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Hey everyone
Well, its 4.5 months post-op for me and I cannot deny that November and December have been the greatest two months of my life in YEARS. I've been able to put this tool to use with increasing frequency over the last period of time, and there are no words on what this has done for my outlook and general attitude. I was able to use this on a few women before finally meeting up with my ex-gf, who I really let go because of all of this. It's been a surreal and overwhelmingly positive few weeks, thanks to going through with this surgery. I am still getting pain after about 45 minutes of use, but its lessening. I also noticed I've been gradually regaining a bit of lost length- still. I was at 16 cm length last month but have been able to pump to 17 cm length (no VED) the last few weeks. I was 18 cm pre-surgery, but that was years ago, before ED took its toll.

Did anyone keep using the VED after the 6 month mark? I've been following my doc's orders and it appears to have at least not hurt. I notice my boners are fuller looking after about a week of use, even if I didn't use it that day.

Also, its really tight getting this thing in some women, even when lubed up. When anyone's hard to force it in a bit, no damage was done to you or your new dick, right? These things are made to pound, within reason. I was a thick boy before all of this, but the implant definitely made it more so. No complaints, ZERO regrets. Just gratitude.

I'm happy for you, man. This is a positive report.

I'm not much older than you. Turned 38 recently and have just gone through the worst year of my life. Struggled with ED for well over a decade to worsening degree. All psychogenic (according to all the tests - dopplers, night time rigiscan). But psychogenic, imo is just as if not worse than physical. End result's the same.

I've read your posts and we're similar in so much that we both want families and to make the most of this critical point in our lives.

Do you fear the reaction of potential partners and do you think this is going to hinder the natural development of relationships or enhance and foster?

Also, has it been a struggle adjusting to life and sex with an implant, mentally?

I know the alternative of ED is worse than anything so the point is almost moot but I'd be interested to read your take on the matter.

Again, congrats man! Really great news.

YYYEEEESSSSSS!!!!!!.... have fun man!

I believe congratulations are in order young man....

As a single man having an implant has got to make you feel like superman. All females (and/or males) are open and fair game because you KNOW you are going to satisfy any partner.
As a married man, it was one of the best things I did for our marriage. We had great sex 30+ years ago when we met, her being 17 years younger. When ED started it really took a toll on our intimacy. Now these past two years we've had more sex, better sex and loving it.

asianglobal,

Loved your post. My surgery is coming up early next year, and I am hoping to be pain free at the four month mark. I know everyone is different, but when did you start to feel that you could have vigorous sex without much pain or discomfort? I know I am asking a lot, but can you briefly say how you felt after the first month, second month, and so on?

Thanks!

aslanglobal wrote:Hey everyone
Well, its 4.5 months post-op for me and I cannot deny that November and December have been the greatest two months of my life in YEARS. I've been able to put this tool to use with increasing frequency over the last period of time, and there are no words on what this has done for my outlook and general attitude. I was able to use this on a few women before finally meeting up with my ex-gf, who I really let go because of all of this. It's been a surreal and overwhelmingly positive few weeks, thanks to going through with this surgery. I am still getting pain after about 45 minutes of use, but its lessening. I also noticed I've been gradually regaining a bit of lost length- still. I was at 16 cm length last month but have been able to pump to 17 cm length (no VED) the last few weeks. I was 18 cm pre-surgery, but that was years ago, before ED took its toll.

Did anyone keep using the VED after the 6 month mark? I've been following my doc's orders and it appears to have at least not hurt. I notice my boners are fuller looking after about a week of use, even if I didn't use it that day.

Also, its really tight getting this thing in some women, even when lubed up. When anyone's hard to force it in a bit, no damage was done to you or your new dick, right? These things are made to pound, within reason. I was a thick boy before all of this, but the implant definitely made it more so. No complaints, ZERO regrets. Just gratitude.

twice a day for two hours and use the VED

I stopped using my VED after six months but have resumed recently. I try to cycle twice a day for two hours and use the VED for thirty minutes of that hour every morning, before anyone else is up. That way I walk around with the VED attached while I fix coffee and cook breakfast helps me forget about the time.
The six month mark was a magic number for me as far as having no pain. Everything just gets better and better with time. You know very well that I am proud of you

and you've been the biggest post-op support ever, and you know it!

aslanglobal wrote:and you've been the biggest post-op support ever, and you know it!

Thanks aslanglobal

it will only get better