Trouble with orgasms

[Franklin22]

Hello brothers and Happy New years!

I know this topic has been discussed a good bit, but I’m hoping to get some insight and advice to my situation. I haven’t posted about this because my sexual adventures have been sporadic with different women not really seeing them more than twice.
Recently, I have begun to see a young lady a bit more often and things have really been progressing towards a relationship. She does not know I’m implanted, but I did tell her I had surgery on my scrotum from an accident. I explained that is lowered my sensitivity for being able to ejaculate.
I have now had sex with her 5xs with no luck. The only time I have been able to cum was by finishing myself with my hand. I did have one other woman that was able to get me off by oral.
I did not have a problem cumming before the surgery.
I’m starting to panic a little bit because this is really important to be able to finish.
I’m wondering if this is in my head or the sensitivity or probably a combination ?
I’m 6 months post op so I know it may take longer to get to the place I want to. I’ve been taking daily cialis and this has seemed to help a little.
I’ve heard of people say try trimix gel? Is this something I could get Dr. Clavell to prescribe or would I have to find a local urologist ?
Any other suggestions or advice would be appreciated.

[easymoney]

I'm 6 months out from back to back surgeries having a Rigicon10 malleable put in .. just now getting to where I can climax with oral .. took a while before the cut the shit out of my penis ... now a little trickier ... my PCP will take a good year of heling before it will come back toward being normal .. any reason you don't want the women in your life to know you are implanted? .. ED makes us embarrassed and unsure of ourselves in the bedroom . ... once implanted with guaranteed results each encounter should be a breeze ..

[Mark1974]

How often are you ejaculating? By that I mean are you masturbating frequently?

[frank66665]

on the 23rd of this month I will be 1 year old, I reach orgasm through vaginal or anal sex 100%, I can't reach orgasm with oral sex, only very few girls have succeeded, I have to deduce that it depends on where it has done the most damage surgeon during operation

[Franklin22]

I'm 6 months out from back to back surgeries having a Rigicon10 malleable put in .. just now getting to where I can climax with oral .. took a while before the cut the shit out of my penis ... now a little trickier ... my PCP will take a good year of heling before it will come back toward being normal .. any reason you don't want the women in your life to know you are implanted? .. ED makes us embarrassed and unsure of ourselves in the bedroom . ... once implanted with guaranteed results each encounter should be a breeze ..

I admit it is difficult being around someone trying to time this right to go pump up before in the bathroom or lying in bed and she reaches over to play with you and you can’t naturally rise up. I feel like I’m just playing this constant cat and mouse game with my dick and find it difficult to relax. I didn’t want to tell her at first because I wanted to make sure I liked her and I do. We were introduced by mutual friends so I’m a little worried about my secret getting out of things go south. She is in her low 30s so I’m not sure how this will be received. Oh this is hell. lol.

[Franklin22]

How often are you ejaculating? By that I mean are you masturbating frequently?

I’ve thought about this. I’ve probably been masterbating 4-5xs a week. I’ve been thinking I need to go cold turkey on this for awhile. ….

[frank66665]

I'm 6 months out from back to back surgeries having a Rigicon10 malleable put in .. just now getting to where I can climax with oral .. took a while before the cut the shit out of my penis ... now a little trickier ... my PCP will take a good year of heling before it will come back toward being normal .. any reason you don't want the women in your life to know you are implanted? .. ED makes us embarrassed and unsure of ourselves in the bedroom . ... once implanted with guaranteed results each encounter should be a breeze ..

I admit it is difficult being around someone trying to time this right to go pump up before in the bathroom or lying in bed and she reaches over to play with you and you can’t naturally rise up. I feel like I’m just playing this constant cat and mouse game with my dick and find it difficult to relax. I didn’t want to tell her at first because I wanted to make sure I liked her and I do. We were introduced by mutual friends so I’m a little worried about my secret getting out of things go south. She is in her low 30s so I’m not sure how this will be received. Oh this is hell. lol.

when you think it's time to have sex, try to be 60/70% ready, then get to 85/90% somehow you can do it without being noticed, it's not the time to tell him, you'll tell him if he becomes a serious thing and if you realize that she has fallen in love with you, at this moment a 30 year old girl I think would take it badly

[Franklin22]

I'm 6 months out from back to back surgeries having a Rigicon10 malleable put in .. just now getting to where I can climax with oral .. took a while before the cut the shit out of my penis ... now a little trickier ... my PCP will take a good year of heling before it will come back toward being normal .. any reason you don't want the women in your life to know you are implanted? .. ED makes us embarrassed and unsure of ourselves in the bedroom . ... once implanted with guaranteed results each encounter should be a breeze ..

I admit it is difficult being around someone trying to time this right to go pump up before in the bathroom or lying in bed and she reaches over to play with you and you can’t naturally rise up. I feel like I’m just playing this constant cat and mouse game with my dick and find it difficult to relax. I didn’t want to tell her at first because I wanted to make sure I liked her and I do. We were introduced by mutual friends so I’m a little worried about my secret getting out of things go south. She is in her low 30s so I’m not sure how this will be received. Oh this is hell. lol.

when you think it's time to have sex, try to be 60/70% ready, then get to 85/90% somehow you can do it without being noticed, it's not the time to tell him, you'll tell him if he becomes a serious thing and if you realize that she has fallen in love with you, at this moment a 30 year old girl I think would take it badly

I agree. This is a good idea to stay 60-70% pumped. That way if she does try something I’m somewhat ready and still could penetrate.
The only issue with pumping is that damn pump makes noise. So I’ll have to make sure a tv is on or something I guess. And it’s a female just for the record. lol.

[frank66665]

I admit it is difficult being around someone trying to time this right to go pump up before in the bathroom or lying in bed and she reaches over to play with you and you can’t naturally rise up. I feel like I’m just playing this constant cat and mouse game with my dick and find it difficult to relax. I didn’t want to tell her at first because I wanted to make sure I liked her and I do. We were introduced by mutual friends so I’m a little worried about my secret getting out of things go south. She is in her low 30s so I’m not sure how this will be received. Oh this is hell. lol.

when you think it's time to have sex, try to be 60/70% ready, then get to 85/90% somehow you can do it without being noticed, it's not the time to tell him, you'll tell him if he becomes a serious thing and if you realize that she has fallen in love with you, at this moment a 30 year old girl I think would take it badly

I agree. This is a good idea to stay 60-70% pumped. That way if she does try something I’m somewhat ready and still could penetrate.
The only issue with pumping is that damn pump makes noise. So I’ll have to make sure a tv is on or something I guess. And it’s a female just for the record. lol.

what pump do you have, I touch it, it makes a little noise but not enough for only me to hear it, if you go slowly it makes less noise

[Franklin22]

I have the classic titan