Lady complaint

[Manonfire]

So it's been 4yrs since I was implanted. Three yrs ago, I moved to Africa and married a beautiful younger African lady (disabled vet). Sometimes she complains that the implant (kinda wish I never told her I had an implant) feels too hard or feels unnatural.

Anybody else hearing this or is she pulling my leg (I have so little trust in women, this is wife 4)? But she wants it pumped all the way up when it comes to sex...well duh don't complain if it feels too hard then!

It's put a doubt in my mind that I'm potentially unattractive (she says she's Ok with it, but most ladies there wouldn't have a man with an implant - according to her) because I'm not "natural." Not quite sure what direction this is headed.

Also, my incontanience (still about 92% dry on my own but leaking more) started coming back. I recently had the Urinary Sling installed but I think I'm gonna go back for the AMS100 or urinary sphincter. The Sling wasn't that effective for me. Any comments on recovery, use, concerns? Thx

[Thisworld]

Pump less, only 70% and use cialis. Which country are you living in Africa btw?

[Manonfire]

In Kenya. Pension goes further, US too damn expensive anymore. Security is always concern.

[scoop317]

I agree with"thisworld"pump around 70%, then pump as needed, I also use viagra for glands

[Musson]

Tell her your wallet is genuine leather full of authentic currency.

[wolfpacker]

I certainly don't like the way she's talking to you, sounds like emotional abuse to me telling you "most ladies there wouldn't have a man with an implant". I know I would get her the fuck out of my life if it were me, but of course all situations are different.

[FinallyBionic]

When she is saying that she is Ok with it fully pumped, means she really likes the sex with the implant, who doesn't?
But if she told other women about the great sex she is having and mentioned the implant, it could be a kind of low balling from other women feeling jealous. Your wife might be a kind of being affect by any negative remarks. You may need to know if your implant secret told outside of your marriage. Just my 2 cents.

[slipnslider]

Sounds like she married you for money and this is just an excuse to get out of the sex she didn't want to have anyway.

[FMLFML85]

I certainly don't like the way she's talking to you, sounds like emotional abuse to me telling you "most ladies there wouldn't have a man with an implant". I know I would get her the fuck out of my life if it were me, but of course all situations are different.

Your right. I think it’s time for OP to find someone younger and more attractive. Men in their 20s even have problems having sex with the same person all the time. It gets boring. Her expectations must be out of control. When I was 20 during a long relationship we would have sex maybe 4 times a month.

[Txagq8]

I’m glad I live in a free country where I can even…..move to a not-so-free country if I choose. That being said, there’s more than a few red flags showing up with what you’ve told us.

No, life in the US is not dirt cheap but it’s still a bargain. You don’t have to live in NYC or LA or San Francisco or Miami. You get out to small town America, out in flyover country, it’s still possible to have a comfortable life on a retired paycheck. But I digress.

“Most women wouldn’t have a man with an implant.” What the F is THAT supposed to mean? I’m sorry, I think it might be time to pull on the overwing emergency exit and bail out. Sounds like her elevator might go up but not to the top floor.