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4 days post implant. As I sit healing from the Surgery I am reminded why I am going thru all this pain. My wife encouraged me to get the implant because she really wants PIV sex again. I have tried to see if she would have preferred Clitoral stimulation before jointly going thru all this, because she has become a caretaker of my invalided physical condition right now because of my difficult recovery issues. We tried pills, VED, and Trimix injections which all failed.

For the most part of our prior sex life (or lack thereof) was mostly PIV sex When I asked her directly she said to me that she wants PIV sex more than anything. No toys, just real me.

What I have never fully appreciated is why she feels this, since many information souces emphasize that the Clitoris is the way to orgasm. She really is not interested in this approach, she has emphasized she wants PIV sex because that is what gets her off. I should feel lucky about this because I also like this very much.

I hope that after I get my erection back with the implant that this may vary to explore other approaches. i cannot wait until June 2 which is my final doctor appointment.

Bill

I think, yes, clitoris is the main way women generally experience sexual pleasures, but they can pleasure themselves with their own hands and vibrators.

What they crave from a man is his hard penis.

That's my take away anyways

That's my wife. No dildos, nothing but my erect member. But she does get off with both PIV sex and with her clitoral stimulator. Many times it can happen both ways at the same time if we're in doggy position. That rocks her hard making her legs quiver and muscle contractions that grabs me like a tight fist.

What "many information sources" are missing is the fact that women just wanna get fucked.

We had a female family friend that got divorced many years ago. At the time I think she was a little under 30. I was talking with her & she complained about her lack of sex. I told there is always mastrubation. She replied yes, but its just not the same feeling.
Don't be quick to dismiss all the feelings that women get from the act of sex. Feelings other than just clit stimulation. They all add up to the total experience.

clitoris is the main way women generally experience sexual pleasures,

The external clitoris is just the visible part of the clitoris.
https://www.welcomed.com/blog/3d-model- ... e-anatomy/

Gt1956 wrote:We had a female family friend that got divorced many years ago. At the time I think she was a little under 30. I was talking with her & she complained about her lack of sex. I told there is always mastrubation. She replied yes, but its just not the same feeling.
Don't be quick to dismiss all the feelings that women get from the act of sex. Feelings other than just clit stimulation. They all add up to the total experience.

if while you were talking he said this to you it was surely a joke not to tell you outright. she wanted to be fucked by you

frank66665 wrote:

Gt1956 wrote:We had a female family friend that got divorced many years ago. At the time I think she was a little under 30. I was talking with her & she complained about her lack of sex. I told there is always mastrubation. She replied yes, but its just not the same feeling.
Don't be quick to dismiss all the feelings that women get from the act of sex. Feelings other than just clit stimulation. They all add up to the total experience.

if while you were talking he said this to you it was surely a joke not to tell you outright. she wanted to be fucked by you

Not a chance of that. Friends with way too many of my family to even consider having sex with her. Even her children were friends with ours.
Sleeping with her would of been extremely costly to too many people.
Even if you're correct, sometimes you're better letting it pass.

I have read, and I believe it is true, that an orgasm with a full vagina is very much more satisfying than an orgasm without.

aside from that, and close skin to skin contact coitus/PIV position feel more intimate as well. I have also been told that the feeling of being penetrated is very arousing as well. Iintimacy is key.

Lost Sheep wrote:I have read, and I believe it is true, that an orgasm with a full vagina is very much more satisfying than an orgasm without.

I have also been told that the feeling of being penetrated is very arousing as well. Iintimacy is key.

we say ... where there is pleasure there is no loss