A cloud around the silver lining of implantation.
Posted: Fri Oct 12, 2018 2:50 pm
A cloud around the silver lining of implantation.
I have noticed a disappointing similarity in my capacity for coitus between before and after implantation.
Before implant, erectile collapse from E.D. would pretty much signal an end to coitus. It mattered not if I wanted to continue; it was over because my penis became just a squishy toy.
After implant, my penis remains perfectly erect and capable of continuing coitus indefinitely but (after ejaculation) my desire to continue and my energy level drop off precipitously. Obviously, the wash of hormones released upon my orgasm is the cause. I had expected my refractory period to not matter at all, but I was mistaken.
I had not expected this and actually had expected to be able to continue fucking like the Energizer Bunny (thanks to Everready Battery Company for use of their icon).
It is disappointing how quickly I am "done" after being done.
I used to be incapable of continuing coitus after ejaculation. Now, I am just physically unwanting, even if I want to continue intellectually and emotionally. And it's not just interest in coitus; it extends to all other forms of sex, cunnilingus or anything other than cuddling - or sleep.
The silver lining of this cloud is that, since my premature ejaculation is delayed (sometimes by several minutes or so) my lover can experience a few orgasms before I do (I am so grateful that she orgasms easily during coitus when she has had effective and adequate foreplay).
I fear this is disappointing to her, since she is perfectly willing and eager to continue right on and I have yet to exhaust her appetite for more penile action.
Before implant, the desire was there but ability was not. After implant ability is there but desire is not (at least not for very long after MY climax).
I do not want to look a gift horse in the mouth, but just had to share my dual complaint/jubilation.
Thanks for reading.
I have noticed a disappointing similarity in my capacity for coitus between before and after implantation.
Before implant, erectile collapse from E.D. would pretty much signal an end to coitus. It mattered not if I wanted to continue; it was over because my penis became just a squishy toy.
After implant, my penis remains perfectly erect and capable of continuing coitus indefinitely but (after ejaculation) my desire to continue and my energy level drop off precipitously. Obviously, the wash of hormones released upon my orgasm is the cause. I had expected my refractory period to not matter at all, but I was mistaken.
I had not expected this and actually had expected to be able to continue fucking like the Energizer Bunny (thanks to Everready Battery Company for use of their icon).
It is disappointing how quickly I am "done" after being done.
I used to be incapable of continuing coitus after ejaculation. Now, I am just physically unwanting, even if I want to continue intellectually and emotionally. And it's not just interest in coitus; it extends to all other forms of sex, cunnilingus or anything other than cuddling - or sleep.
The silver lining of this cloud is that, since my premature ejaculation is delayed (sometimes by several minutes or so) my lover can experience a few orgasms before I do (I am so grateful that she orgasms easily during coitus when she has had effective and adequate foreplay).
I fear this is disappointing to her, since she is perfectly willing and eager to continue right on and I have yet to exhaust her appetite for more penile action.
Before implant, the desire was there but ability was not. After implant ability is there but desire is not (at least not for very long after MY climax).
I do not want to look a gift horse in the mouth, but just had to share my dual complaint/jubilation.
Thanks for reading.
With masturbation with a toy, I usually do cum but it takes a while. I hope this gets better with time. My wife feels guilty that she is not doing her part, I just tell her "no, it's me, it will just take some time."