Hookups, Escorts, etc.

[smartin]

I appreciate the comments so far, but it would be great to get the thread back on point. Any other experiences out there - positive or negative?

[bbb2.5]

Who cares if your are paying the bitch

that's a bit harsh.

Sorry Quoted the wrong post

[nudist]

Tybeeman, my post was remarking on the use of the word "harsh". (Read my first line).


Thinking some more about it, I will add this:

Hookups and whores are people, too. Somebody's daughter, somebody's friend. Someone who has feelings, thoughts, troubles and triumphs.

I don't want to come across as some blue-sky flower-sniffing liberal, but I know from my life's experiences that even the most extreme personalities have more facets than most people can fathom and the reason a woman engages in a hookup or even a career as a sex worker is likely unknown to her partners/clients.

thanks. that was my thoughts when making the comment about being "harsh".
I did NOT mean to start a "bicker-fest". my respect for women is quite high and the comment hit me a little hard.

[bbb2.5]

WOW.... Just want to touch on this subject : A part of this discussion caught my attention, I will be touching on that part and just a bit of information about Escorts. ... Okay not out to offend anyone.....
Not so sure that if that is the way you should view an escort as your "Bitch" and should do what ever you want because your paying them. Escorts are not like a typical "Hook Up". They take great pride in themselves. They take care of their bodies in order to provide their clients with a pleasant experience. Escorts come in every shape size male and females.. All of them know what they are willing to offer a client. They do NOT have to do everything you want. Usually all of this is discussed prior to setting things up with them. Now if during your discussion with your escort, you have told them, I'm going to treat you as my bitch and your going to do what I say regardless. If they agree to that , totally different circumstance. Otherwise keep in mind that every person deserves to be respected. You and your Escort should both be on the same page as far as pleasures goes. It is disrespectful of you to not care if an escorts has an issues with guys that are implanted. I would hope they would not, some might. We all have feelings and what we feel comfortable doing. Same thing applies to Escorts...

[Tybeeman]

OK I must be in left field on this, so if I offended anyone I am sorry. The Post is about, if escorts will respect you, if you have an implant. My responds to an escort, that will refuse to respect me after I am the one paying for the services, man or woman, screw the bitch. As you said, there are professionals out there that will provide the service . In my mind, it is a business, not a love affair. Bottom line if they don’t respect me, I don’t respect them. My 2 cents, Again sorry if that offends you

Hook ups are a different story, but in the words of the great Head Coach Nick Saban of Alabama
“If you haven’t locked it up by midnight, it’s not worth it.”

[smartin]

OK I must be in left field on this, so if I offended anyone I am sorry. The Post is about, if escorts will respect you, if you have an implant. My responds to an escort, that will refuse to respect me after I am the one paying for the services, man or woman, screw the bitch. As you said, there are professionals out there that will provide the service . In my mind, it is a business, not a love affair. Bottom line if they don’t respect me, I don’t respect them. My 2 cents, Again sorry if that offends you

Hook ups are a different story, but in the words of the great Head Coach Nick Saban of Alabama
“If you haven’t locked it up by midnight, it’s not worth it.”

Thank you sir - I appreciate your perspective. Actually, when I posted the original question, I hadn't thought about whether or not the escort would "respect" me. Frankly, I've never given much thought to that. I was thinking more about whether they'd be freaked out by the odd-looking "third testicle" or the pumping/deflating processes; thrilled about the thought of a guy being able to keep it hard (and hopefully give her some pleasure) indefinitely; or pissed because she was going to have to work harder than normal for whatever period of time I booked. Also, if I don't tell her about it upfront, will she figure it out anyway and get upset?

Once I get back in the saddle in a few more weeks, I suppose I'll run the question by my most trusted provider and get her opinion on the matter.

[Tybeeman]

OK I must be in left field on this, so if I offended anyone I am sorry. The Post is about, if escorts will respect you, if you have an implant. My responds to an escort, that will refuse to respect me after I am the one paying for the services, man or woman, screw the bitch. As you said, there are professionals out there that will provide the service . In my mind, it is a business, not a love affair. Bottom line if they don’t respect me, I don’t respect them. My 2 cents, Again sorry if that offends you

Hook ups are a different story, but in the words of the great Head Coach Nick Saban of Alabama
“If you haven’t locked it up by midnight, it’s not worth it.”

Thank you sir - I appreciate your perspective. Actually, when I posted the original question, I hadn't thought about whether or not the escort would "respect" me. Frankly, I've never given much thought to that. I was thinking more about whether they'd be freaked out by the odd-looking "third testicle" or the pumping/deflating processes; thrilled about the thought of a guy being able to keep it hard (and hopefully give her some pleasure) indefinitely; or pissed because she was going to have to work harder than normal for whatever period of time I booked. Also, if I don't tell her about it upfront, will she figure it out anyway and get upset?

Once I get back in the saddle in a few more weeks, I suppose I'll run the question by my most trusted provider and get her opinion on the matter.

With an escort just as any other profession, you get what you paid for. A professional will have no problem with it. Someone will enjoy the thing. Where my pump sits, i can hardly see it. Now if someone starts feeling around down there they will. So if you get a 2 hour appointment she has a lot of time to explore down there. Read some of Catmans post on here he will tell you he has never had a problem with escorts. Even 3 at a time LOL

[Lost Sheep]

Tybeeman, I appreciate your PM (more now than when I answered it). Please accept my apology for being judgemental here. My only excuse is that wives and girlfriends also read FrankTalk (though in very small numbers) and I became heated.

Back on the point of the thread (thanks for the prompt, smartin), but on a facet that probably was not in the original poster's mind. A sex worker hiring out multiple times in a night is economically incentivised against clientele with implants. They can last forever, thereby cutting down on the number of contacts per working shift.

Now, for pickups, hookups and other sexual contacts that are for mutual pleasure, I can see no reason a woman would not appreciate an implanted man. However, there is some evidence that (for reasons of prejudice, fear, feelings of inadequacy etc.) partners are resistant to implanted lovemaking. In the "Introductions and Hellos" area there is a thread entitled "Uncooperative Partner" that touches directly on this issue.

I note that when Viagra first came out, there were many reports of women who were dismayed, saying things like, "Oh, dear, I thought I was through with all that icky/bothersome sex stuff". I am not sure what that implies about relationships among older couples or about implants vs Viagra, but there it is.

From the few reports I have read since joining FrankTalk a year ago, most girlfriends and wives are thrilled to be with an implanted man (especially if the other aspects of the relationship are healthy).

[Tybeeman]

Tybeeman, I appreciate your PM (more now than when I answered it). Please accept my apology for being judgemental here. My only excuse is that wives and girlfriends also read FrankTalk (though in very small numbers) and I became heated.

Back on the point of the thread (thanks for the prompt, smartin), but on a facet that probably was not in the original poster's mind. A sex worker hiring out multiple times in a night is economically incentivised against clientele with implants. They can last forever, thereby cutting down on the number of contacts per working shift.

Now, for pickups, hookups and other sexual contacts that are for mutual pleasure, I can see no reason a woman would not appreciate an implanted man. However, there is some evidence that (for reasons of prejudice, fear, feelings of inadequacy etc.) partners are resistant to implanted lovemaking. In the "Introductions and Hellos" area there is a thread entitled "Uncooperative Partner" that touches directly on this issue.

I note that when Viagra first came out, there were many reports of women who were dismayed, saying things like, "Oh, dear, I thought I was through with all that icky/bothersome sex stuff". I am not sure what that implies about relationships among older couples or about implants vs Viagra, but there it is.

From the few reports I have read since joining FrankTalk a year ago, most girlfriends and wives are thrilled to be with an implanted man (especially if the other aspects of the relationship are healthy).

Thanks for the heads up on (Introductions and Hellos) I am going to read that. Any one there have a problem with an escort refusing service because of it? I would be interested in what there problems were with sex with an implant. But I cringe when i see "girlfriends and wives" show up in a Hookups, Escorts, etc. post.

I will say the more I think about it, I would let them know about the implant up front. They may charge by the hour but the average guy will not go for an hour. Catman has some interesting post on this. He had a 3 hour appointment a few weeks back. May need to get back into the gym and get in shape.

[LMCatman]

.....and the "harshness" passes - now for some "Wicked Sweetness"......This morning I did another 90 minutes with the same three Latinas. Two early twenties, one late thirties. Individually, they are three of my favorite girls. Together they are "a bed full of fun" like I can hardly believe! This morning, one pumped me up - caught a tiny bit of nut on the first squeeze but nothing bad. We took turns eating, riding and being ridden until I finished with a long whimpering "three stooges noises" kinda orgasm. I was 560 dollars including tips. For my fellow voyeurs, when I got there, I watched two in the shower, one shaving her pussy while the other one showered. The third was already ready and "molested" me while I undressed.

Whores are just girls. First, of course, they like your money. They like you to be clean and nice to them. Being "nice" does include some hair pulling and ass slapping. I do treat them (sluttily) respectfully and they treat me the same. I've known these particular girls 2+ years and we have a "friendship" (that revolves around me paying them and them pleasing me).

I have another 8 year "friendship" that has been my "therapy" pre and post RP and pre and post 3 implants. 7 years ago, after RP, I thought my sex life was over. When she made my "limp noodle dick" come, I cried!

As to the question of "refused service" due to the implant....nah - never!!!! Funny though, the only girl that doesn't like my implant basically just doesn't like me! She just plain got tired of sucking my limp little "post RP / pre implant" dick, finished college, got a real job and "mostly retired" from the biz. I only see her once a year or so (I do still like her). Ironically, in May she was my first orgasm since this revision.

Girls are girls. "Civilian" girls who are going to give you pussy are giving YOU pussy, not your implant. If they like you they'll probably like your dick too. But they're giving you pussy because they like YOU!

My Christmas present to myself was 4 girls....a 5th girls showed up and got fucked too (it would have been impolite to ignore her)....)))

Good luck, man....!!!!