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Gents-I have a question do you feel less sensation when receiving oral sex from your partner? Or are you more sensitive?

Also overall with the implant do you enjoy oral sex?

today 66 days after the op. I feel annoyance when I receive a blow job, I am only sensitive to annoyance that turns into pain, I hope it will improve, other brothers who are 4/6/8 months old can be more exhaustive than me

I was cleared for sex at six weeks, and for maybe the following month or so sex both fucking and less so oral made my dick hurt, particularly the tips in my glans. Day by day it improved, and my sensitivity returned to normal, and I thoroughly enjoy frequent blow jobs maybe more now since the angst of losing my hard on no longer exists.

Wish I was lucky enough to get oral .

Macdawgg wrote:Gents-I have a question do you feel less sensation when receiving oral sex from your partner? Or are you more sensitive?

Also overall with the implant do you enjoy oral sex?

Oral just isn't the same and I think because of the floppy head. no complaints about sex. I'm at 4.5 months Coloplast Titan. Cycle everyday and its growing. Maybe things will change regarding oral cause my wife will always do that for me. Going to see Perito shortly to see if he can help the floppy head.

BJ’s are great for me!No complaints here!

Alex258 wrote:

Macdawgg wrote:Gents-I have a question do you feel less sensation when receiving oral sex from your partner? Or are you more sensitive?

Also overall with the implant do you enjoy oral sex?

Oral just isn't the same and I think because of the floppy head. no complaints about sex. I'm at 4.5 months Coloplast Titan. Cycle everyday and its growing. Maybe things will change regarding oral cause my wife will always do that for me. Going to see Perito shortly to see if he can help the floppy head.

Could you please elaborate? Is floppy head a sign that you were oversized?

At 3 months postop i still have some numbness from incision site in scrotum up toward the bottom 1/3 of my shaft. Mid-shaft has sensation, but not 100%. Top 1/3 of shaft and glans offer the best sensation. As long as my lady really works the glans and upper shaft with mouth and hands, it’s great. I don’t feel so much when she’s sucking full length with just mouth.

I know from previous abdominal surgery that nerves do take time to heal and return to normal sensation. Months maybe. My abdominal scar years ago was numb for months. Now, it’s like it never happened. Feels normal.

3 months in i consider to be still in the healing stage. I’m enjoying getting blowjobs, but i’m optimistic this will improve with time.

But you know what they say….

….”the worst sex/blowjob i ever had….was great!”.

ThailandBound wrote:At 3 months postop i still have some numbness from incision site in scrotum up toward the bottom 1/3 of my shaft. Mid-shaft has sensation, but not 100%. Top 1/3 of shaft and glans offer the best sensation. As long as my lady really works the glans and upper shaft with mouth and hands, it’s great. I don’t feel so much when she’s sucking full length with just mouth.

I know from previous abdominal surgery that nerves do take time to heal and return to normal sensation. Months maybe. My abdominal scar years ago was numb for months. Now, it’s like it never happened. Feels normal.

3 months in i consider to be still in the healing stage. I’m enjoying getting blowjobs, but i’m optimistic this will improve with time.

But you know what they say….

….”the worst sex/blowjob i ever had….was great!”.

Good to know man, I am 2 months in and still very numb.

We just have to remember to be patient and relax, wait for the body to heal.

Always makes me happy seeing your posts living your best life.

Enjoy,
J

Yes, I enjoy it. Sensitivity had been deteriorating for 2-3 years before surgery. What helps me now is the knowlege that my erection will not fail me even if I climax. That knowledge led to improved experimentation with what is sensitive and what isn't. I am so relaxed having sex now. I cannot remember ever feeling this confident. No need to hurry, go faster or deeper, or whatever else I used to do. That seems so long ago now.

My dick appears to be on cruise control. I had forgotten how good it could feel to be inside my wife. She had missed it at least as much as me. I feel sadness for those guys, even ones I know, who just ignore this problem for fear of becoming a joke.

This website helped me a lot seeing so many with problems like mine and even worse. There is no cure for ED. There is no cure for a non functional joint either. Best solution is to replace the defective parts if you can in either case.

Oral sex is always great, even if I don't feel a thing. That has never happened however. I am confident my sensation will recover from being dormant due to ED and return to something like what it was before ED. I know my dick is sensitive to a degree because I jump if she scratches or mishandles it in her enthusiasm to please me.