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As the post title says, my ability to orgasm is more important than my ability to fuck – or to get hard. Have some who have had successful implants find they cannot orgasm? Have botched operations left guys without the ability to masturbate to orgasm?

edwardl007 wrote:As the post title says, my ability to orgasm is more important than my ability to fuck – or to get hard. Have some who have had successful implants find they cannot orgasm? Have botched operations left guys without the ability to masturbate to orgasm?

Good morning Ed;
Before the implant, I had pretty bad premature ejaculation, after, I take around 1/2 hour and it is more powerful than ever before. Sometimes I even get a little light-headed. Hope this answers your question.

Larry

I was always a bit slow. I never had trouble letting my female partner finish first. I have had loss of sensitivity over the years and a bit more from the implant but that is improving. I am just over 9 months post op. It does take me longer now and sometimes if I'm tired I will not climax. That said I have been able to climax since my doc cleared me to have sex. So no it has not ruined my ability just slowed it down a bit more than it was but it is getting closer to what it was before with time.

thanks guys but my question actually is do you know of anyone who has not been able to MASTURBATE TO ORGASM after the operation whether is was botched or not?

There are a couple of threads describing exactly what you are asking. Do a search (on the entire FrankTalk forum) for the word "anorgasmia" and they should pop up.

Larry10625 wrote:

edwardl007 wrote:As the post title says, my ability to orgasm is more important than my ability to fuck – or to get hard. Have some who have had successful implants find they cannot orgasm? Have botched operations left guys without the ability to masturbate to orgasm?

Good morning Ed;
Before the implant, I had pretty bad premature ejaculation, after, I take around 1/2 hour and it is more powerful than ever before. Sometimes I even get a little light-headed. Hope this answers your question.

Larry

Larry,
If you're that long in the saddle you have the stamina of a race horse,

DougAnd wrote:

Larry10625 wrote:

edwardl007 wrote:As the post title says, my ability to orgasm is more important than my ability to fuck – or to get hard. Have some who have had successful implants find they cannot orgasm? Have botched operations left guys without the ability to masturbate to orgasm?

Good morning Ed;
Before the implant, I had pretty bad premature ejaculation, after, I take around 1/2 hour and it is more powerful than ever before. Sometimes I even get a little light-headed. Hope this answers your question.

Larry

Larry,
If you're that long in the saddle you have the stamina of a race horse,

Most horse races (under 5 furlongs) are over in less than 2 minutes.


Truth be told, I am coming up on being able to stay erect and stroking inside my lover for 30 minutes. The trick is to slow down before I get too tired or my legs cramp. Other times, we can use positions that are less taxing on both of us. There is one where I have been able to stay inside her and we have both been able to nod off and continue coitus after we wake up. NO WAY I could do that before my implant!!!.

In any event (getting back to the thread subject), sometimes I cannot cum. But I don't think of that as ruining anything (she does, but I don't). I do orgasm/cum often enough to keep me satisfied and if I don't, I figure my body just did not need to have my "pipes cleaned" that time around. But the times I do not cum are getting fewer and fewer as time since the implant passes.

So, the takeaway for edwardl007 is that, after the trauma of the implant, your penis nerves might be jangled for a while. Months or maybe a year or two. But they can recover more often than not.

But orgasm with a stiff penis (I can tell you from my own experience) is far superior to one with a limp penis. And I opine that if I had let my E.D. continue to completion, "limp-penis orgasms" might well have been impossible. I think stimulation on a limp penis would not have been able to produce enough sensation to "get the job done". (Stroking on a stiff penis produces a lot more sensation than stroking on a limp one, in my experience.)

If edwardl007 skips implant or chemical solutions (I don't think V.E.D. erections will be satisfactory) to get erections and finds inability to get an erection eventually leads to inability to orgasm, he might REALLY regret not taking the leap now (or at least embarking on a course of Viagra/Levitra/whatever). An implant at that late date would probably resolve the problem, but long-term E.D. very often leads to shorter length which means shorter strokes. So, even if coital sex is not the goal, masturbatory sex might be compromised.

DougAnd wrote:

Larry10625 wrote:

edwardl007 wrote:As the post title says, my ability to orgasm is more important than my ability to fuck – or to get hard. Have some who have had successful implants find they cannot orgasm? Have botched operations left guys without the ability to masturbate to orgasm?

Good morning Ed;
Before the implant, I had pretty bad premature ejaculation, after, I take around 1/2 hour and it is more powerful than ever before. Sometimes I even get a little light-headed. Hope this answers your question.

Larry

Larry,
If you're that long in the saddle you have the stamina of a race horse,

Naaaaaaa, I'm pretty slow and change positions a lot, and it's not always that long.

Larry

Viagra ruined my ability to orgasm vaginally, I can only cum by blo-job, or a good hand job.
My Doc said that is one side effect of Viagra. I was on that for 6 to 7 years. Then went to injections for a couple years.
As for time in the saddle, now after my implant, 30 minuets is the normal for me. Then she will finish me with a blo-job and hand job combo. She will most always orgasm 3 times. She is 64 years old.
By the way I'm 78 years old and having the time of my life sexually. My wife passed away last year and didn't even get to try out my new dick.
I'm not trying to brag but just letting you old guys that are contemplating about getting an implant. Just do it. Odds are in your favor of everything will work out just great.
Just because your old don't mean your dead. Men are sexual beings right up till we die. DO IT!!!

ability to orgasm --- totally unchanged.

And, I had premature ejaculation before the implant, and unfortunately, I still have premature ejaculation after the implant. though, it is not as bad---and it is OK since I can keep thrusting for 30 minutes since the implant never goes down.

Quality of nerve sensaiton along my penis shaft and glans -- totally unchanged or maybe better since during sex I have no fear regarding the erection going down, so I just enjoy myself and fully enjoy the sexy woman.

Please note, for the first three months, ability to orgasm was down a little since there was some numbeness along the underside of my shaft --- that is now totally back to normal