Is the hassle worth the moments you can have sex

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Wiggles123
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Re: Is the hassle worth the moments you can have sex

Postby Wiggles123 » Sat Nov 05, 2022 11:21 pm

O God Yes!!!!!!!!!!!!
AMS700 CX 21cm with 3 RTE 4-2019 by Dr Natale - failed 5-2021. Revision 6-2021 with issue (scrotal hematoma and infection). Dr. Ryan Terlecki revision 3-28-2022 (AMS700 CX 21cm with 1.5cm RTE). Cylinder failure at 18 months. 24cm AMS700 CX 11-29-2023.

Txagq8
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Re: Is the hassle worth the moments you can have sex

Postby Txagq8 » Sun Nov 06, 2022 12:17 am

I did not find having an implant installed to be much of a hassle. Operating it is easy and not a hassle either.

I can’t speak for everyone. Perhaps I just have some sort of warped psyche. But even if I (God forbid) were to lose my wife, and never were to have the opportunity to have sex again, I would still be glad I’m implanted. And if it failed, I’d probably have a replacement installed.

The ability to have an erection is intertwined with societal views on what it means to be male. Since I have been implanted, I have felt a huge sense of relief that I am capable of achieving and maintaining near-normal erections. I don’t think of them (the erections) as artificial. I tend to view them as medically assisted.

I know some guys experience complications and nine kinds of hell. The other side of that coin is a great many of us experience something pretty much similar to a hernia repair and everyone lives happily ever after.
Age 68. Physically fit educated red neck in Texas. Very married. 23 cm (18+5) of LGX installed by Dr. Bryan Kansas 12/31/2019. I fought the ED and my wife & I won. I’m either full of shit or sound advice. You decide which.

FinallyBionic
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Re: Is the hassle worth the moments you can have sex

Postby FinallyBionic » Mon Nov 07, 2022 12:14 pm

Yes. It is worth the hassle.
If you are not married or in a relation, it is optional. But imagine a married couple who sleeps next to each other every single night. How do you feel when you are touching a woman's body, aroused, and knowing that you are not able to have sex? And worse, how does she feel? A wife sleeping next to her husband and unable to have normal sex life even once a month! You will just keep on fighting all day and night, because of the bad mood you are both in.
Finally Bionic
1969. RP Oct. 2017. Pills and Trimix didn't work. Inguinal hernia repair on both sides. AMS CX 21 cm+1 RTE, by Dr. Kai Li at Kaiser, VA, Jan. 2021. FT member since July 2020 as AST2123. See my previous 457 posts.

aslanglobal
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Re: Is the hassle worth the moments you can have sex

Postby aslanglobal » Mon Nov 07, 2022 4:57 pm

Words cannot describe how worth it this surgery way. Maybe it’s because I’m still in my 30s and single or maybe it was affecting every aspect of my life for a decade. WORTH IT


smphead wrote:Bro's,

Life is not all about sex. In fact, the average male in his 40's has only 1,33 times sex a week, which last appr. about 15 minutes a session. I know, you, the Frank talk member is not the Joe Average and has at least 6 hot long sessions a week, with 7 seven different girls.

But imagine you are the Joe Average or just an average single Bro who is lucky if he even has once in a while a hook up. Is it worth the hassle?

With hassle i mean, the recovery, the costs, replacements, problems with clothes, walking with a semi-erect, embarrassing moments, etc.

Just wondering how you guys things about this perspective.
39, Implanted 8/10/21. 22 cm Titan, Dr. Tariq Hakky.

Jage64
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Re: Is the hassle worth the moments you can have sex

Postby Jage64 » Mon Nov 07, 2022 6:57 pm

if not, then maybe you're not doing it right. ;)
2/22/23 AMS 700 CX 21cm + 1.5cm RTEs. 58 yrs old, wife of 37 yrs. Penoscrotal. 100ml Conceal reservoir. Dr. Clavell. Pills failing and went right to implant, skipped the injections. 12 mos. later: 7 1/2" x 5 3/4"

SquadCaptain74
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Re: Is the hassle worth the moments you can have sex

Postby SquadCaptain74 » Tue Nov 08, 2022 3:48 pm

YES. It's worth it!
Northern Virginia
Boston Scientific AMS700 (2020)

strunza501
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Re: Is the hassle worth the moments you can have sex

Postby strunza501 » Thu Nov 10, 2022 10:15 pm

If your a long term diabetic. Don’t do it. The pain is unbeatable

Lost Sheep
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Re: Is the hassle worth the moments you can have sex

Postby Lost Sheep » Fri Nov 11, 2022 12:27 am

strunza501 wrote:If your a long term diabetic. Don’t do it. The pain is unbeatable

Not so fast. sgtrimza501. Long-term diabetics can be as healthy as non-diabetics IF THEY ARE WELL-CONTROLLED.

The damage that occurs to tissues, organs, blood vessels, etc is due to high blood glucose and high insulin levels, etc. They work with other enzymes to damage our bodies. But, even type 1 diabetics can live long, otherwise healthy lives if they kee their diabetes (blood glucose, mainly) well-controlled.

Problem is that it is difficult to achieve the hormonal balance of being well-controlled. Lots of work and lots of attention. But it is doable.

High blood sugar damages blood vessels (large ones and small capillaries, all) damage like that makes healing take longer. (By the way, smoking constricts blood vessels, too, and makes healing more difficult). Such blood vessel damage also causes ED. Take a hint, everyone.

Sure the surgery hurts. But the pain is not unbeatable. Having my wisdom teeth out was about equal. My kidney stones were worse.
Lost Sheep
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017
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Wiggles123
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Re: Is the hassle worth the moments you can have sex

Postby Wiggles123 » Fri Nov 11, 2022 3:20 am

I'm a long term diabetic and I have no idea of what you mean by unbearable pain. I love my implant!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

No unusual pain, in fact I healed quickly and the pain was short lived (first few weeks).

As previously said, if you are Diabetic keep your A1C under 7 and all is pretty normal.
AMS700 CX 21cm with 3 RTE 4-2019 by Dr Natale - failed 5-2021. Revision 6-2021 with issue (scrotal hematoma and infection). Dr. Ryan Terlecki revision 3-28-2022 (AMS700 CX 21cm with 1.5cm RTE). Cylinder failure at 18 months. 24cm AMS700 CX 11-29-2023.

Gt1956
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Re: Is the hassle worth the moments you can have sex

Postby Gt1956 » Fri Nov 11, 2022 4:03 pm

Wiggles123 wrote:I'm a long term diabetic and I have no idea of what you mean by unbearable pain. I love my implant!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
No unusual pain, in fact I healed quickly and the pain was short lived (first few weeks).
As previously said, if you are Diabetic keep your A1C under 7 and all is pretty normal.

I agree on the under 7 A1C. My doctor throws another diabetic caution into the mix. He wanted to me to do the best that I could the few days before surgery. He claimed that avoiding glucose spikes just prior to surgery is important. True that the A1C average is important. But in that average can be days of high glucose that average out in the A1C test. He prefers that his patients avoid any spikes if at all possible.
Just another data point for us diabetics to consider.
68yo, HBP at 40, high triglycerides at 45. Phimosis at 57. Type 2 at 60. Dr. William Brant May 1, 2023 CX 21cm w/no rte's penoscrotal 6" girth @ 6 months


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