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I read some topics about single man in the dating scene pumping their implant at 50 %, so it's not as suspicious as when they start with a full erection.
So how is it doing forplay with a semi-hard? Like handjob and oral? Do woman notice something is 'wrong' like with a flaccid implant or does it feel as 'natural' like a fully inflated implant?

I don't consider oral as foreplay. It's sex already. Handjob, maybe.

If a woman grabs your penis while semi hard, she may notice the bends of your implant depending on how flaccid you are.
If you're trying to hide it, I recommend you not let her touch your dick when it's not hard.

smphead wrote:I read some topics about single man in the dating scene pumping their implant at 50 %, so it's not as suspicious as when they start with a full erection.
So how is it doing forplay with a semi-hard? Like handjob and oral? Do woman notice something is 'wrong' like with a flaccid implant or does it feel as 'natural' like a fully inflated implant?

Just one old mans opinion. No two people have body parts that behave exactly alike. Some women have soft boobs, some are firmer. Penises vary just as much. If a girl doesn't have much sexual experience then she won't know there is a difference. If she has had more than a couple of partners then she'll know that most likely you fall into the range of normal.
Your worries are all in your head. I challenge you to read as many posts on this forum as you want. Then report back to us on how many men were refused sex because their dick was too hard. I don't think I've ever read such a post. On the other hand, you'll find lots of posts about rejections or ghosting of men with floppy dicks.
Which group do you want to be in?

Great question smphead. I’m 1.5 weeks out and would like to hear the responses as well.

Pump up about 50 percent for oral and get engorged naturally some as well so that works good till I need to penetrate. Then about 70 or 80 percent. I rarely pump up fully for sex. Just to hard for my wife now.

how is it doing forplay with a semi-hard? Like handjob and oral? Do woman notice something is 'wrong' like with a flaccid implant or does it feel as 'natural' like a fully inflated implant?

One of the joys of implant is that you are totally adjustable for the woman. If she likes a super hard granite shaft, then you can give that to her, if she wants a more gentle cock that is quite able to penetrate but also gives a comfortable amount of bend and flex--yes you can provide that.

At one point, I tried to sell the idea to my wife that I could be one of three males for her in bed:
"floppy phil (just hard enough to penetrate but super easy for her to accomodate) or
"regular rod" (standard hard cock that just feel delicious and satisfyingly natural) and finally
"tenk titan" (granite hard cock that overwhelms your girl with an amazing orgasmic shaft)
She did not wnat to play mind games like that and just wants me to have a satisfyingly hard cock that delivers wide penetration when desired (ie, she likes the middle setting)

I write about the importance of adjustable hardness during sex in my implant pamphlet "chapter 27 basic sex tips"
url is; https://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=16298&hilit=wiki

and I also cover this more vividly in a prior thread titled "advanced sex techniques for bionics"
https://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=7365&p=160876&hilit=advanced#p160876

Now back to your question. The reason some guys go to 50% hardness prior to getting undressed is so that they are just ten pumps away from sex hardness. Thus, there is zero chance that you wil get discovered pumping away (though many have stated that sex and foreplay should last long enough and be leisurely enough to give you the chance to sneak in the 20 to 30 pumps unnoticed). The other reason for 50% hard is that it tells the girl you have a formidable package worth playing with. Having no hardon during very early foreplay is a turn off to women.

Finaly, if a woman carefully feels a fully deflated titan, she will notice the dog ears and krinkles which are almost like feeling a litle skeleton inside . This could tip her into thinking you had something done. 50% inflatioon makes those go away, so it will not at all be an issue (also,AMS style implant does not have that issue, so krinkles/dog ears are really just a titan issue)

I agree with others that you should not fixate on this issue. What women want is a cock that will not insult them by failing during sex. There is nothing worse then failing to get erect when you have a hot and bothered woman under you yearning to be fucked---failure in that scenario far far outweighs any issue regarding pumping speeds or feeling dog ears in a flacid.

TANGERINE wrote:Finaly, if a woman carefully feels a fully deflated titan, she will notice the dog ears and krinkles which are almost like feeling a litle skeleton inside . This could tip her into thinking you had something done. 50% inflatioon makes those go away, so it will not at all be an issue (also,AMS style implant does not have that issue, so krinkles/dog ears are really just a titan issue)

I agree, Tangerine, want to add that if a woman has let you into her bed with the intention of having sex with you and has reached the point of finding things about your penis, there is not much that will deter her from continuing the process if you don't say or do something stupid.

On the other point, I beg to differ. I have an AMS LGX and, when FULLY deflated, can feel wrinkles and folds of the implant if I look for them. Certainly not as pronounced as the Titan's folds, but when fully deflated, they are definitely there and palpable. A few pumps (10-20% inflated) and they are gone and likely not palpable by even the most diligent examiner (thank you, AMS). Of course, with either implant, the connection tubes, pump bulb and valve body are easily found.

Love this response

Gt1956 wrote:

smphead wrote:I read some topics about single man in the dating scene pumping their implant at 50 %, so it's not as suspicious as when they start with a full erection.
So how is it doing forplay with a semi-hard? Like handjob and oral? Do woman notice something is 'wrong' like with a flaccid implant or does it feel as 'natural' like a fully inflated implant?

Just one old mans opinion. No two people have body parts that behave exactly alike. Some women have soft boobs, some are firmer. Penises vary just as much. If a girl doesn't have much sexual experience then she won't know there is a difference. If she has had more than a couple of partners then she'll know that most likely you fall into the range of normal.
Your worries are all in your head. I challenge you to read as many posts on this forum as you want. Then report back to us on how many men were refused sex because their dick was too hard. I don't think I've ever read such a post. On the other hand, you'll find lots of posts about rejections or ghosting of men with floppy dicks.
Which group do you want to be in?

aslanglobal wrote:Love this response

Gt1956 wrote:

smphead wrote:I read some topics about single man in the dating scene pumping their implant at 50 %, so it's not as suspicious as when they start with a full erection.
So how is it doing forplay with a semi-hard? Like handjob and oral? Do woman notice something is 'wrong' like with a flaccid implant or does it feel as 'natural' like a fully inflated implant?

Just one old mans opinion. No two people have body parts that behave exactly alike. Some women have soft boobs, some are firmer. Penises vary just as much. If a girl doesn't have much sexual experience then she won't know there is a difference. If she has had more than a couple of partners then she'll know that most likely you fall into the range of normal.
Your worries are all in your head. I challenge you to read as many posts on this forum as you want. Then report back to us on how many men were refused sex because their dick was too hard. I don't think I've ever read such a post. On the other hand, you'll find lots of posts about rejections or ghosting of men with floppy dicks.
Which group do you want to be in?

Thank you. I honestly believe that many/most of the fears that we read about on here are overblown. Again, my opinion. Not many women see these types of hestiations as attractive. Many women see a less than perfect action/decision as being far better than no action or decision. No decision is nearly always wrong. At least with a educated decision you have a good chance of being correct or at least close to correct.
I think that I read somewhere that history doesn't remember timid leaders. If a woman chooses to follow you. She expects you to lead. She might make you suffer for it but she'll keep following you.