smphead wrote:
Sorry maybe i was not clear enough in the 'why' of my question.
It is not about caring, it's about a wife who had seen thousands of dicks can tell it's an implant or not. In other words 'if even a prostitute can' t tell it's an implant then it must be very realistic'.
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This question has been asked and answered countless times here. And understandably so, since it is something we all wonder before we get an implant. So did I.
At the time of my implant, three years ago, the climate was quite different here on FT, and this was mostly a site where the glory of the implant was sung repeatedly over and over again with few critical questions asked, or even wanted.
Most guys at that time would have ansswered that no, it will not be detected, and some even claimed they had had the same partner for months or years without her noticing.
I would say, and I believe I am right when I say it, that the question cannot be answered with a simple yes or no. Mostly it depends on the type of sex you are having, the relationship, and the measures you are prepared to take to avoid detection.
If you have adventurous sex, in daylight, of course the risk of her noticing is much larger than if you sneak down under the sheets in the dark and do your missionary and that's it. The major giveaway is your balls. If she thoroghly touches your balls then the risk is very high. But still it will depend on your pump position, your balls' size and how 'tight' your balls are vs if they are loose and hanging low.
The relationship will play a role as well. With a one night stand you might be able to control the situation and steer her away from situations where she can find out. You can lock the door when you shower and pump up there. You can pump up when she goes to take a shower. Etc. If she goes for your balls you might stop her by taking command and start something else, or simply just tell her you don't like her to touch your balls.
But with a partner you've had sex with dozens of times, and maybe even move in with, it won't work in the long run. What do you do when she wants to take a shower with you and start blowing your dick? What do you do when she wants to fuck in the car? You cannot get away with excusing yourself to go take a piss every time for years...
Consequently it depends on what you are prepared to do to avoid detection and whether you prioritize that over having good, spontanous sex.
I would say it would be a mistake to focus your everything on avoiding it. Isn't fucking someone in the car, the shower, or whatever, exactly the spontaneous sex you got your implant for in the first place?
Of course, if it can be easily avoided that your one night stand detects it, then why not?
But at some point, if you see her again and again and start a relationship, you will as time goes by have to do things to avoid risk that will be strange and take away opportunities for good sex.
Think of the answer to this question as to the simple logic fact that there are a few differences to the normal dick. All of them are potential giveaways.
The pump which can be felt in the scrotum, but more easily on some guys than others.
The fact that you must pump up. Of course, if you pump up in front of her eyes she will know. But more indirectly, a regular partner will find it weird if you always excuse yourself and go to take a piss every time she wants to have spontaneous sex.
That you can go on forever. If you orgasm and then just keep going and maybe even do this several times during the same sex session, she might suspect something is not quite normal.
And then of course, you take whatever measures you want to minimize the risk depending on how important it is to you.