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Honestly
I’ll be frank...I’m not totally impotent obviously
But the mental toll for me is no unbearable. I couldn’t even imagine doing anytning w a women...I wouldn’t even pay for sex bc it would be over in a few seconds or minutes...either I’d cum or lose it....so that kills the libido

I’m doing the implant even though maybe injections would work for now or more and higher doses kf cialis, but at the end of the day for me, and my obsessive personality that would still make me feel shitty bc I know I would just worry about the next time, the next time, etc.


Can anyone relate to this? I’m
Literally doing this so I can get over this PTSD of ED as I call it...it’s like a phobia now...sure I still get erect and looks totally normal for a certain time but once it’s gone it’s gone....and that mental toll is too great....if I never had sex again and lived on an island I’d still want the implant just to mentally feel like a man...

Does this sound insane?

I feel your pain. I’m in the same situation but I have peyronies which has caused an inch length loss and narrowing. Being 29 and trying to figure out if I should go for an implant or reconstruction + implant. I cannot decide yet and this is draining all my energy. I’m not even thinking about texting a girl, my libido is underground

Get an implant


I know I’m an obsessive person and these thoughts will never go away until this is dealt with

ontheroad wrote:I feel your pain. I’m in the same situation but I have peyronies which has caused an inch length loss and narrowing. Being 29 and trying to figure out if I should go for an implant or reconstruction + implant. I cannot decide yet and this is draining all my energy. I’m not even thinking about texting a girl, my libido is underground

It’s amazing what your libido will
Do when you have ED eh?

I was really grumpy and ED effected me very badly. When I made the decision to have the implant it lifted this great big weight off of me. Now when I have contact with a grumpy man I cannot help but think he may have ED. It was life changing for me.

ED isn't only total inability to get any erection whatsoever. Losing the erection too soon is also ED and is a very valid reason to get an implant if the other treatment options (pills, injections if you are willing) don't work for you

LBC2020 wrote:Get an implant


I know I’m an obsessive person and these thoughts will never go away until this is dealt with

I am on the way to get one! Hopefully this will help with my mental health

newbie443 wrote:I was really grumpy and ED effected me very badly. When I made the decision to have the implant it lifted this great big weight off of me. Now when I have contact with a grumpy man I cannot help but think he may have ED. It was life changing for me.

I have been really grumpy all my life as well, I was getting better before peyronies hit me but I think this came for my low sex life.

wolfpacker wrote:ED isn't only total inability to get any erection whatsoever. Losing the erection too soon is also ED and is a very valid reason to get an implant if the other treatment options (pills, injections if you are willing) don't work for you

Exactly

Fuck

Did you have your dick checked by an urologist?
You may suffer of medomalacuphobia, the phobia of losing erection.
I’m suffering from this and when it comes to masturbation I get really anxious and most of the times I lose my erection of course. At the moment 5mg Cialis do help, and I’m on antidepressants also.
Have you tried to talk to a therapist? Have you tried viagra 100mg? Have you tried antidepressants? How old are you mate? If you are young please consider you could need several revisions and maybe after 20/25 years your dick could be totally fucked up and this would mean the end of your sex life.
I’m not trying to discourage you… my mental ed is ruining my life and there was an implant lasting 30+ years I’d go for it with no doubts, but please take into account all the cons of getting an implant if you are young and you do not really need it.

I’m 40
At this point I’m not interested in spending another 10 years of therapy and pills etc. I want to find a solution