She is not stimulated

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CHIEF3
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She is not stimulated

Postby CHIEF3 » Sun Aug 20, 2023 12:46 pm

Has anyone experienced your woman feeling less stimulated after an implant repair or replacement/revision. If yes, did you solve it and how?

My replacement worked fine for the first few months, then we had problems and we learned from CT scan and surgery that the right cylinder was out of Corpora (see my post on this). I had a sling attachment to the right cylinder. I’m hard as before, I think, but my wife is not feeling the same stimulation as before. What’s wrong with me? My doctor doesn’t know so I’m going to get a second opinion.
Tried: pills, injects ( :o ), T (Axion), pump, ring, herbs
2013 AMS Dr. Karpman Los Gatos, Ca
2022 Revised pump failed, Titan, KP.org Roseville, Ca
CT Scn rt RTE not in corpora, felt like a stuck turd :cry:
2023 R&R rt cyl not in crus, sling, KP.org

Bigdave
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Re: She is not stimulated

Postby Bigdave » Sun Aug 20, 2023 5:10 pm

If your erection is still good, and approximately the same size as before, I'd suspect it's in her mind.
She's likely concerned about damaging you, and causing further pain on your part.
I'd talk it over with her, and reassure her that she won't hurt you.
Age 59. AMS 700 LGX 21cm + 2cm RTE.
Peniscrotal, 2/23.
6.25" OEM with Cialis, about 5" post-op. (11/01: Length 6.75" and girth is up to 4.75" mid shaft.) Still growing, albeit slowly. :D
Cycling daily. Hoping to get to 7". ;)

Journeyman
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Re: She is not stimulated

Postby Journeyman » Sun Aug 20, 2023 5:28 pm

CHIEF3 wrote:Has anyone experienced your woman feeling less stimulated after an implant repair or replacement/revision. If yes, did you solve it and how?

My replacement worked fine for the first few months, then we had problems and we learned from CT scan and surgery that the right cylinder was out of Corpora (see my post on this). I had a sling attachment to the right cylinder. I’m hard as before, I think, but my wife is not feeling the same stimulation as before. What’s wrong with me? My doctor doesn’t know so I’m going to get a second opinion.

Holy Shit !!! Your cylinder was out of the corpora !? I just made the post " Seeking the knowledge and opinions of all implant scholars " ... I wonder if something like that happened to me.
54 - Coloplast Titan 22cm , Implanted by Dr. Clavell in April 2023

Gt1956
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Re: She is not stimulated

Postby Gt1956 » Sun Aug 20, 2023 7:26 pm

Chief3, is there any chance that her changes might be related to menopause?
68yo, HBP at 40, high triglycerides at 45. Phimosis at 57. Type 2 at 60. Dr. William Brant May 1, 2023 CX 21cm w/no rte's penoscrotal 6" girth @ 6 months

FinallyBionic
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Re: She is not stimulated

Postby FinallyBionic » Mon Aug 21, 2023 12:08 pm

Inflating to the max, while there is no glans engorgement or blood flow in the shaft may make the implant feels like a toy/dildo. Women who don't like them won't be stimulated by such an erection. I noticed this, after I come and continue having sex, it doesn't feel natural for my wife.
Maybe trying to use Viagra or Cialis with the implant could provide some engorgement. There are also here a couple of posts about fillers that can help.
Finally Bionic
1969. RP Oct. 2017. Pills and Trimix didn't work. Inguinal hernia repair on both sides. AMS CX 21 cm+1 RTE, by Dr. Kai Li at Kaiser, VA, Jan. 2021. FT member since July 2020 as AST2123. See my previous 457 posts.

CHIEF3
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Re: She is not stimulated

Postby CHIEF3 » Mon Aug 21, 2023 4:13 pm

Gt1956 wrote:Chief3, is there any chance that her changes might be related to menopause?

Not likely in her early 40’s.

I was thinking about a filler but I’d rather try supplementing with Viagra or Cialis first.

Thanks!
Tried: pills, injects ( :o ), T (Axion), pump, ring, herbs
2013 AMS Dr. Karpman Los Gatos, Ca
2022 Revised pump failed, Titan, KP.org Roseville, Ca
CT Scn rt RTE not in corpora, felt like a stuck turd :cry:
2023 R&R rt cyl not in crus, sling, KP.org

CHIEF3
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Re: She is not stimulated

Postby CHIEF3 » Wed Aug 23, 2023 10:21 am

Bigdave wrote:If your erection is still good, and approximately the same size as before, I'd suspect it's in her mind.
She's likely concerned about damaging you, and causing further pain on your part.
I'd talk it over with her, and reassure her that she won't hurt you.

Thanks Bigdave
I appreciate your input. I talked with her about it while we were on a walk. I reassured her that I was not in pain before, during and after sex. Again I told her in bed. I don’t think we’re “out of the woods yet” but we did have two successful nights. My guess is we are at about a 30% success rate. Positive encouragement and prayer is my plan and a visit soon to Dr Karpman for a second opinion.
Blessings to everyone!
Tried: pills, injects ( :o ), T (Axion), pump, ring, herbs
2013 AMS Dr. Karpman Los Gatos, Ca
2022 Revised pump failed, Titan, KP.org Roseville, Ca
CT Scn rt RTE not in corpora, felt like a stuck turd :cry:
2023 R&R rt cyl not in crus, sling, KP.org

Bigdave
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Re: She is not stimulated

Postby Bigdave » Wed Aug 23, 2023 11:54 am

CHIEF3 wrote:
Bigdave wrote:If your erection is still good, and approximately the same size as before, I'd suspect it's in her mind.
She's likely concerned about damaging you, and causing further pain on your part.
I'd talk it over with her, and reassure her that she won't hurt you.

Thanks Bigdave
I appreciate your input. I talked with her about it while we were on a walk. I reassured her that I was not in pain before, during and after sex. Again I told her in bed. I don’t think we’re “out of the woods yet” but we did have two successful nights. My guess is we are at about a 30% success rate. Positive encouragement and prayer is my plan and a visit soon to Dr Karpman for a second opinion.
Blessings to everyone!


I'm glad to hear of your progress. Good luck and God Bless.
Age 59. AMS 700 LGX 21cm + 2cm RTE.
Peniscrotal, 2/23.
6.25" OEM with Cialis, about 5" post-op. (11/01: Length 6.75" and girth is up to 4.75" mid shaft.) Still growing, albeit slowly. :D
Cycling daily. Hoping to get to 7". ;)

CHIEF3
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Re: She is not stimulated

Postby CHIEF3 » Tue Aug 29, 2023 10:35 am

I went to Dr Karpman and he said it’s hard and not to do anything at this time. He could not answer why my wife is not feeling stimulated. Last night she told me she could feel it getting hard and then soft. Sounds like ED with an implant. I’m thinking the glans are not swelling enough. She is certain it started after the revision. I’m reading a lot more on FT about using Trimix and or Cialis as a supplement. I am also going in for a CT scan to check on the revision. Man this sucks but I’m not giving up.
Tried: pills, injects ( :o ), T (Axion), pump, ring, herbs
2013 AMS Dr. Karpman Los Gatos, Ca
2022 Revised pump failed, Titan, KP.org Roseville, Ca
CT Scn rt RTE not in corpora, felt like a stuck turd :cry:
2023 R&R rt cyl not in crus, sling, KP.org

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Re: She is not stimulated

Postby Zoso22 » Tue Aug 29, 2023 10:43 am

CHIEF3 wrote:I went to Dr Karpman and he said it’s hard and not to do anything at this time. He could not answer why my wife is not feeling stimulated. Last night she told me she could feel it getting hard and then soft. Sounds like ED with an implant. I’m thinking the glans are not swelling enough. She is certain it started after the revision. I’m reading a lot more on FT about using Trimix and or Cialis as a supplement. I am also going in for a CT scan to check on the revision. Man this sucks but I’m not giving up.


You must live fairly close to me if you see Karpman and you’ve been to the “Horrible” KP. Anyway I hope you can get your issue fixed, I know that I don’t get glanis enlargement if I’m not sexually excited and just pump it up. Let me know if I can help, not to many of us west coasters on here
58yr. Married to awesome wife, retired after second back surgery. PE since early 20’s, ED started around 40, back surgeries and heart problems have ruin my dick
Update; implanted on May 10th, Dr. Karpman. 25cm + RTE


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