Advanced sex techniques for bionics -- share your expertise

[ShopMan]

When you are implanted, you could deal with some tenderness and sensitivity issues when first released to have intercourse. It might take a while to feel like your old self.

Never EVER forget that her tissues are tender, too. With a hard penis, you may inadvertently abrade her to the point where she experiences pain before she experiences orgasm.

Stay always aware of her signals.

Now that you don't have to pay attention to the condition of your erection, you have some freed-up mental capacity to pay attention to her needs.

Lost Sheep

Great advice Lost Sheep. I could agree more.
Charlie

[TANGERINE]

Here is what I am now working-on based on my experience last night with having sex with the wife.

She seems to really get off on having the penile shaft rub along her clitoris. To get this to happen, she instinctively knows to move her body more towards my feet so that I am riding high up. In the more extreme case, this means that the penis is angling downward with the tip just in the vaginal opening.

Some sex experts say that a man who is good in bed works hard to "fuck the clit", to accomplish this requires adjustment in the penile approach angle.

There is a technique which optimizes penile shaft to clit rubbing , and that technique is called "CAT" ( coital alignment technnique).

the key is as shown in the below diagram:

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Figure 1 (above) : As shown in the above diagram, the key for good sex is to have the penis apply pressure to the clitoris and rub as shown above.

I will also post , separately, a description of the CAT technique

[TANGERINE]

CAT--- "Coital Alignment Technique" Apparently, when done properly, this will bring a woman to orgasm through penetrative sex. This is complicated and takes practice, but girls talk about this (they rarely can find a partner with the capability to do it) . I think this should be part of the Bionic Male repertoire:

shown below is an excerpt from a internet site which describes the CAT method of sexual intercourse:

"...You’ve probably heard of the Coital Alignment Technique. It was all the rage a decade or so ago. But have you ever actually tried it? Have you tried it again recently? It takes patience. It takes practice. And it goes against everything you’ve seen in porn. But since when did porn cater to what women want? Beyond just following the specific steps below, mastering the C.A.T. requires a philosophical readjustment. Abandon your assumptions that intercourse automatically means a piston-like motion, lots of flailing about and a rush to climax. For the C.A.T., you’ve got to take what some might call a more “feminine” approach to sex: think small subtle movement, full-body contact with a focus on the clitoris and the pelvic mounds and a Buddhist-like repetition of steps that may very well get her closer to Zen (i.e. orgasm) better than any other hands-free intercourse position out there.

Step #1
Start off in the basic missionary: She’s lying on her back with her legs just outside his; he’s inside her with his legs very close together. In order to initiate penetration most easily, you’ll notice his upper body is raised a bit and his pelvis may be a bit lower than hers (i.e. a bit further down her body) and between her legs. This is a great position for the typical in-out, but once penetration has occurred, you must kiss this stance goodbye if you want to successfully achieve the C.A.T.

Step #2
Here’s where the crucial alignment takes place: He cups her shoulders with his arms under her armpits so that he’s resting on her (some of his weight can be on his forearms, but he should maintain as much body contact and pressure as is comfortable). While keeping his penis inside her, he pulls his body up along hers, toward her head, so that their pelvises are aligned (his directly on top of hers). His legs are straight and together, and her ankles are resting on his calves (her legs should be as straight and elongated as possible while wrapped around his lower legs; if it feels better you can try laying them straight on the bed right up against his legs). In this position, his head (the one on his shoulders) is beside her head (to one side of her face). His penile head should still be inserted, though much of the shaft will now be outside of the vaginal canal, pressing up against the top half of her external genitalia. Both spines should be as straight as possible. His upper body should be relaxed.

Step #3
While in position #2, as he’s pushing up along her body, she tips her pelvis away from him (down into the bed) so his penis comes almost all the way out and she can feel its base pressing against her clitoris. It’s a very small, subtle movement — you don’t want the penis to fully withdraw from the vagina.

Step #4
Next, he pushes down with his pelvis so his whole body moves lower down her body and his penis enters her fully, while she tilts her hips up to help envelop him. He’s still lying on her (some of his weight on his forearms, but he should maintain full body contact). Their legs are still as straight as possible, hers still wrapped around his lower legs (or as low as possible in this position) –- her aim is to keep her upper thighs and knees close together rather than bent and opened like a flower (as in more traditional positions). The difference in his pelvis position between position #3 and #4 is only about 4 inches (so in #3, his pelvis is directly above hers; in #4 it’s about 4 inches lower down her body and his pelvis is closer to the bed, tipped at an angle and between her legs). Still with us?

Step #5
Now, you simply repeat this hip-rocking movement over and over again: He moves up as she tips down, he moves down as she tilts up, and so on. Do not speed up. The goal is to maintain a constant pressure and rubbing against the area from her pubic bone down to her vaginal opening (with the clitoris in between, of course) with his penile shaft, his own pubic bone, and the weight of his body. If you get it right and get into a groove, you might not be able to tell where one of you ends and the other begins. To put it bluntly, you’ll feel like you’re fucking and being fucked at the same time.

[dg_moore]

Yet more OCD.

[Lost Sheep]

Yet more OCD.

But in this instance, worthwhile, eh?

[Nocturne]

Here is a silly thing that I wonder about.

Now that you can have an erection on command, and do not have to worry about it, are you ever tempted to enjoy sex while soft?

Because it might feel like less of a "failure" and more of a "choice"?

Say, give your partner control over how hard/soft you will be for the session, how ma y pumps, etc. Maybe she will give you soft, gentle oral for a long time while you are flaccid, only letting you pump up AFTER you have cum in her mouth while soft.

Or getting JUST hard enough that you can rub your penis on her clit, without it hurting her, and staying there until you give her an orgasm from semi-soft penis rubbing?

There are indeed things you can do with an implant that most men cannot do, beyond just "staying hard for hours".

[TANGERINE]

Thanks NOCTURNE, I have now learned that there is an important variable we bionics need to become proficient with: "the ideal hardness of erection to maximize female pleasure". I have private messaged MERRIX about his wisdom, but he is currently incommunicato, so, I hope he does not mind, but I will paste in here some of his thoughts on an experiment he ran regarding hardness and wife's pleasure:

Merrix states:

"....Yesterday when having sex, I abandoned my recent strategy of pumping 15-20 pumps for sex, which is what has given me something I’d describe as a very hard erection which is still within the limits of what a natural erection could achieve. I pumped it almost full,……A nice experiment, which confirmed that an implant, if properly functioning and installed, is hard way beyond anything natural…….My wife, who has said previously that she feels nothing unnatural about my dick when having intercourse, definitely did not think so yesterday. It felt like being taken by a machine…So next time, I am most likely back to using an 80% inflation.…..My assumption right or wrong was that having some stretch and capacity left in the penis allowed some natural blood flow at least for me and more spongiousum flow and glans enlargement. Hence more sensation. My wife also doesn't notice the difference which should be reassuring to us all that stiff is important but incremental size changes don't matter to them. …."

[TANGERINE]

Now that I am bionic, Here is a sex position that works much better (i.e., wife gets off on it) :

“Sexual Pushups in the missionary position”

This position is regular missionary style sex, but I have all my weight held on my hands and feet just like a pushup at the gym. Therefore, the only part of my body contacting the woman is my dick inside her wet pussy. I thrust from the pelvis. This allows deep penetration (which the wife loves) with hardly any body contact elsewhere. This position also would allow the female to use her own fingers on the clit if desired. I also try to remember to make sure that I am positioned closer to the headboard of the bed so that rubbing is on her clitoris.

For some reason, this drives my wife crazy. Likely, it is because she is falling quite in love with my bionic penis (the part touching her) and just “tolerates” the rest of me (i.e., the rest of my body does not touch her)

It is easy to try this while in regular missionary, and you can flip back and forth between pushup versus lying on her once you get tired.

Because I am bionic, the fact that I am contracting several pelvis muscles is not a problem with me ejaculating too soon, and also, having a super hard reliable erection facilitates doing this position which does require some extra work and physical fitness.

Try-it, or let me know other positions that work great to produce female orgasm.

[dg_moore]

For some reason this whole thread has reminded me of a great article I read many years ago in the University of Texas alternative student newspaper, the Up Against the Wall Street Journal.

It was entitled "How to pack a box" and contained lengthy, excrutiatingly detailed instructions on how to transfer to a box various objects from a pile on the floor. It was signed by Captain Obvious.

[strongagain]

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