep going
Dan

[Bigdave]

I've been flirting via text with this chick in her 30's. We've been talking about hooking up for some time.
We were both getting pretty hot and horny, and I decided to tell her about my secret, and how it allows me to stay hard for hours.
Her initial reply was "Mmmmmm", and a fire emoji.
Then she said that was good, because she could fuck for hours.
I can't wait till we finally meet.