Female opinions on sex after implant

[Mark1974]

I agree with a lot of what you guys are saying.

I was just responding to what I perceived to be denial concerning why some guys think women might reject an implant. Some men were saying that they thought it was because women might be afraid their lover will cheat. If that were the case women wouldn't want to be with well hung men or tall men or handsome men or men with status and money...but, of course, they do.

It's men who often seek out women that they think will depend on them..not vice-versa. Men and women think differently. We are wired differently.

In terms of sex and sexuality you can look at how women buy the overwhelming majority or romance novels and men utilize porn far more than women. For women the magic of seduction is very important while men like to get straight to the friction. And I think that perspective would influence how the sexes might view implants.

Having said all that I fear I have already derailed the thread. The original thread was about how women feel about sex [i]after[i] implantation and the survey on that are quite encouraging. I think the satisfaction rates with IPP's is over 90% as someone above already mentioned (malleables are a different story). I wish we could see more direct opinions from women, but that is not allowed on this forum.

[aussiePeyronies]

Word of advice. For what it's worth I have 44 years as a life resume.

Stop worrying about what other people think, including women. The more time you spend worrying about what they think, the less time you're going to have to using it. If a woman is going to reject you for an implant, good. That's made the decision easier for you to move onto the next one.

Yes the sad truth is we all have to deal with feeling 'inferior' to a natural erection. But guess what? You can't change that so do the best with what you have and f*ck anyone who is going to hate on you for it.

I know I don't sit in a group of people and bitch how I do or don't like meat curtains, John Wayne saddle bags, the loose caboose, the echo chamber, that some women have. At least they have the ability to tighten their anatomy naturally if they choose to, we don't. So if we take the effort to fix a problem that we have and they choose to judge us on that? 2 words. F*ck them.

Lol ok, so that escalated quickly. I'm just sick of men putting so much pressure on themselves to have the perfect dick, however that may look. Implant or not, for some women nothing will be good enough. If you ask me, stuff their opinion on an implant. Its what we have. Its up to us to use it the best way we can

No wonder so many young men have self esteem issues.

Hit the nail on the head with the last sentence 'no wonder so many young men have self-esteem issues'. And male suicide is at an all time high.

Watnext - myself and another member from Australia are looking at creating a men's group for support for mental health and guys with ED, if you're interested in joining let me know, basically just chats or zoom calls on how everyone is going n feeling n discussion on devices etc.

[Gt1956]

First, I want to say that my post doesn't fit the original title very well. But I'd like to attempt to put some of the comments in perspective.
Under no circumstance should any value be placed on what a woman says during a divorce. Simple, she is trying to hurt you & she'll pick on any chip in your armor. This goes double if that chip is in your manhood. I.e. size, performance, pe, ed or any interest that you've previously expressed about wanting an implant. This can easily explain a lot of the "urban myths" that our younger members have heard & thus take to heart.
I was doing some casual reading on implants & ED. I found an interesting "statistic". One site claimed that only 3% of men suffering from ED were willing to consider an implant. The site said that the most common responce was fear of the penile surgery.
Hopefully we can ease these concerns.

[Spanishxb]

Damn it, now I'm tempted to put up a tinder profile with the same pictures, but explain a bionic cock on one and claim other is natural and see if rates differ significantly.

Hahah dude you should totally do that!! Now I’m curious! That’s a seriously good idea!

[Hillywilly]

Getting implanted is what you do when your dick sucks so bad that you can't have sex.
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That is not what young top implanters say like Clavell and Hakky. They say if pills are not working or not tolerable for you go to the implant. I personally could still fuck extremely well with an injection and went to the implant because that's what Dr. Hakky recommended for my distal peyroines and said that was likely to worsen over time. MOST top urologist don't recognize the stepwise fashion of you must fail all treatment and "have a dick that sucks so bad you can't have sex" to be a candidate for the surgery.

[frank66665]

Getting implanted is what you do when your dick sucks so bad that you can't have sex.
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That is not what young top implanters say like Clavell and Hakky. They say if pills are not working or not tolerable for you go to the implant. I personally could still fuck extremely well with an injection and went to the implant because that's what Dr. Hakky recommended for my distal peyroines and said that was likely to worsen over time. MOST top urologist don't recognize the stepwise fashion of you must fail all treatment and "have a dick that sucks so bad you can't have sex" to be a candidate for the surgery.

if a dick works even 6/7 times out of 10 with pills or injections, I don't think it's a good idea to get an implant, an implant is a ball and chain for life, in my case I'm not happy, because my dick in somehow it worked most of the time, an implantologist don't look if you can have other options, look to get yourself an implant asap

[Gt1956]

Getting implanted is what you do when your dick sucks so bad that you can't have sex.
.

That is not what young top implanters say like Clavell and Hakky. They say if pills are not working or not tolerable for you go to the implant. I personally could still fuck extremely well with an injection and went to the implant because that's what Dr. Hakky recommended for my distal peyroines and said that was likely to worsen over time. MOST top urologist don't recognize the stepwise fashion of you must fail all treatment and "have a dick that sucks so bad you can't have sex" to be a candidate for the surgery.

I think that having peyronies is the exception to that common advice. So in my opinion, you followed the correct steps. Btw, I think most people forget about the peyronies part of the steps when they're giving advice.

[crazyjoe]

I have 2 replaced knees, replacement eye lenses, a screw to hold my ankle in place, metal fusion of 4 spinal vertebra, repaired rotator cuffs -- but it wasn't until my implant that my wife after sex happily called me her Million Dollar Bionic Man

[aussiePeyronies]

I have 2 replaced knees, replacement eye lenses, a screw to hold my ankle in place, metal fusion of 4 spinal vertebra, repaired rotator cuffs -- but it wasn't until my implant that my wife after sex happily called me her Million Dollar Bionic Man

That is honestly so beautiful Being 34 and single, I hope when I am your age at 74 that I am still having sex.

Posts like these make me so happy.

J

[Frenchie]

I have 2 replaced knees, replacement eye lenses, a screw to hold my ankle in place, metal fusion of 4 spinal vertebra, repaired rotator cuffs -- but it wasn't until my implant that my wife after sex happily called me her Million Dollar Bionic Man

That is honestly so beautiful Being 34 and single, I hope when I am your age at 74 that I am still having sex.

Posts like these make me so happy.

J

It will be a miracle for us young guys if our dick can take 5+ implant surgeries till we're 70. Sometimes i feel depressed that ED started severely so early that the only option we have is an implant. The thought of not getting anymore an implant in my 50s or 60s and ending my sex life early, worries me much but at least we can enjoy some years and create a family with an implant something that naturally with my dead dick isnt possible.