The Times They Are a Changin'...

[DaveKell]

Day 12 since implant. The feeling of pressure in my dick is still present as it's inflated to I'm guessing three fourths. At first I wondered if something was amiss since I can feel hard parts at the base of my shaft. My wife reminded me "you had something implanted there you doofus!". I figured the cylinder would reach way inside and no rigid parts would be palpable. Guess I'll become used to it. I'm getting anxious for the first outing but it's still a number of weeks away. I might try squeezing one off as I read somebody else did that before activation. Maybe later in the shower.

A funny thing happened yesterday. I had a dvd of me playing guitar and singing at a jam I go to every Friday evening. I wanted my son to watch me doing a Johnny Cash song. I was watching in the bedroom. I went out to the livingroom and said "come here, I want to show you something". He stopped at the bedroom and just said "what". Afterwards he said he was afraid I wanted to demonstrate pumping up the implant as I told him about it. I assured him that was never going to happen! He was very relieved, apparently he's been concerned I was going to do that! LOL

All in all, much of the initial outright unbearable aspect of this has passed. I did momentarily reach the point where I wondered what I was thinking having this done, around day 3. Looking forward to the maiden voyage.

[David_R]

Dave, most of us do not want to know the details of our parents' sex life. We know they have one -- obviously at least one time since we were born because of it -- but we don't need to know the details. I think my sons (in their 30d) have figured out that I have an implant, but we certainly don't talk about it (I don't share details of my wife and my sex life, nor do they share about theirs. And that's OK.)

[DaveKell]

Dave, most of us do not want to know the details of our parents' sex life. We know they have one -- obviously at least one time since we were born because of it -- but we don't need to know the details.

LOL. Total agreement. I have two adult sons. This one is the youngest at 29. My oldest son maintains an image of me as someone he CAN NOT discuss anything sex related with. I recall him telling me once when I asked him if he had nailed an attractive girl he was dating "that is a discussion I don't feel comfortable having with my father". My youngest son is the total opposite. He has always confided everything to me. I've known every girl he ever slept with, the ones who were virgins, and all the details of the encounter, etc. I finally had to tell him he needs to never tell me again about his wife in bed. He's a very sensible, level headed man with a good education and stable professional job. He was very concerned about me having another surgery which would be #19. He knows the last time I had a hernia surgery (what we told everyone it was) that I was hospitalized for 6 months with horrendous complications. Since he is very much a good friend as well as son I decided to put his mind at ease. He vowed not to tell anyone, his wife included, and he will do just that. He googled the implant procedure and is very happy for me.

[Jerryf]

Hi Dave really sorry you are still having so much pain,trouble. Since we were both operated on the same day you would think we would be at the same stage of recovery. My dick doesn't throb like yours, my problem is still my sack hurts when I try to move around to much. I'm on the second script of vicaden. If I don't take one I can't sleep.
I have 3 grown kids also. We told them what was happening. My 30 year old son didn't say much. A few days later he had a few questions but that was the end of it. The girls asked their mom a few questions but don't ask much from me other than how are feeling today. Hope you figure a way to get some relief.

[DaveKell]

Right at the two week mark as of now. Yesterday I drove an hour and a half in my bouncy cargo van to help my oldest son move. Three trips from one house to the other then an hour and a half back home. The activity really seemed to help loosen up any residual issues I was experiencing. Getting ready now to head back over to help with the final few loads. Slept great all night, no waking with any aches and no pain meds seem to be required anymore.

Sliding off the high seat of the van to the ground usually meant being aware of not dragging my balls off the edge and feeling a momentary pain before the surgery. I was even more aware of this now. No problems though, the pump has never bothered me at all and continues to hang at the very bottom dead center. Glad I'm not going to have to keep pulling it down like some have said.

I continue to have to be aware a three quarters woodie is evident in my pants but I have a few long tailed shirts that hide it nicely. I haven't walked around erect this long since 7th grade when Jenny, drop dead gorgeous Jenny who always wore short skirts, was in all of my classes. Back then I had an armload of books to carry in front to hide it until I could get to the rest room for a fast jerk off. Of course back then the hard on would return by the next class. Funny to think that age 64 I can simulate that all over again albeit manually!

I'm counting down the days until I can unleash this monster for real. Saw my wife getting out of the shower awhile ago. Her nearly 2 year long fitness and weight loss regimen has produced spectacular results. I was just in time with this procedure! Can't wait to report on the initial outing as it seems to be expected here. I'm okay with that and can't wait to share as soon as I get back into one of the most exciting pussies in the state of Texas!

[Donnie1954]

Dave,
Your such a romantic!
Donnie

[David_R]

Your posts are so interesting, Dave! (And glad to hear your implant recovery is going so well!)

[Jerryf]

Wow Dave what a difference a few days have made for you. Really great to here your on the mend so well. I tried going to work yesterday and today. Yesterday 3 hours today I made it till noon. After that the throbbing in my balls comes back. You seem to not be having issues with the pump that I am. Laying on the very bottom of my sack but seems to irritate my sack inside when walking around. Hair is growing back and itching like a bitch also. My doc said I should keep my dick pointed up my anatomy has never worked that way well. Anyone have any advice on this? It just kind of points streight out. Also wearing baggy shorts and loose shirts. Can't wait to try this thing out. I

[alibaba]

Dragging your balls across the car seat......Very familiar with that issue and I think you are the very first to bring that up.

You may never have to prepare yourself for the "dad, I want to show you something". Sounds from the reverse you may be safe. Cheers.

[Donnie1954]

Jerry,
It will always kind point out, especially at a urinal. I just smile and enjoy the admiration. That itching is horrible. I used aloe vera at night and baby powder when at work. So glad you are doing well. My urologist never told me how to wear that miserable stiffie he left me with. Driving home, I released 'him' and covered with a towel. PM anytime.
Donnie