Recently married, new wife hates the implant

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John Dday
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Re: Recently married, new wife hates the implant

Postby John Dday » Wed Oct 02, 2024 6:36 pm

If your implant works, you can opt for a sleeve. Simple. But you have to work together. Laugh together and enjoy the journey
1955. I have had ED for years. We are going for a Rigicon Infla10 in October. Life got in the way (heart attack), so we are now going for Trimix as a fill-in.

LeTigre88
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Re: Recently married, new wife hates the implant

Postby LeTigre88 » Thu Oct 03, 2024 12:38 am

Sorry to hear this. May I ask how old she is? Post menopausal women's libidos can drop fast and, and especially if her equipment was not used for 15 years!, its likely to be painful (the burning is also indicative). Perhaps she'd be willing to try hormone therapy, or, at least vaginal estrogen (in a cream), which def restores vaginal and vulvar tissues (I'm trying to get my post menopausal but still willing GF to get on it). By all accounts it really helps, on the tissue level (re-grows healthy blood supply and thickens elastic tissue). A step up from that is hormone replacement and I hear it really amps up their drive.
But yes, honest conversations. Best wishes.

Discovernew
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Re: Recently married, new wife hates the implant

Postby Discovernew » Tue Oct 08, 2024 8:40 am

EricDraven wrote:Ive been single for around 12 years. Ive had ED all that time and was finally implanted around a year and a half ago. I lost 2 full inches and around an inch and a half in girth.
Those two inches were important in maneuvering during sex and trying different positions. Im now 6 inches on my best day, head fully engorged with viagra.
My new wife was widowed for 15 years and was celibate. We tried sex initially and it didnt go well, because my fupa makes it difficult and im not long enough to overcome that. The next session we tried lube and i was able to penetrate, but she said it hurt. We tried a couple of more times after that, with lube, and she said it hurt and had a burning sensation.
I was ready for another session a couple of days ago and she said it’s difficult because the implant hurts me. I am engorged and standing up and you cant feel the tips protruding in that position.
I am very concerned about this because if it hurts, its going to he a big problem moving forward. I should also say that she told me upfront that she doesn't like sex, but she wants to make me happy.

Does this sound like an excuse? Has anyone had complaints about the head/tips causing pain during penetration?


If she didn't have sex in 15 years, this is totally normal. You need to keep doing it for some time, warming her up (gently) until her vagina feels comfortable with sex again.
Implanted October 11, 2024, Dr Karaman. Infla10 AX 20cm +1cm RTE.
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ED about 14 years. Pills worked for 12 years, later worked 50%. Tried almost everything, nothing worked: Shockwave-Testosterone-PRP-Stem Cells-Botox, Etc

cbinspok
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Re: Recently married, new wife hates the implant

Postby cbinspok » Tue Oct 08, 2024 9:36 am

Sorry to hear this Eric, a few of us are in the boat with you.
For me, it has not value to try on every level to my what will not, happen. I’ve gone in a different direction.
You will have to figure out your options and proceed, having an implant gives us our lives back, don’t deny that part of you.
Good luck
67years,fighting ed for over twenty years. A sever break, vit E, pataba, Viagra, massage Ved cilas, and I'm tired- throwing in the towel, Op for implant Mar 18, 2021 AMS LGX 18 x12 + 1 3cm RTE, gained girth and length, very glad I took the hard step.


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