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guys with wives
Posted: Tue Oct 15, 2019 1:54 pm
by ft8790
Hi all, I see a lot of you with wives involved with whole implant process to sex for the first time. Congratulations to you! I' was getting divorced and diagnosed with PCa at the same time and treated for the cancer. At this time I'm single with Ed issues and possible implant in the future. Do you guys mind asking your wives and there single friends if they would have a relationship with a man lmplanted?
Re: guys with wives
Posted: Tue Oct 15, 2019 2:18 pm
by WhiteCane
I’m set for surgery in one week… my girlfriend is right here… I just asked her if we met after surgery, what she would think… she said that you’re 95% of cases, your penis is the last thing any girl is ever thinking about… she’s very excited to be able to just keep going… she added that everyone’s got something weird about them… Being honest with her and being straightforward is going to make her love and trust you more than any hardii penis ever would… Sidenote, we’ve been together for four years now and we met when I was waiting for organ transplants… i’m blind and was on dialysis… there are women out there who will love you… A person who’s going to judge you for something like this is an a person that you want to be with… I hope this kind of helps… Best of luck, brother!
Re: guys with wives
Posted: Tue Oct 15, 2019 2:28 pm
by ft8790
Yes, Thank You this is very helpful and encouraging! Please tell her thank you. At this point I'm only seeing the negative. The divorce was hard enough then the cancer, and these side effects of the treatment is overwhelming.
Re: guys with wives
Posted: Tue Oct 15, 2019 2:56 pm
by andrew1959nj
I don't think that a dick is often a dealbreaker for women, but it was for me 10 years. After 10 years of suffering from BAD ED, I got implanted 5 months ago. I have had several women very impressed with its stamina, most I told that it was a robo cock;) If you have a libido but ED issues, I would go for it. If nothing else it will boost your ego and put a package back into your pants.
Re: guys with wives
Posted: Tue Oct 15, 2019 3:15 pm
by Greg1956
My wife says a man with a functioning penis is more important than what makes it hard. She would much rather the guy tell her early on than try to hide it and pretend he is getting hard naturally. For her if the guy can’t be open and honest about that, she would begin to question whether he is hiding other things. She loves sex, but stuck by me for 30 years as I tried to navigate the trip through ED so I can vouch for her honesty with that answer.
Re: guys with wives
Posted: Tue Oct 15, 2019 3:23 pm
by ft8790
Greg1956, thanks for asking
Re: guys with wives
Posted: Tue Oct 15, 2019 4:14 pm
by barrosa
Very good post!
In my case I am single since weeks ago, we broke because of my sexual problem
I was not honest and I didn't tell him the problem that I have. Maybe for fear and because I didn't want to involve anyone in the process that I am going to carry out. It was a short relationship, although every day I think .. What would have happened if I would have been honest?
Now I have a very clear thing, after my implant, I will never hide it. Who loves you, will love you whether you have an implant or you have natural erections.
Re: guys with wives
Posted: Wed Oct 16, 2019 10:55 am
by andrew1959nj
Be honest and sell its. At 60 many men have issues getting and staying hard. I no longer do and it is wonderful.
Re: guys with wives
Posted: Wed Oct 16, 2019 1:09 pm
by ft8790
Thanks for the input
Re: guys with wives
Posted: Wed Oct 16, 2019 3:17 pm
by David_R
Greg1956 wrote:My wife says a man with a functioning penis is more important than what makes it hard. She would much rather the guy tell her early on than try to hide it and pretend he is getting hard naturally. For her if the guy can’t be open and honest about that, she would begin to question whether he is hiding other things. She loves sex, but stuck by me for 30 years as I tried to navigate the trip through ED so I can vouch for her honesty with that answer.
So true, Greg. Thanks for sharing this. (We have been married 46 years.)