Loving this thread! I’d like to add my 2 centavos regarding something not much discussed yet. Lots of great info here on becoming clitoral experts with some pretty fancy fuk’n techniques being shared. I’ll discuss for a moment:
Anal sex.
I’ve mentioned elsewhere on the forum that my girlfriend is a pre operative transgender female. She’s Cambodian, living in Thailand. Here, known as a “ladyboy”. I don’t use the terms “shemale”, “he-she”, or a “chick with a dick”. Simply, “ladyboy” or “trans” when discussing her with others, and with her directly i refer to her as a lady. What years ago was a Cambodian farm boy (her caterpillar years) has given way to her butterfly stage. She is tall, slender, fantastic silicone boobs and a physical structure shaped by years of feminine hormones. She is the most exotic woman i’ve ever been with. Heart of a lamb. Gentle. Looks like a runway model in stiletto heels. If you saw her casually, you’d never know.
After a lifetime of “normal” relationships with women, i discovered that i wasn’t too old to experience something new and very interesting to me. Ladyboys. She’s now my regular girlfriend, and i expect we will live together when i retire in Thailand later this year.
Anyway, that’s us.
She’s a total bottom. I was concerned that the implant might somehow not be as effective with anal, versus vaginal, sex. I am now less than 1 week into my visit with her and we’ve had several long anal sessions. I’ll share something with those of you who have a justifiable anal sex aversion due to concerns about unsavory aromas or unpleasant messiness. A proper ladyboy anticipated these things and almost universally are as clean and fresh as any woman you’ve been with fresh out of the shower. That’s because before sex she always IS fresh out of the shower and has thoroughly cleaned/flushed her insides using a fresh water enema. We go for hours and she remains fresh throughout. She’s very self conscious of this. Anyway…
First. she is amazed by my staying power now. The term Thai ladies (all of them) use to describe a man with a good boner is “to have power”. She has frequently commented in wide-eyed wonder “Wow! You have power!!”. After giving head for awhile, she’s good to go and usually initiates penetration.
She lubes up, both her ass and my dick with Astroglide, and with me laying on my back straddles me, positions my dick in the sweet spot and gently settles in. With my implant, it is fo hard (even at 80%) that there is no question that my Titan rocket will in a moment being launched into her inner space. Once in, the game is on.
She LOVES receiving anal sex and will orgasm this way IF her partner doesn’t cum to soon. By now, she know that with me she’s going to climax. Typically when i do, which at this point im happens at just over an hour. Me. who couldn’t keep it up for more than :20 trimix fueled minutes just this past December.
She likes to be fucked like every lady you guys have described here. At times slow and gentle. At times full on gorilla-fucking. Cowgirl. knees straddling me and sometimes flat footed. (i love that, btw). Reverse cowgirl. Reverse cowgirl with her legs extended, leaning aft into me as i support her weight. Missionary, legs over my shoulders. Doggie style, ass up and laying flat on her belly.
I can pause and rest inside her, typically while spooned, caressing her, talking gently to her. My dick nestled in comfortably inside her with no fear of “uh oh….time is almost elapsed”. We can downshift and talk, and laugh, and kiss….and then when we’ve recharged back at it again.
My dick still has some numbness at the scrotal incision site, upward toward my lower shaft. Glans and upper shaft feel good. Btw, all this at about 80%, which doesn’t hurt. I’m still cycling and full max would be too uncomfortable. I just can’t help but think “omg, when i can get to 100% and it feels good, and when the numbness is gone, whats THAT going to be like?
Granted, this still is an adjustment to “new me”. The equipment. The sensations. The mindset. All a work in progress. But i gotta say, it’s awesome!
So, dear reader, if i can do all that, with anal sex, at only 9 weeks, imagine the possibilities for you! (talking to you lurkers and newly implanted out there)
Active, athletic 63 years old. Sexually, still 33 in my mind and spirit. Pills and injections all worked, until they didn’t. Diagnosed with veinous leakage in 2022. Coloplast Titan. 22 CM. No RTE. Peno-scrotal. Implanted 1/4/23. Dr. Clavell.
. I'm only 2 weeks post-op so way too soon for me to be using my new tool, but I can't wait and hope to have as good of experiences as you are having!