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Man this is playing with my head so much I’ve booked in for my surgery next year but I still have a functional penis but it’s giving me mixed signals I’ve got venous leak but sometimes I can stay hard for 20 seconds or more and be like this for long enough and sometimes no erection at all this is playing with my head so much. I was with this girl yesterday and my dick didn’t go soft maybe because she kept stimulating it but I’m lost idk what to do

That's what was happening to me before I decided to get my implant about 6 months ago.

What should you do?

Move up the date for your implant surgery from next year to NEXT MONTH!!!

Good luck!

drayan123 wrote:Man this is playing with my head so much I’ve booked in for my surgery next year but I still have a functional penis but it’s giving me mixed signals I’ve got venous leak but sometimes I can stay hard for 20 seconds or more and be like this for long enough and sometimes no erection at all this is playing with my head so much. I was with this girl yesterday and my dick didn’t go soft maybe because she kept stimulating it but I’m lost idk what to do

20 seconds isn’t long enough for anything. I hope you meant to say 20 minutes but even that’s rushing things. If you were diagnosed with VL, it will only get worse the longer you wait.

drayan123 wrote:Man this is playing with my head so much I’ve booked in for my surgery next year but I still have a functional penis but it’s giving me mixed signals I’ve got venous leak but sometimes I can stay hard for 20 seconds or more and be like this for long enough and sometimes no erection at all this is playing with my head so much. I was with this girl yesterday and my dick didn’t go soft maybe because she kept stimulating it but I’m lost idk what to do

Fill out your profile, it helps people answer your questions better. I would move the surgery up ASAP

i was injecting in ever increasing doses with diminishing returns. :20 good minutes was about my limit. Changing positions, abs it was all over. Had good blood flow in, but veinous leakage did me in. Since i still had healthy tissue with good blood flow in, decided that was the sweet spot and went for it.

9 weeks postop now. In Thailand and now banging my girlfriend hard daily. I’m still in recovery/cycling mode, with a bit of numbness and soreness still….but the ability to whenever we want IS amazing! I’m optimistic with time this will only get better!

drayan123 wrote:Man this is playing with my head so much I’ve booked in for my surgery next year but I still have a functional penis but it’s giving me mixed signals I’ve got venous leak but sometimes I can stay hard for 20 seconds or more and be like this for long enough and sometimes no erection at all this is playing with my head so much. I was with this girl yesterday and my dick didn’t go soft maybe because she kept stimulating it but I’m lost idk what to do

In my opinion it looks like you have two choices, either go along like you are worrying, getting depressed and not able to have sex OR you can schedule that surgery as soon as possible and move on with life.
Don't let it get you so depressed it affects your life. That is not healthy.

drayan123 wrote:Man this is playing with my head so much I’ve booked in for my surgery next year but I still have a functional penis but it’s giving me mixed signals I’ve got venous leak but sometimes I can stay hard for 20 seconds or more and be like this for long enough and sometimes no erection at all this is playing with my head so much. I was with this girl yesterday and my dick didn’t go soft maybe because she kept stimulating it but I’m lost idk what to do

My opinion. You're lying to yourself, stop doing that. Your body is telling you that its time for an implant. Listen to it.
Btw, has any medical professional given you a reasonable chance of improvement. I'm not talking about a clinic that is selling treatments that have not shown significant improvements here on FT.