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24 days since surgery.. been a breeze ... very little pain from the get go, none now...have masturbated with success 3 times (Fleshlight) ...any reason to not have full blown sex now ?

Guess one “potential damage” difference in the Fleshlight and the real thing might be the “pounding” on the testicles if the action got intense ?

FWIW, I’m a fast healer in general but suspect my good results are mostly due to the surgeons expertise and experience. My “official” activation date is another 3 weeks away !

Your experience should be mandatory reading for these guys on the fence. They worry about everything but miss the big picture. A penis that works. Thanks for the update. Best wishes to your future.

I had infra pubic installation. My ok to have sex was at 28 days. It was a little painful compared to now.

First sex at 21 days go for it but stay away from girl on top for a while longer
Dave

Thanks guys. But still curious what could go wrong. Doc assistant was adamant not to activate before 6 weeks after surgery and maybe even 8 weeks with me being a three hour drive away. Apparently they have had some "impatient patient" issues in the past but what exactly they were I didn't find out.

They sound very conservative. There is always oral, and you will enjoy that more at 4 weeks. Very soothing. LOL

I guess we're supposed to follow orders, but I agree it sounds overly conservative.
I wouldn't want to activate before it was done by the doc.
Otherwise, I think gentle sex would be fine.

One time my wife called genitals, gentles.

I have a friend that got his implant one week prior to me getting mine and he jumped the gun to have sex after a bit over four weeks...one of his rods came disconnected at the secure site near the scrotum area and was pushing outward against the flesh. Long story short he had to go back in and have his rod re-surgically attached. This left him waiting an additional 6 weeks. HMMMM! If he would have only been a bit more patient? I waited my 6 weeks to the day and have had NO problems for 8 years. Two more weeks of your life may be worth the wait.

Common scenario in medicine:

Doctor gives patient explicit instructions.
Patient ignores instructions.
Treatment doesn't succeed/surgery develops complications/et al
Patient blames doctor.
Patient sues doctor.
Patient loses, but doctor's malpractice premiums skyrocket.
Patient needs new surgery/new treatment, et al
No doctor will touch him. Ever. For any reason.

Do whatever you think is best.

I carefully followed my well-respected doctor's instructions, partly because I didn't want to have to go to an ER and explain that I was such a horny s.o.b. that I couldn't wait -- and look what happened!