Mark74 wrote:Try not to be so insecure.
The reality is most will not accept it. It is what it is.
Worry more about your own satisfaction instead of theirs. Satisfying them really isn't in your control.
If you worry about your own satisfaction as opposed to trying too hard to please others they will respect you. And that part is in your control
My experience compels me to disagree with parts of Mark74's advice.
Definitely, try not to be insecure. Women respond to men who are secure in themselves, even if they are not total studs. A man who accepts himself (with limitations that ALL men have), she will respect that. I have some experience in this area, believe me.
"Most will not accept it." Each person makes their own decisions. Most women make love with the MAN, and the penis is a secondary consideration. If you make them feel sexy and desirable, most women will respond with cooperation and take whateve penis is attached to the man they LIKE. ANd that liking is based on how they feel when with you, fully clothed or not.
Yes, worry about your own satisfaction is your job and satisfying your partner is only partially your function. Each woman I made love with (after I figured this out), I allowed to be responsible for her own orgasms. No man can "give" a woman an orgasm. The man is merely the facilitator. An important part, but remember, the orgasm occurs in HER body, this is more under her control than yours. Any feeling of total control over her orgasms is illusory.
If you worry about your own satisfaction to the exclusion of your partner's, you are not likely to get a lot of respect. Certainly not a lot of appreciation. Sexually selfish men do not get a lot of repeat action from confident women. If I mis-read Mark74's meaning in any of this advice, please forgive and enlighten me.
In my opinion, ideally, sex is a cooperative activity. Both parties participate in the pleasure of the other.
