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Sexual fantasy and implant

Posted: Sat Feb 15, 2020 2:41 pm
by Slavicguy123
Ever since i developed ed it seems that my sexual fantasys are broken just like my dick, there is no feedbaco from my cock but before ed i had strong sexual urges , those urges drove me and telling me what to do and i would get lost in fantasy, now with ed dick its like constant struggle and fantasys are fragmantional, did your fantasys came back after ipp?

Re: Sexual fantasy and implant

Posted: Sat Feb 15, 2020 2:51 pm
by St1pan2019
Have you been tested for low testosterone? During my ED I had low testosterone as well and had low energy, low libido etc but once I got on testosterone shots that all changed. I still had ED and a penis that did not work and and my penis barely responded to anything sexual.. but I was horny as hell and would take every opportunity to let and show my wife that I wanted some sexual intimacy. I had a very high sexual libido but a penis I could not use . It was torture! Then I discovered penis pumps and cock rings and that helped for a few years but ultimately had to get an implant once I discovered FrankTalk! Thanks guys!!

Re: Sexual fantasy and implant

Posted: Sat Feb 15, 2020 3:44 pm
by Strutter
I know very well what you mean. For years I thought I had low libido. At some point I realized it is the dick not working not my brain.
It is weird how you can confuse the two, but this is exactly what I feel. And it is exacerbated by every unsuccessful sex. You fail few times and you just lose desire to keep trying. You stop thinking about sex.

Re: Sexual fantasy and implant

Posted: Sat Feb 15, 2020 3:55 pm
by Waynetho
Actually, that *IS* your brain. I went through it. I was asexual and non-intimate for 20 years with my wife due to ED/PD combination. I couldn't, so I wouldn't think about it. My wife would confront me about not being the same romantic man she married years earlier and I tried to explain that I couldn't think about it because nothing worked.

On the rare occasion that I got aroused, usually it was porn and a self-luv handjob that would bring it to a conclusion. On the occasions that I had morning wood, I fought to resolve it as quickly as possible because of the pain from PD plaques in the base when it occurred. Usually the resolution came from something I have more recently discovered was causing more damage: pressing DOWN on the base of my cock until I felt/heard a "POP", after which the erection subsided almost immediately. That was doing major damage to my proximal erectile bodies every time I did it.

Fast forward to post surgery - My libido and desire for sex has gone through the roof and my wife almost has to cry "UNCLE" at times to get a rest. This, in my case, was a classic psychological case where I didn't think of sex or romance because it was emotionally painful that I couldn't perform. I think it might be a sort of performance anxiety...

Re: Sexual fantasy and implant

Posted: Sat Feb 15, 2020 6:11 pm
by indusvalley
This is such an interesting discussion. I believe that ED and low Libido are inter connected. Since I developed ED, my libido has gone down too. I am hoping after the implant, once I start using it, my libido will recover and I will once again become more horny and sexual fantasies would return.

Is there anyone else who have an implant willing to share their story related to their libido pre and post implant?

Re: Sexual fantasy and implant

Posted: Sat Feb 15, 2020 7:05 pm
by Slavicguy123
Hey indusvalley im looking forward to your experience when comes time with your ipp, keep your chin up bro...

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Posted: Sat Feb 15, 2020 8:46 pm
by FMLFML85
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Re: Sexual fantasy and implant

Posted: Sat Feb 15, 2020 10:42 pm
by Slavicguy123
Thnks guys for respons, so fml you are saying that you can get equally horny and lost in act same as with natural erection or?

Re: Sexual fantasy and implant

Posted: Sat Feb 15, 2020 11:37 pm
by TANGERINE
Slavicguy123 wrote:Thnks guys for respons, so fml you are saying that you can get equally horny and lost in act same as with natural erection or?

My answer: absolutely, YES. I am three years out and have completly accepted my implant as being part of me. In fact, Although I remember what it was like to have natural erections, I like the implant erection better because it will never go away and because I can keep thrusting after one orgasm.

Regarding dreams, I now have sex dreams with hot girls and I just pump it up in the dream and then pound that girl like crazy. There is never the nightmares of being impotent.

Regarding libido: yes I agree that libido is in large part a reflection of your testostorone level. So have your testorone checked.

Re: Sexual fantasy and implant

Posted: Sat Feb 15, 2020 11:45 pm
by Slavicguy123
Funny enough(sarcastic) i often have dreams as stsrting something sexual but im always aware of my ed and my limping dick and it became nightmare, so you also tangerine had those dreams before implant and now you are having real erotic dreams like normal?




Btw this fucking shit is all connected dick, brain , libido so i have fear that if i go with implant i will still dont have those crazy horny moments as before ed, but now im leaning more on the side that implant can fix that and that ed is playing games on my mind, is it true?