Echegollen wrote: I wondered if you were being cautious to avoid detection.
Not really, no. In the early days I would sorta redirect the girl if she started playing with my nuts. But I eventually got over it and now might even direct her towards my sack. Even so, no one has commented or otherwise reacted to anything.
That said, I spend a lot less time getting blowjobs than I did pre-implant. When my erections were questionable, I used to love lying back and let her do the work and not have to stress too much over going soft! But now that I don’t worry about it, I’d much rather just fuck her. And apparently she prefers that as well, lol. I no longer need to be fluffed, my dick is already hard. If she is not wet yet I lick her, but I’ve found that lots of girls don’t require much prep either when I am ready to go.
One of the things I was not quite prepared for is how much my sexual psychology would change because of the implant. Thinking back, before I got an implant I probably was concerned about how I would conceal it. The whole thing seemed a bit embarrassing. But back then I felt lucky to be getting laid in the first place, and possibly messing with that by her finding out out I had an implant seemed like a serious concern.
But now I am a completely different person when it comes to sex. The confidence that comes from having an on-demand erection has been life changing. And once you tap into that confidence, and see how women respond to it, it changes everything about how you go about it. I don’t sweat anything with women anymore, because I have hundreds of phone numbers and matches on dating apps to turn to if, for whatever reason, the girl I am currently railing doesn’t work out. I no longer sweat much at all, and I am certainly not going to sweat whether she finds a hard lump in my sack. If and when a girl figures out I am implanted, if that were to somehow bother her, it likely would not bother me at all. There are 8 zillion things that go into attraction and compatibility. Why should I sweat that?
Ultimately I think that is the point. No one really cares that you are implanted. Unless you do! There are certainly guys here who have issues with how they feel about themselves post implant. You may be one of the ones that doesn’t like how it worked out for you. But most guys are not like that. The vast majority of implanted guys report high levels of satisfaction with their implant, much higher than pills or injections. But like I said, YMMV.
Be Well,
Leto
