djranman65 wrote:I went to the doctor for my post op yesterday and had him pump it up for yhe first time. It was a about 65 to 70% and he said it was rigid enough for intercourse. I was expecting Rock hard. When I pump it up myself, it seems to get the same or a little less. Its very difficult for me to tell if im over pumping. I pump about 30 times and still donr be fully errect. Any advice here on this issue? How do I resolve this. Im not a happy camper right now
Oh man does this sound familiar.
One thing about being 65 is you remember all the old cliches and jokes. “Doc, it hurts when I sit down. Well, don’t sit down.” “If you don’t like the goods at Macy’s, go to Gimbel’s.”
Ergo if it isn’t hard enough at 30 squeezes, do what I did. Go to 60, then 75, then 80.
I only have a 65 ml reservoir. I started out with a cock 6.8x6 inches. I’ve got most of that back, lost 1/4” length, 1/2” girth. I’ve never pumped it dry. My guess it is simple hydraulics….once the cylinders are filled, a small change in the amount of fluid raises the internal pressure of the cylinder quite a bit. So I don’t get a walk-to-wall squeeze. A small one moves a bit of saline and raises the pressure, which gives me the stretch, which gives me the hardness and angle.
I’m joking but not really. Once I get into the 50-75 small squeeze realm, this implant isnt suitable for intercourse. It’s suitable for carpentry, well drilling, putting someone’s eye out,or jousting. Rigidity isn’t an issue. But the BEST thing I encountered has been the angle. I’ve got a boner that points, if not at my belly button, at least at 1:30 or 2 o’clock. No more horizontal 90 degree right angle erections.
Now, others say the LGX is the least rigid of the three (Titan, CX, LGX) and that may be true. My goal is to use this one so often I wear the son of a bitch out and can try a 26 cm Titan (seems like each revision guys end up adding 2 or 3 cm). But this LGX is way more rigid than anything I ever had and if a Titan is harder, then it really will be like being “the man of steel.”
In addition….you’re awfully early in recovery. I found that comfort, size, ease of use, and it “becoming a natural part of me” really took off between 6 and 12 months. At 3 months yes, I had an implant, yes I can have sex with it, no it doesn’t hurt. I’m getting close to two years, not quite. It’s tougher to remember a tiny flaccid (I was a grower), frustrating sex due to a 50% erection and never getting enough stimulation to cum, etc etc.
Give it time. Also give it a lot of pumps. It can and will get really rigid, or at least mine does. My urologist/surgeon said I would like the LGX. He wasn’t lying.