I wanted to add an update to this and clarify something, because I am sure some poor soul will come across this thread in the future as they end up in the same situation as I was/am.
If I had felt that my wife was a good wife and we had a good relationship, but she was against me getting an implant - I would have gotten the implant and tried to work hard to keep our marriage in tact.
I already knew that my wife was not a good wife and we did not have a supportive healthy relationship, in many different ways. Her not supporting the implant was just the final straw that led to me filing for divorce (which I did on Tuesday).
Wife is against me getting an implant
Re: Wife is against me getting an implant
Age 37. Venous Leakage & Post Finasteride Syndrome (PFS) since age 18.
Original Implant | June 25, 2021 | 20cm Titan w 1.5cm & 1cm RTEs
Revision | November 16, 2021 | 26cm | Dr. Hakky
Original Implant | June 25, 2021 | 20cm Titan w 1.5cm & 1cm RTEs
Revision | November 16, 2021 | 26cm | Dr. Hakky
Re: Wife is against me getting an implant
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Age 37. Venous Leakage & Post Finasteride Syndrome (PFS) since age 18.
Original Implant | June 25, 2021 | 20cm Titan w 1.5cm & 1cm RTEs
Revision | November 16, 2021 | 26cm | Dr. Hakky
Original Implant | June 25, 2021 | 20cm Titan w 1.5cm & 1cm RTEs
Revision | November 16, 2021 | 26cm | Dr. Hakky
Re: Wife is against me getting an implant
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Age 37. Venous Leakage & Post Finasteride Syndrome (PFS) since age 18.
Original Implant | June 25, 2021 | 20cm Titan w 1.5cm & 1cm RTEs
Revision | November 16, 2021 | 26cm | Dr. Hakky
Original Implant | June 25, 2021 | 20cm Titan w 1.5cm & 1cm RTEs
Revision | November 16, 2021 | 26cm | Dr. Hakky
Re: Wife is against me getting an implant
Sorry, ...Often Women do not "get it" and you are a young men, sending strength!
good luck.
cbinspok
good luck.
cbinspok
67years,fighting ed for over twenty years. A sever break, vit E, pataba, Viagra, massage Ved cilas, and I'm tired- throwing in the towel, Op for implant Mar 18, 2021 AMS LGX 18 x12 + 1 3cm RTE, gained girth and length, very glad I took the hard step.
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Re: Wife is against me getting an implant
I think you have been brave and wise. Well done. On to better things.
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Re: Wife is against me getting an implant
ViaSwiss,
This post and advice from my mom has pushed me to leave my wife. I blame her for my injury. She made some stupid joke about my penis size (later she tried to deny it.) I will always blame her and hate how much she has disrespected me throughout this time. I overheard here talk to her GF about past boyfriends and their crooked penis, how her physical therapist had a 'nice package', and found a list of her fantasy fuck list.
She literally got on her knees begging me to stay but fuck that.
I'm now moving in why my brother and start to get a divorce. I will try to date on injections (which are becoming less and less effective) and see how it goes. Most likely i'll move to the implant depending on my dating experience.
Now I wasn't perfect. I had a mistress, i got really good at daygame and had a few girlfriends while i was married. The biggest reason i was depressed was because i missed that. And so i'm leaving her and getting back to daygame. My mistress is still waiting for me and says she misses me.
I feel confident about my penis size (which after traction is now a little less than 8 inches) and hopefully i won't lose any with the implant. So fuck her.
Funny enough, i got back on finasteride. Figured my ED isn't getting better, i'm happy with my penis size, and don't want to lose my hair. So far so good - no side effects from the finasteride.
ED is at the same level as before and so i hope to have decent hair and a bionic dick by the end of the year. I just ask God that he doesn't give me an infection and i'll be forever grateful.
Not seeing my kids every day will be tough but i'm not going to spend anymore time with this chick.
Best.
This post and advice from my mom has pushed me to leave my wife. I blame her for my injury. She made some stupid joke about my penis size (later she tried to deny it.) I will always blame her and hate how much she has disrespected me throughout this time. I overheard here talk to her GF about past boyfriends and their crooked penis, how her physical therapist had a 'nice package', and found a list of her fantasy fuck list.
She literally got on her knees begging me to stay but fuck that.
I'm now moving in why my brother and start to get a divorce. I will try to date on injections (which are becoming less and less effective) and see how it goes. Most likely i'll move to the implant depending on my dating experience.
Now I wasn't perfect. I had a mistress, i got really good at daygame and had a few girlfriends while i was married. The biggest reason i was depressed was because i missed that. And so i'm leaving her and getting back to daygame. My mistress is still waiting for me and says she misses me.
I feel confident about my penis size (which after traction is now a little less than 8 inches) and hopefully i won't lose any with the implant. So fuck her.
Funny enough, i got back on finasteride. Figured my ED isn't getting better, i'm happy with my penis size, and don't want to lose my hair. So far so good - no side effects from the finasteride.
ED is at the same level as before and so i hope to have decent hair and a bionic dick by the end of the year. I just ask God that he doesn't give me an infection and i'll be forever grateful.
Not seeing my kids every day will be tough but i'm not going to spend anymore time with this chick.
Best.
Born 1986. ED. Peyronie's.
Considering an Implant. Consulting with Dr. Eid.
Using Cialis 10mg/day + 20mg for sex. Injections of PGE-1.
See my story: viewtopic.php?t=15016
Considering an Implant. Consulting with Dr. Eid.
Using Cialis 10mg/day + 20mg for sex. Injections of PGE-1.
See my story: viewtopic.php?t=15016
Re: Wife is against me getting an implant
LuisFernandez wrote:ViaSwiss,
This post and advice from my mom has pushed me to leave my wife. I blame her for my injury. She made some stupid joke about my penis size (later she tried to deny it.) I will always blame her and hate how much she has disrespected me throughout this time. I overheard here talk to her GF about past boyfriends and their crooked penis, how her physical therapist had a 'nice package', and found a list of her fantasy fuck list.
She literally got on her knees begging me to stay but fuck that.
I'm now moving in why my brother and start to get a divorce. I will try to date on injections (which are becoming less and less effective) and see how it goes. Most likely i'll move to the implant depending on my dating experience.
Now I wasn't perfect. I had a mistress, i got really good at daygame and had a few girlfriends while i was married. The biggest reason i was depressed was because i missed that. And so i'm leaving her and getting back to daygame. My mistress is still waiting for me and says she misses me.
I feel confident about my penis size (which after traction is now a little less than 8 inches) and hopefully i won't lose any with the implant. So fuck her.
Funny enough, i got back on finasteride. Figured my ED isn't getting better, i'm happy with my penis size, and don't want to lose my hair. So far so good - no side effects from the finasteride.
ED is at the same level as before and so i hope to have decent hair and a bionic dick by the end of the year. I just ask God that he doesn't give me an infection and i'll be forever grateful.
Not seeing my kids every day will be tough but i'm not going to spend anymore time with this chick.
Best.
Are you really sure she joked about your 8 inch being small. I can't imagine. Please don't go back to Finasteride. More side-effects will come sooner or later. Have you thinked about other optios like hair-transplant, hmp/smp or even a hair-piece?
1978, male Netherlands. ED due Propecia use. Currently using cialis.
Thinking about Penile Implant.
Thinking about Penile Implant.
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That's the thing i think she was trying to fuck with me and she did. She would also say things like 'can you go deeper' and shit like that. Seems like she was *trying* to get to me. Well it worked but now i'm leaving her for it.
Yeah it's my choice. Dr. Eid said it was fine. My testosterone levels and DHT levels are pretty good. My libido is crazy high. I never got other sides from Finasteride. It's a controlled risk i'm ok to take right now.
With hair transplant you still need finasteride to protect the non-transplanted areas or you'll end up like this guy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Exp2xRQ43O0
A hair piece is just ridiculous to me. I'm ok with the risk at this point.
Yeah it's my choice. Dr. Eid said it was fine. My testosterone levels and DHT levels are pretty good. My libido is crazy high. I never got other sides from Finasteride. It's a controlled risk i'm ok to take right now.
With hair transplant you still need finasteride to protect the non-transplanted areas or you'll end up like this guy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Exp2xRQ43O0
A hair piece is just ridiculous to me. I'm ok with the risk at this point.
Born 1986. ED. Peyronie's.
Considering an Implant. Consulting with Dr. Eid.
Using Cialis 10mg/day + 20mg for sex. Injections of PGE-1.
See my story: viewtopic.php?t=15016
Considering an Implant. Consulting with Dr. Eid.
Using Cialis 10mg/day + 20mg for sex. Injections of PGE-1.
See my story: viewtopic.php?t=15016
Re: Wife is against me getting an implant
So you don't have pfs like is mentioned in your signature? What else do you think is the cause of your ED? Are you on TRT or anything else?
Your profile name let me quess your are hispanic. I Saw hispanic guys with smp. Wow they so good with smp.
Your profile name let me quess your are hispanic. I Saw hispanic guys with smp. Wow they so good with smp.
1978, male Netherlands. ED due Propecia use. Currently using cialis.
Thinking about Penile Implant.
Thinking about Penile Implant.
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Re: Wife is against me getting an implant
I gotta update my sig but i don't think i had pfs. I never had bad ED while on finasteride. I got an injury while having rough sex and my ED started from that day forward.
Yes I'm hispanic but i'm no fan of smp. At least not by itself. Gonna try to save my hair with medication. Was a good responder before i quit. I was off it for a year and lost some ground particularly on my temples. Might do a fuse implant for the temples in a couple of years after i see how finasteride works this time.
My testosterone, while not great, is decent at 516ng/ml. I might take some testosterone and body build but not right now. I have no problems with libido right now and don't plan on having any more kids or anything.
Yes I'm hispanic but i'm no fan of smp. At least not by itself. Gonna try to save my hair with medication. Was a good responder before i quit. I was off it for a year and lost some ground particularly on my temples. Might do a fuse implant for the temples in a couple of years after i see how finasteride works this time.
My testosterone, while not great, is decent at 516ng/ml. I might take some testosterone and body build but not right now. I have no problems with libido right now and don't plan on having any more kids or anything.
Born 1986. ED. Peyronie's.
Considering an Implant. Consulting with Dr. Eid.
Using Cialis 10mg/day + 20mg for sex. Injections of PGE-1.
See my story: viewtopic.php?t=15016
Considering an Implant. Consulting with Dr. Eid.
Using Cialis 10mg/day + 20mg for sex. Injections of PGE-1.
See my story: viewtopic.php?t=15016
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