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Prior to prostatectomy I had moderate ED with Viagra or Cialis working quite well. Since surgery I have tried pills, VED, and injections, with little success. So time has come for me to probably move on to an implant.

Just out of curiosity, was wondering what sexual positions work best for you, and which don't? Prior to surgery my erections were fairly vertical, between 1 and 2 on a clock. Many of pictures I see post implant seem to show erections at 3 or 4. Wondering if that has any bearing on some sexual positions working better or worse than pre-implant. I realize that everyone's experience may be different, but just curious as to what I might expect following surgery.

My dick has always been at 3 o'clock and is now with my implant. I have not had any problems with any position and trust me, I have tried damn near all of them.

The great thing about my implant (and those of most other men, I surmise) is that my partner and I can separate and re-engage with a different position without my erection collapsing. Prior to my implant, withdrawing would spell the end of my erection and having to start over (often unsuccessfully).

Thus, we can experiment with any number of positions we may discover in books, on the internet or our own imaginations, selecting those positions amenable to the angle (and degree) of my erection (degree is adjustable, you know - I can pump up to any degree of rigidity we wish).

So good to hear about a successful outcome for ED that we didn’t have several years ago. So thankful that implants are available. Looking forward to January.

Berfore the implant my erection pointed up at 1:30 - 2:00.NowI point straigbt out at 3:00 .i have found that this new geometry caused us to experiment and modify our bodypositions. Alsowe needed to experiment with how hard to make my erection.

lost sheep that is the first thing i noticed. Pre surgery if i was really excited i could stay hard and distraction and limp !
I can now switch positions and not worry , i do not hurry as much since i know i will stay hard and can satisfy any women.
I like her on the edge of the bed legs on my shoulders or on top f me best for deep penetration

Can't wait to fuck without anxiety about losing my erection. Oh the imagination.....I plan on trying all of the positions with my wife as well. Like others, my dick went soft too often when changing positions as well. But since I'm only 13 days post op, I can only dream I have a lot to look forward to thanks in part to all of he great stories and support on ft!

Damn! Horse is just not out of the barn yet but ready to burst out! Calm yourself, big boy, lol!
From all that I have read on here, you will be hesitant. You will be given the go-ahead by the Dr, but I think your wife will worry about you too.
Yes, you can fuck all night, just keep wife in mind that SHE may not want to go all night, lol.

I do have a question on refractory period for us guys. Once we cum, cock gets sensitive, and we still have sensation. So I don't understand how anyone can go on all night. True, physically, we may not need to recharge, but mentally, we still do.
Has anyone on here really pulled an all nighter (or several hours)? What experience can you tell us. What did you feel, how did you feel after you shot your load? I assume you still had to piss after you shot your load, so did you just pick up where you left off?

Agfa13 wrote:I do have a question on refractory period for us guys. Once we cum, cock gets sensitive

My penis does sometimes get hyper-sensitive. Maybe about once out of ten times. So we just cuddle afterwards.

Agfa13 wrote:. So I don't understand how anyone can go on all night. True, physically, we may not need to recharge, but mentally, we still do.
Has anyone on here really pulled an all nighter (or several hours)? What experience can you tell us. What did you feel, how did you feel after you shot your load?

While my penis stays erect, my mind still has a refractory period. Also, after orgasm my energy level drops precipitously. So, if we want to continue coitus, we change to a more relaxed position that does not require as much energy from me. Or just cool down and cuddle.

Longest we have had continual coitus is around 40 minutes. ("Always leave them wanting more" is an adage that applies to stage performances, but not to sex. But I could not resist an ironic observation.)

Agfa13 wrote:I assume you still had to piss after you shot your load, so did you just pick up where you left off?

I don't usually have to urinate after orgasm. I habitually void my bladder before initiating sex. Awful thing to have to leave a hot babe in bed even for a minute, lest she cool down. The small extra boost to arousal provided by a bladder (full or partially full) is simply not needed with an implanted penis.

However, she usually is dehydrated after a coital session. Heavy breathing and loss of copious vaginal fluids leave her quite thirsty.

I excuse myself and put a cold washcloth on it for 30 seconds. I come back ready to go!
With 2 breaks like that i can go 3 hours or until most women say uncle!