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Folks this is my biggest concern. I am 5.75 and expanding still after implant. I could not maintain erections pretty much 70% of time.
Got an implant to hopefully be able to feel whole abd date in mid 50s

My cousin got an implant due to diabetes. He is the one that really convinced me.

So I would like to hear some dating success stories if possible. What has worked etc.

Also I assume my size is ok… not great but ok ?
Regards and

Your size is normal so you shouldnt worry about that. As far as dating - im not sure what you want to know but i just date as normal. For me there was no reason to tell my date that i have an implant.
In fact ive been with my current girlfriend for 18 months and only told her about the implant after 12 months.

Pquigs wrote:Folks this is my biggest concern. I am 5.75 and expanding still after implant. I could not maintain erections pretty much 70% of time.
Got an implant to hopefully be able to feel whole abd date in mid 50s

My cousin got an implant due to diabetes. He is the one that really convinced me.

So I would like to hear some dating success stories if possible. What has worked etc.

Also I assume my size is ok… not great but ok ?
Regards and

Size is fine. If you want to gain some length and you have an implant you could try following this protocol: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/21492409/

Pquigs wrote:Folks this is my biggest concern. I am 5.75 and expanding still after implant. I could not maintain erections pretty much 70% of time.
Got an implant to hopefully be able to feel whole abd date in mid 50s
My cousin got an implant due to diabetes. He is the one that really convinced me.
So I would like to hear some dating success stories if possible. What has worked etc.
Also I assume my size is ok… not great but ok ?
Regards and

I'm fairly sure that your worst experience is going to be light years ahead of dating with a limpish dick. You just need your confidence built up a bit. Any chance that your cousin could help you with his experiences? If not, a few months packing a working dick around should work wonders for your mind. Maybe if your new flacid draws a little bit of attention? ED has likely just beat the crap out of you. It'll come back.

Bushpig.

How did you conceal the pumping and did not your girlfriend feel the pump in your scrotum

Thx Paul

Pquigs wrote:Folks this is my biggest concern. I am 5.75 and expanding still after implant. I could not maintain erections pretty much 70% of time.
Got an implant to hopefully be able to feel whole abd date in mid 50s

My cousin got an implant due to diabetes. He is the one that really convinced me.

So I would like to hear some dating success stories if possible. What has worked etc.

Also I assume my size is ok… not great but ok ?
Regards and

Read through this thread (Read through but ignore the first page of responses. They were unjustifiably skeptical)
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=6513

or this one
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=9236

Pquigs wrote:Bushpig.

How did you conceal the pumping and did not your girlfriend feel the pump in your scrotum

Thx Paul

Even if she does...

viewtopic.php?f=6&t=7593

Paul (Pquigs),

Women are incredible. And incredibly supportive if they feel desired, trusted, respected and safe. Trust her.

You can give a woman infinite amounts more pleasure with 5.75 inches that are as hard as you want it to be for as long as you want vs. a 7.5 limp one which loses all erection at the moment of orgasm. Its tough for the ego, but think of the trade off. As someone with an above average size dick that doesn't work most of the time, that all sounds pretty decent to me.

Bushpig wrote:Your size is normal so you shouldnt worry about that. As far as dating - im not sure what you want to know but i just date as normal. For me there was no reason to tell my date that i have an implant.
In fact ive been with my current girlfriend for 18 months and only told her about the implant after 12 months.

I am seriously interested in how you managed that? Give us all your tips..

I was struggling of thinking how I could get through 3x without telling them. Having to go to the bathroom to pump before sex everytime? Then to deflate again? For 12 months...

My pump is so squeeky, there is no way I could do it during foreplay or through a pocket without her hearing.

If I was getting a BJ, she would likely see or feel the pump, although I did figure its easy to just say you don't want your balls played with. In my case, the tips would be "poking out" the underside/side if I were laying on my back getting a BJ, easy to feel in the mouth I would presume. In fact, even if she felt with her hand around my head she might feel the tips.

I've got a lady coming over this weekend, so please enlighten me!

ViaSwiss, as for the squeeky pump. You just need a little more planning. Most bedrooms, hopefully at your place, have either a television or radio in them. Have them preset to a neutral channel with the volume set kind of low. Bang, can't hear the squeak. Another possibility is the try to pump only as you talk. Try to time the squeeze & your words to be at the same time. Let your voice cover it. Try to nibble on the ear facing up so that your face blocks the sound. If all else fails, try dating women that don't have good hearing.
You. Can. Do. This. Just be inventive. Geez, get her to talk for a minute, that should cover the noise.
Hey, if she says whats that noise. Tell her its a bird outside the window.