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Hi Guys
Well I'm 1yr in.
I lost about 1/4 inch length but gained about 1/2 inch girth.
I'm very happy , just made love to my wife this morning with no fear that I won't be able to make her cum.
Just wish I had done it sooner.
Good luck to all those just about to embark on their journey.

Congratulation, how did she like your new dick?

Thank you for this 1 year follow up amigo!

I’m guessing you were very active on the forum when you were going through everything. It seems as i read over the past threads an entire group of guys kind of go through it together. They get well, resume their lives, and move on. It’s great to hear from a veteran.

10 weeks postop here.

Yes I check in still, happy to help any guys trying to go through the nhs.

Pau1pau1 wrote:Yes I check in still, happy to help any guys trying to go through the nhs.

tell the first 2/3/6 months if you remember how your recovery was regarding orgasm and shaft/glans/points pains, here things seem to be different from how they are described, too much enthusiasm for a beautiful cock to see raised with a pump, but then very bad to feel it in pain and orgasm, a little clarity is needed in describing an implant

Great Paul. Glad it's all going well.

You've been a support for me so far in the NHS journey, so I appreciate you hanging around.

Hi there

I could do with nhs advice

I’m going to see Ralph privately

I’m pretty sure mine is mental but we have to make sure don’t we ?

I’m worried that having an implant because of physiological issues wouldn’t be enough reason for the nhs to cover me and future revisions if needed

It’s stopping me dating as I’m scared to death of failures
I’m fed up of this crap so much now

Tomtomtom28 wrote:Hi there

I could do with nhs advice

I’m going to see Ralph privately

I’m pretty sure mine is mental but we have to make sure don’t we ?

I’m worried that having an implant because of physiological issues wouldn’t be enough reason for the nhs to cover me and future revisions if needed

It’s stopping me dating as I’m scared to death of failures
I’m fed up of this crap so much now

Brother. That’s the worst.

Avoiding social situations because of fear of failure. I’ve been there, in a social setting, not even trying, thinking “what’s the point?”.

I can tell you that at 10+ weeks postop now i’m fucking agsin. Sometimes twice a day….and i consider myself in the early cycling days still. So, from the field here, it works!

This is my story with loads missing to be fair


Sucks to be me

Mates sent me a picture taking the mick but hits home real hard

Saying:
Single
Talking
Dating

With a picture of me under single which is basically right

He only means it as a joke but it’s like I’m locked away scared to date due to Ed/performance anxiety takes over
Nearly gives me a panic attack and makes me feel really down

I’m nearly 37 and my penis has always let me down since 16 years old which takes a massive toll on mental health

The zest for dating has diminished
Libido has taken a massive dip (nearly nothing) as scared to date/have sex

I’ve somehow got to try and go on a date with Cialis 5mg in my system but I don’t have much hope

Would you recommend an escort every 2 weeks to see if I can build some confidence in that department ?

It just really makes me think about getting an implant and finally be free of the depression from all of this.
My life shouldn’t be like this at my age

All my friends are in ping relationships, have kids, I’m worried my mum will pass away and I’ll still be in the rut and with a strong person in my life gone will be so tough on my mental health

I have hobbies and great family and friends it’s just this that’s killing me silently

In January should I go to see dr Ralph in London and get a private consultation

Urologist
Which person do I go to see ?

Have a Doppler done and see from the results which step to take next

If they find a leak could the implant be done through the nhs ? I don’t know

I just want to move on it’s been 20 years of hurt basically so it’s getting a bit daft now

Hope you understand where I am coming from

I read a number of stories on here who just make the decision and get an implant as they are fed up with the unreliability of it all and it’s changed their lives for the better


They can start dating without worry

Cheers

ThailandBound wrote:

Tomtomtom28 wrote:Hi there

I could do with nhs advice

I’m going to see Ralph privately

I’m pretty sure mine is mental but we have to make sure don’t we ?

I’m worried that having an implant because of physiological issues wouldn’t be enough reason for the nhs to cover me and future revisions if needed

It’s stopping me dating as I’m scared to death of failures
I’m fed up of this crap so much now

Brother. That’s the worst.

Avoiding social situations because of fear of failure. I’ve been there, in a social setting, not even trying, thinking “what’s the point?”.

I can tell you that at 10+ weeks postop now i’m fucking agsin. Sometimes twice a day….and i consider myself in the early cycling days still. So, from the field here, it works!

I’m the same. Basically scared to date/flirt/meet girls/ has to be the perfect setting

Driving me insane