Transitioning from natural to bionic erections (updated)

[atul21]

I relate to this a lot. My confidence was zero because of my ED. However post I got the implant and started cycling I slowly started seeing that I can be hard for as long as I can.

I found a girl to whom I could tell all about my issues and that I have an implant. She said she has no issues. I actually had sex for the first few times only thinking about making sure that the girl enjoys as much as she can. I did not think about how I would feel. I derived satisfaction from the fact that the girl had an amazing time and could have multiple orgasms in every session. She went on to ultimately tell me that this is one of the best sex she has ever had! Slowly now in my last few sessions I have started to get good engorgement (cialis also helps) and have started enjoying.

So my simple advise would be to think that in first few sessions you are only there to please the girl and derive satisfaction from the fact that she will have a great time because of you and your bionic dick. In no time you will start seeing a change in how the brain will start adapting to the implant.

Good luck!

[Lost Sheep]

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I found a girl to whom I could tell all about my issues and that I have an implant. She said she has no issues.

There has been this question floating around for some time and sometimes surfaces on FrankTalk, so I will ask it now in response to your testimony about this one girl.

How common is it for women to have had sex with an implanted man or even to be aware that implants exist?

So, without violating any confidences of hers (or yours), I wonder how many men she had been with before you and how many (if any) were implanted or using other aids to erectile function (that she knew of). Of course her age would be a factor in her ability to have had experiences with men with ED or "cured" ED.

Also, a lot of men on the dating scene (I see you are from India, which I imagine has a different dating scene than in the USA, Britain, Australia, Italy, etc). How did you broach the subject with her?

[atul21]

(edited for focus)
I found a girl to whom I could tell all about my issues and that I have an implant. She said she has no issues.

There has been this question floating around for some time and sometimes surfaces on FrankTalk, so I will ask it now in response to your testimony about this one girl.

How common is it for women to have had sex with an implanted man or even to be aware that implants exist?

So, without violating any confidences of hers (or yours), I wonder how many men she had been with before you and how many (if any) were implanted or using other aids to erectile function (that she knew of). Of course her age would be a factor in her ability to have had experiences with men with ED or "cured" ED.

Also, a lot of men on the dating scene (I see you are from India, which I imagine has a different dating scene than in the USA, Britain, Australia, Italy, etc). How did you broach the subject with her?

So I realised that it would be next to impossible for me to hide the fact that I have something in my dick which is giving me the ability to be erect for very long times. Also, generally women in India of my age group tend to first have a small emotional connect before getting ready to have sex with you. Since I anyway had to get the answer to how women would react to my news of having an implant, I went ahead and told her. In this particular case and also in few others I found that no one was even aware of something called an implant existing. It is the lack of knowledge in women and men both in general which I feel helps. Since they don’t exactly know what it is and what it would feel like, they usually are okay. Unless you end up blowing it up for yourself by saying something stupid.

[Franklin22]

Well, I wanted to go ahead and update this thread. Last night, I decided to take Mr. Bionic for a test drive with a young lady I have been talking to the last couple of weeks. Just a little backstory, We met on a dating site. She is a couple of years older than me, but has a great body and just a really great person. She checks all the boxes for a girlfriend.
We went on a second date Friday night and she invited me in, but was clear she wasn't going to sleep with me on the "first date". It was really the second, but in her mind it was the first I guess. So, I went inside and was sitting next to her on the couch and she just straddled and got on top of me making out. Sounds great right? well the only problem is that I didn't pump up before going in. It felt like I had ED all over again with the girl riding me and me not getting hard. So i excused myself to the restroom, pumped up and came out letting her feel my now hard dick through my pants. I made out with her for another 10-15 minutes and was like "ok I gotta go".
That night she sends me a text " if you have me over tomorrow, you'll most likely get lucky.
So last night she comes over and I took a gummy and pounded a couple of drinks so I wouldn't be nervous or anything. I also pumped up before she came over, and I'm glad I did because she jumped on me again on my couch but I was ready. So we go back to my room she asks me to put on a condomn, in my experience most girls don't ask this of you, but luckily I had some. I put the condom on and i could have never done this PRE implant as I would lose my erection the second I put the condom on.
As far as the sex goes I think it went pretty well. I think we had sex for 30-40 mins with a few different positions. The only negatives I'll say is that I couldn't cum and it didn't feel quiite as good as it did before implant. But I assume my sensation will get better?
The good news is that usually I might not have been able to perform and its awkward the next day with the girl. She was sending me good morning texts the next morning, which I think is a positive sign.
My main dilemma is on how to move forward with her because I didn't spend all this money on the new bionic tool just to be in a committed relationship with the first girl I used it on. And the other thing, is that she has a ton of mutual friends with me. I can't see how shes not going to figure I'm bionic for the simple fact my dick just stays hard all the time. I'm not sure I want everyone learning this already.
One problem to the next..... lol

[Gt1956]

Franklin22, you're worrying way too much. If she talks about you to her friends she'll be saying that you're a good lover. That is the only yardstick that she has. So that is what she'll use. Think about this. You can't buy better advertising than a satisfied customer. Use lots of hugging, kissing & caresses. Skip the porn movie stuff.
I don't remember how long you've had your implant. But I'm sure the feelings will improve. You had some anxiety going on & the condom changes the feelings.
Wife & I only used condoms after birth of our children. Had to wait for the birth control pills to become effective. Neither of us liked them. Being young, I/we didn't know that they came in sizes. Way back then you had to buy them from the pharmacist. Asking about size wasn't going to happen at my age. I can remember that some of them were small enough that they actually hurt to wear. That was a buzz kill.
Shop around & find a good fitting condom style. Keep some with you. That might help on sensation. After all, what do women know about condom sizing. You need to handle that job.
It'll get better from now on. Btw, you never know which girl will be your forever girl. Don't let having an implant & the desire to bed them all cloud your judgement on whichever one you're dating.
Which is better? 1 or 2 times a month with different girls or 10 or more a month from 1 girl? Think long game.

[ThailandBound]

Franklin22, you're worrying way too much. If she talks about you to her friends she'll be saying that you're a good lover. That is the only yardstick that she has. So that is what she'll

Spot on!

I have evolved from the same self-consciousness that this young man expresses to now being a favorite topic of my girlfriend amongst her friends. They are Cambodian and between themselves they seem to enjoy bragging rights for the size and stamina (“power” in their terms) of their boyfriends dicks.

Just last night we settled in to a bar here in Thailand. She saw an old friend, sitting with her boyfriend. We guys sat apart from them and chatted while the girls played pool. Later, my girl said her friend liked her new guy but complained about his “little cock”.

Mine said, “not mine. his is big (it’s not 5 1/2”). Always hard. Always ready”. Of course she knows i’m bionic.

Music to my ears!

The cool ladies are out there.

[Franklin22]

Franklin22, you're worrying way too much. If she talks about you to her friends she'll be saying that you're a good lover. That is the only yardstick that she has. So that is what she'll use. Think about this. You can't buy better advertising than a satisfied customer. Use lots of hugging, kissing & caresses. Skip the porn movie stuff.
I don't remember how long you've had your implant. But I'm sure the feelings will improve. You had some anxiety going on & the condom changes the feelings.
Wife & I only used condoms after birth of our children. Had to wait for the birth control pills to become effective. Neither of us liked them. Being young, I/we didn't know that they came in sizes. Way back then you had to buy them from the pharmacist. Asking about size wasn't going to happen at my age. I can remember that some of them were small enough that they actually hurt to wear. That was a buzz kill.
Shop around & find a good fitting condom style. Keep some with you. That might help on sensation. After all, what do women know about condom sizing. You need to handle that job.
It'll get better from now on. Btw, you never know which girl will be your forever girl. Don't let having an implant & the desire to bed them all cloud your judgement on whichever one you're dating.
Which is better? 1 or 2 times a month with different girls or 10 or more a month from 1 girl? Think long game.

Yes, I know I am worrying too much. It’s just my nature I guess. That’s why I like hearing from the veterans on these issues.
The condom thing really sucks and I don’t know if anyone else has had this problem, but it slipped off during sex mainly because I was not able to get it to go all the way down on my dick. There is still some skin from surgery that kinda rides up high on the base of my penis that prevents me from getting the Condom all the way down. On the other side it’s no problem. But I feel like this Condom thing really sucks because she told me she’s not sleeping with me without one. I’m sure over time my skin will be less flared and I could get condom on better , but it’s a problem now..

[Franklin22]

Franklin22, you're worrying way too much. If she talks about you to her friends she'll be saying that you're a good lover. That is the only yardstick that she has. So that is what she'll

Spot on!

I have evolved from the same self-consciousness that this young man expresses to now being a favorite topic of my girlfriend amongst her friends. They are Cambodian and between themselves they seem to enjoy bragging rights for the size and stamina (“power” in their terms) of their boyfriends dicks.

Just last night we settled in to a bar here in Thailand. She saw an old friend, sitting with her boyfriend. We guys sat apart from them and chatted while the girls played pool. Later, my girl said her friend liked her new guy but complained about his “little cock”.

Mine said, “not mine. his is big (it’s not 5 1/2”). Always hard. Always ready”. Of course she knows i’m bionic.

Music to my ears!

The cool ladies are out there.

That’s awesome Thai! You’re 5.5 ? Or the other guy ?

[ThailandBound]

Franklin22, you're worrying way too much. If she talks about you to her friends she'll be saying that you're a good lover. That is the only yardstick that she has. So that is what she'll

Spot on!

I have evolved from the same self-consciousness that this young man expresses to now being a favorite topic of my girlfriend amongst her friends. They are Cambodian and between themselves they seem to enjoy bragging rights for the size and stamina (“power” in their terms) of their boyfriends dicks.

Just last night we settled in to a bar here in Thailand. She saw an old friend, sitting with her boyfriend. We guys sat apart from them and chatted while the girls played pool. Later, my girl said her friend liked her new guy but complained about his “little cock”.

Mine said, “not mine. his is big (it’s not 5 1/2”). Always hard. Always ready”. Of course she knows i’m bionic.

Music to my ears!

The cool ladies are out there.

That’s awesome Thai! You’re 5.5 ? Or the other guy ?

I’m 5 1/2”. Hard as a railroad spike. I can make my gal squeal (with discomfort) if i ram it in hard. Girth is good. She can’t get it all in her mouth during oral sex. Then again, she’s tiny.

[Franklin22]

Shit man that’s awesome. I’m around that size too. That’s why I was curious. I have good news to report, I wasn’t sure if the gal liked the sex or what not. But ever since we had sex she has been kinda talking dirty with me and said she wanted round 2.
The is probably the first time a girl has texted me that the next day!I think my insecurities of being too small in my mind may have been unfounded.