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Hey everyone,

I am still considering this implant thing, so please forgive me for any ignorant questions. The blood flow in my penis recently tested at a very low number. Ive also developed a small scar from the injections and opted out of the viagra. Im tired of this. But I am still in my early 30s and this is a very difficult decision for me. I want to be able to have fun, but I dont know that I'll be comfortable sharing my business upfront so I would like to learn the best ways to keep an implant private.

1. When squeezing a flaccid implanted penis with your fingers, are you able to feel the implant through the skin? What does it feel like?

2. The same question, but with oral. Has anyone heard of anyone being able to feel the implant while performing oral sex?

3. What are some positions that might be too difficult to perform during sex with an implanted penis?

4. Is there only one working angle of an implant penis? soft and straight up erect?

5. Has anyone here ever impregnated a woman with an implant?

6. Any tips for keeping the implant discreet?

good questions..

I am interested in these points too

Hey guys. I started having Ed in my 30’s took 10 years to even tell a doctor to get a viagra script. I’m 62 now and have been implanted 4 years. If nothing else is working . DO I T . I wish I had known about it much earlier. Now your questions.
1. Do you feel the implant when squeezing flaccid penis. No. Soft your dick feels normal to anyone else. You may be able to feel some of the tubing at the very base of your dick. Most partners will not pick up on it.
2. Oral sex is the same answer. If you are pumped up no one can tell the difference. The only give away will be the 3rd nut. If you let someone play with your balls a lot they will notice the pump and the block. Just say hands off my nuts are very sedative,
3 & 4 are the same any position you can do with a natural erection you can do with an implant. Top or bottom makes no difference.
5. The implant has absolutely no effect on the seman and sperm. You ejaculate just like normal.
6. Like I said the give away is in the balls. Keep the balks off limits till you want to share the news with someone. Most partners are going to find it intriguing and wan8t to try it out. The other give away will be you can keep it up after you cum and go again and again.
Good luck guys.

Jerryf wrote:Hey guys. I started having Ed in my 30’s took 10 years to even tell a doctor to get a viagra script. I’m 62 now and have been implanted 4 years. If nothing else is working . DO I T . I wish I had known about it much earlier. Now your questions.
1. Do you feel the implant when squeezing flaccid penis. No. Soft your dick feels normal to anyone else. You may be able to feel some of the tubing at the very base of your dick. Most partners will not pick up on it.
2. Oral sex is the same answer. If you are pumped up no one can tell the difference. The only give away will be the 3rd nut. If you let someone play with your balls a lot they will notice the pump and the block. Just say hands off my nuts are very sedative,
3 & 4 are the same any position you can do with a natural erection you can do with an implant. Top or bottom makes no difference.
5. The implant has absolutely no effect on the seman and sperm. You ejaculate just like normal.
6. Like I said the give away is in the balls. Keep the balks off limits till you want to share the news with someone. Most partners are going to find it intriguing and wan8t to try it out. The other give away will be you can keep it up after you cum and go again and again.
Good luck guys.

Thanks for your response, Jerry

Thats super super helpful! So what would be a downside to getting the implant???

NYSee123 wrote:

Jerryf wrote:Hey guys. I started having Ed in my 30’s took 10 years to even tell a doctor to get a viagra script. I’m 62 now and have been implanted 4 years. If nothing else is working . DO I T . I wish I had known about it much earlier. Now your questions.
1. Do you feel the implant when squeezing flaccid penis. No. Soft your dick feels normal to anyone else. You may be able to feel some of the tubing at the very base of your dick. Most partners will not pick up on it.
2. Oral sex is the same answer. If you are pumped up no one can tell the difference. The only give away will be the 3rd nut. If you let someone play with your balls a lot they will notice the pump and the block. Just say hands off my nuts are very sedative,
3 & 4 are the same any position you can do with a natural erection you can do with an implant. Top or bottom makes no difference.
5. The implant has absolutely no effect on the seman and sperm. You ejaculate just like normal.
6. Like I said the give away is in the balls. Keep the balks off limits till you want to share the news with someone. Most partners are going to find it intriguing and wan8t to try it out. The other give away will be you can keep it up after you cum and go again and again.
Good luck guys.

Thanks for your response, Jerry

Thats super super helpful! So what would be a downside to getting the implant???

I think the overwhelming majority of the posters here on FT who have implants would do it again in a heartbeat. Best health move I ever made. What's there not to like about a rockhard erection on demand which does not deflate until you decide to do so? I've had mine for three years this month & couldn't be happier. Main thing you need to know is that the implant procedure is as much art as it is science IMHO so make sure you use a surgeon w/ thousands of procedures to his credit...Kramer/Eid/Perito/Karpman etc. Feel free to PM if you have any questions whatsoever.

NYSee123 wrote:Hey everyone,

I am still considering this implant thing, so please forgive me for any ignorant questions. The blood flow in my penis recently tested at a very low number. Ive also developed a small scar from the injections and opted out of the viagra. Im tired of this. But I am still in my early 30s and this is a very difficult decision for me. I want to be able to have fun, but I dont know that I'll be comfortable sharing my business upfront so I would like to learn the best ways to keep an implant private.

1. When squeezing a flaccid implanted penis with your fingers, are you able to feel the implant through the skin? What does it feel like?

2. The same question, but with oral. Has anyone heard of anyone being able to feel the implant while performing oral sex?

3. What are some positions that might be too difficult to perform during sex with an implanted penis?

4. Is there only one working angle of an implant penis? soft and straight up erect?

5. Has anyone here ever impregnated a woman with an implant?

6. Any tips for keeping the implant discreet?

1. A balloon inside skin, with hard tip. I firmly disagree with anyone that says it is unnoticed by touch as flaccid

2. Bj is better not fully inflated imho the cylinders or part under the shaft shouldn’t be noticeable but From my experience the balls are a dead giveaway and the next blowjob you get see if they touch your balls if they do than they will know in oral, also the tips could be noticeable if glads aren’t fully engorged.

3. Grinding positions so cowgirls and Amazon, depending but all positions should be easy enough if your determined.

4. Yes. Otherwise fluid would just float to the back of implant where pressure isn’t applied.

5. The implant doesn’t effect your sperm. So yeah you can

6.hide your balls, although I don’t think concealment is achievable but thats my opinion and I’m a little bit more rowdy and a deviant with mine.

If your goal is concealing, an implant is not the way. But it will make you sex capable so you always got that

Thanks to everyone for their inputs.

As I understand the giveaway can be only during oral and the balls. One solution to hide the ballskin will be to use some male sex toy..like leather ball sheath/sac type of stuff. It adds a bit of BDSM flavour too. This to my mind is a workable option for short term partners. Once you decide to get into a long term partner..there is a choice to tell or just continue with the cover.

there are testicle massagers and a bull bag type too.

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Jerryf wrote:1. Do you feel the implant when squeezing flaccid penis. No. Soft your dick feels normal to anyone else. You may be able to feel some of the tubing at the very base of your dick. Most partners will not pick up on it.
2. Oral sex is the same answer. If you are pumped up no one can tell the difference. The only give away will be the 3rd nut. If you let someone play with your balls a lot they will notice the pump and the block. Just say hands off my nuts are very sedative,
3 & 4 are the same any position you can do with a natural erection you can do with an implant. Top or bottom makes no difference.
5. The implant has absolutely no effect on the seman and sperm. You ejaculate just like normal. [And you urinate just like normal.]
6. Like I said the give away is in the balls. Keep the balks off limits till you want to share the news with someone. Most partners are going to find it intriguing and wan8t to try it out. The other give away will be you can keep it up after you cum and go again and again.

The only time I can feel the implant inside my penis is when I'm holding it to pee.

My understanding is that the angle of the penis when flaccid/uninflated and when erect/inflated varies depending on the penis size, the type of implant, etc. In my own case it hangs naturally when soft (natural for a 3.5" soft penis) and points out at 4:00 when hard (but it can be moved up and down as needed).

The important thing for me -- and for many, many other guys -- is that the penis is hard. Man, does that make a difference!!

NYSee123 wrote:Hey everyone,

I am still considering this implant thing, so please forgive me for any ignorant questions. The blood flow in my penis recently tested at a very low number. Ive also developed a small scar from the injections and opted out of the viagra. Im tired of this. But I am still in my early 30s and this is a very difficult decision for me. I want to be able to have fun, but I dont know that I'll be comfortable sharing my business upfront so I would like to learn the best ways to keep an implant private.

1. When squeezing a flaccid implanted penis with your fingers, are you able to feel the implant through the skin? What does it feel like?

2. The same question, but with oral. Has anyone heard of anyone being able to feel the implant while performing oral sex?

3. What are some positions that might be too difficult to perform during sex with an implanted penis?

4. Is there only one working angle of an implant penis? soft and straight up erect?

5. Has anyone here ever impregnated a woman with an implant?

6. Any tips for keeping the implant discreet?

Not unexpectedly you will get different answers from different people.
But here are my answers...

1 - Yes. Definitely. It feels like exactly what it is. Plastic tubes inside your dick. But as with everything else, it varies. Mostly it varies with the degree of inflation/deflation. When totally deflated, I feel them the most. Simply becayse they flatten. And when flat, you feel the edges. If it is important to me that they cannot be felt when flaccid, I'll keep enough saline inside to make sure they're round and not flat. This will of course make the angle different. Sort of like a semi. My take on this - why is it important how it feels when flaccid? If this is for descretion during a one-nnight-stand, you will have to pump up in private anyway, and by doing that you have already avoided her feeling your dick in the flaccid state.

2 - No. If your implant is correctly sized and installed, it won't be felt during oral. At least mine cannot be felt. And I have asked... I would however say that one factor in this is your own blood supply as well. If you have no blood flow left whatsoever, the answer might be different. In my case, I still get some blood flow when aroused, which gives the penis a rounder, fuller feeling. And more importantly, if you have no blood flow to the glans, meaning your glans will be soft, then your partner might (and probably will) feel the tips in your glans. But I am not sure. My glans gets very hard when I am aroused so I don't have this problem.

3 - None. I can do any position. At least then ones I want to do and the ones I have tried. The only potential issue I can think of is any position where my penis would be forced to bend downwards. My angle when fully inflated is around 2 o'clock, and since it is a lot harder with a lot less flex than a natural erection, I cannot bend it downwards. Only down till around 3 o'clock. So any position that would bend it substantially further down would probably hurt. But as I said, this has never been an issue for me. I can do whatever the F I want...

4 - Not sure what you mean. My flaccid dick hangs straight down. See pics in my thread (viewtopic.php?f=6&t=6010&p=119668#p119668).
My erect angle depends of course on how much I inflate. Nowadays I basically inflate it 100% when I have sex. That gives me an angle at around 2 o'clock. This is around 30-40 full pumps and then another 20-30 partials. But of course, if I want a lower angle with more flex, then I just inflate less. I would say the lowest level of inflation that would be possible to penetrate with would be around 15-20 pumps. That would give me an angle of around 3 o'clock. And with a lot more flex at the base.

5 - I haven't. But not because I couldn't. I have all the kids I plan to have already. But I am 100% sure I could if I wanted to. Has nothing with implant to do. If your sperm quality is ok, if you still ejaculate, then why not? My ejaculations are just as strong and has just as much power as before the implant. Nothing has changed.

6 - Plenty. Deflate properly and totally to keep the flaccid discrete.
When it comes to avoiding that she notices your implant during sex, what you first of all have to understand is that there is no guarantee you can hide your implant from a partner. The simple fact is you will need to pump up your dick to get hard. So you have to pump in private. And if you end up in a situation where your partner surprises you and starts to touch you or blow you, you will not get hard. The easiest way is to excuse yourself when things get hot and go to the bathroom and inflate there. Then you just get out of the bathroom with your erection and on you go. Or you do it while she is in there, or any time just before sex you are in another room. If you are advanced and confident, you do it during foreplay. While giving her oral. It all depends on the situation. But if you pump up in private, the only way she can tell is really if she touches/plays with/sucks your balls. There is simply a foreign object in there which no woman can take for anything natural. This also highly depends on the placement of your pump and the routing of your tubing. It also depends on your balls' size, your scrotum's size and hardness/thickness. But as soon as she starts playing around with your balls the risk is very obvious.
If her not noticing is that important to you, make sure to pump up in advance in private, take control over the sex. Avoid oral totally if you want to minimize risk. Or simply tell her you don't like anyone fooling around with your balls. Be in control. Take command.
But still, with all these precautions, there is no guarantee.
What happens if you're watching TV and she starts to unzip your pants in the sofa? Excuse yourself and go to the bathroom, and then come back again with a hardon?
What if you are taking a shower, and she comes in and starts blowing your dick? Do you tell her you need to take a piss, get out of the shower, pump up, come back in again?
What if she wakes you up in the morning sucking your dick? The take a piss excuse again?
Or if you are driving, and she asks you to pull over and wants to give you a blowjob? Do you tell her to wait, get out of the car, pump up, and get in again?
This might work a few times, but if you must go take a piss every fucking time she wants spontaneous sex, she will of course realize something is strange.

My advice is, no matter how hard it is to take in, that you got the implant to have all the great sex you have dreamed of during your time with ED. You were sick and tired of the worrying and the embarassment. So now you are going to swap the anxiety of failing to keep your erection to anxiety of she finding out you are implanted?
Just enjoy it instead. Take some reasonable measures to avoid detection. Such as pump up at the bathroom. But don't avoid getting a blowjob. Don't avoid spontaneous sex in exciting places/situations. You got implanted to have worry-free great sex. Not to keep being afraid.

Worrying about this furthermore isn't very logical. Even if she will find out. What do you prefer? Telling her that "don't worry, everything works fine, we will have a great time. Just enjoy. I will tell you later." Then you kiss her, undress her and give her the best sex possible for as long as she wants. And then after sex you just tell her. With a confident voice. That you just had an accident or whatever, you got this problem, and you dealt with it. But that you are really happy with the solution since it lets you have great sex again for as long and as often as you want.
Or as it is today. No implant to be detected. But a crap dick which will go soft after three minutes of furious thrusting without any foreplay. Then she gets up, gets dressed, and goes home never to see you again.
Just think about it. What is better and what is worse?

Look at this problem from the right perpsective, and with the right benchmark. You are not a porn star today with a huge dick and world-class stamina. You are in impotent bastard who cannot have good sex. With an implant you fix that problem. Put this problem in the right perspective.

Good luck.