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I want to ask mainly young people about having casual sex with the implant. Are you able to disimulate it? How do you do it? Can you semiinflate it and put it into your pants for a hour or half an a hour so that you can simulate some previous erection?

Thanks.

Juerhareb wrote:I want to ask mainly young people about having casual sex with the implant. Are you able to disimulate it? How do you do it? Can you semiinflate it and put it into your pants for a hour or half an a hour so that you can simulate some previous erection?

Thanks.

let's say a few minutes before

There are multiple ways you can do it. I usually leave it 35% pumped on a date, then if we are grabbing drinks at home or Im in the bathroom I pump it to 90% and go from there. I actually tested this and I am able to pump it through my pocket but that would look weird. You could easily pump it while going down on a girl. Its easier for me to just excuse myself to the restroom before sex if I am not already pumped. So far not a single girl has noticed I have an implant. Although one keep saying I was the hardest she's ever had and kept looking back at me from doggy style almost as if to see if it was real lol.

Juerhareb wrote:I want to ask mainly young people about having casual sex with the implant. Are you able to disimulate it? How do you do it? Can you semiinflate it and put it into your pants for a hour or half an a hour so that you can simulate some previous erection?

Thanks.

What’s young? Lol.

I’m 54 and in the lifestyle. I’ve used it with 8 different women in the last month and a half not including my girlfriend. We told one about the surgery. The others never indicated that they noticed. I had comments ranging from how hard it was to how long I lasted. One accused me of using viagra. But no one said anything about the pump.

Several of the 8 are regular playmates and would definitely say something. They are not a quiet group of people.

I usually excuse myself to the bathroom before playtime starts and pump up to 75% or more then pump the rest in one of two ways. I either do it while going down on the girl or I pump with one hand while simulating stroking myself with the other hand.

I honestly don’t care if they notice or know. I’m not concerned or embarrassed by it.

Anfornee wrote:

Juerhareb wrote:I want to ask mainly young people about having casual sex with the implant. Are you able to disimulate it? How do you do it? Can you semiinflate it and put it into your pants for a hour or half an a hour so that you can simulate some previous erection?

Thanks.

What’s young? Lol.

I’m 54 and in the lifestyle. I’ve used it with 8 different women in the last month and a half not including my girlfriend. We told one about the surgery. The others never indicated that they noticed. I had comments ranging from how hard it was to how long I lasted. One accused me of using viagra. But no one said anything about the pump.

Several of the 8 are regular playmates and would definitely say something. They are not a quiet group of people.

I usually excuse myself to the bathroom before playtime starts and pump up to 75% or more then pump the rest in one of two ways. I either do it while going down on the girl or I pump with one hand while simulating stroking myself with the other hand.

I honestly don’t care if they notice or know. I’m not concerned or embarrassed by it.

Thanks. I Guess you can move It aside and hold It with the pants. How much time can you hold It like that? Is ir noticeable looking your jeans?

Thank you very much.

ViaSwiss wrote:There are multiple ways you can do it. I usually leave it 35% pumped on a date, then if we are grabbing drinks at home or Im in the bathroom I pump it to 90% and go from there. I actually tested this and I am able to pump it through my pocket but that would look weird. You could easily pump it while going down on a girl. Its easier for me to just excuse myself to the restroom before sex if I am not already pumped. So far not a single girl has noticed I have an implant. Although one keep saying I was the hardest she's ever had and kept looking back at me from doggy style almost as if to see if it was real lol.

Is it noticiable at 90%?

If you are trying to get fucked why would you worry about it showing. I can go for several hours 75% pumped up. 75% pumped is about the same as a natural had on. I can screw with 75% hard. 100% is like a steel spike and hurts after 1/2 hr. I have had mine for 5 years.

oldbeek wrote:If you are trying to get fucked why would you worry about it showing. I can go for several hours 75% pumped up. 75% pumped is about the same as a natural had on. I can screw with 75% hard. 100% is like a steel spike and hurts after 1/2 hr. I have had mine for 5 years.

If you are at a hookup venue, maybe you would not care about "showing". But if you are trying to hook up with one of the bridesmaids at a formal wedding, maybe a bit of discretion would be in order. Lots of kids at weddings, for example.

The answer is "yes" to all of your questions.

Yes you can have casual sex. Yes you can pump it up various amounts ahead of time.

Here are some things I do. Most mornings, before dressing, I squeeze it out pretty hard. I have a titan and a full squeeze leaves things with a little bit of an unnatural look, slightly flattened, so if I think that anyone might see my cock, I'll put in just a few extra squeezes to give it a rounder shape. When I'm at the point in a relationship where I think someone might reach over and touch my cock through my pants, I will pump it up a bit more. I don't know about "percentage full", but I've experimented. How much lets a little bulge show, but without pushing out hard? How much pushes some against the cloth, but without pushing too much towards straight out?

Sometimes I feel my bulge with my left hand on the outside of my pants and my right hand down my pants to add another squeeze or two till it feels right. I can inflate more with jeans than with slacks because the cloth is tighter and sturdier. The level that fits in my jeans without being too obscene is actually hard enough to have sex with. On the soft side, but hard enough. And it's easy enough to get some extra pumps in while going down on her, or if she takes a bathroom visit.

The other night I was at a bar with a friend (FWB) and another woman was hitting on her, wanting either her alone or a threesome. My friend is not into that, but she did whisper in my ear that the other woman had noticed and commented on my bulge. That was at that level of "fullness but not pushing hard against the cloth."

So yes, there are all sorts of things you can try.

CigareVolant wrote:(edited for focus)

Yes you can have casual sex. Yes you can pump it up various amounts ahead of time.

I don't know about "percentage full", but I've experimented.

So yes, there are all sorts of things you can try.

I count my implant as 50% inflated when the backflow from implant to reservoir stops of its own accord. That would be where pressure from the reservoir is equal to the pressure from the implant's tubes. Using that as the objective measure of 50%. Other reference points are more subjective, but fairly easy to estimate.

I hope this helps make discussion of partial degrees of inflation easier to communicate.

The percentage of inflation required for penetrative sex depends on the person one is penetrating, of course. 75% is about my minimum with my lover's vagina "properly" prepared (by foreplay) and in a good position for easy penetration. But we like 95-100% a lot better.