First go at sex with implant-help!

[Iwillbeatpd]

Hey all-

I’m single and do not plan to disclose my implant to my partners in the future. That being said, I’m looking for some advice as I get ready for my first go at sex.

I’ve concluded it’s probably best to pre pump when I’m anticipating sex. For me, it seems like around 10 pumps will get me hard enough, and you also can’t feel any dog ears. At 10 pumps, I can also point my cock up just enough that I could tuck it into my waist band.

First question with that- I naturally have a 3:30 erection angle. Had it before implant and also after. Because my natural angle is not 2 o’clock, I have to angle it up more. At 10 pumps I can change the angle easier and it doesn’t hurt. The harder I am, the less I can adjust the angle. At say, 20 pumps, it would be impossible to point my dick to 1 o’clock.

At 10 pumps I can get my dick to 1 o’clock pretty easily with just a normal amount of pressure to adjust the angle. I could get 12 o’clock too but I’d have to put more pressure to adjust the angle more- which worried me because I don’t want to mess anything up. Is this okay to do when 10 pumps in? Just want to make sure I won’t mess anything up by moving my 3:30 angled dick to 12 o’clock 70% inflated.I start getting a decent amount of resistance at 1 o’clock.

My plan was to do this, so I am hard enough and my dick feels like a normal dick. And then later on I could easily get a few more pumps. My reason for pre pumping is, what happens if I’m watching a movie with a girl and then she starts reaching in my pants or something while kissing? This is a typical scenario in my past experience. Needless to say, I want to be prepared when I know that moment is likely to come.

Thoughts? Advice? How can I make this all happen discreetly?

[Franklin22]

You’ve come to the right place. …

I think you have a pretty solid plan. And I don’t think it hurt your erection angle. I just wouldn’t want to be sitting there a long time with your dick hard and pointed up.
I usually excuse myself to the bathroom within a 30 minute window of sex and haven’t “been caught with my pants down” no pun intended.
Also, for morning sex I will wake up a little earlier and take a piss while she’s asleep pump up and then wait and act like I got hard with a morning wood.
Good luck, it’s a little stressful at first trying to disguise all of this, but the more you do it the less stressful it becomes. Just as the same as before when you had to hide and time your viagra right then come out with the sniffles and a flushed face.
Only this time, your dick won’t let you down and you will give her the ride of her life.

[Lost Sheep]

Hey all-

I’m single and do not plan to disclose my implant to my partners in the future. That being said, I’m looking for some advice as I get ready for my first go at sex.

I’ve concluded it’s probably best to pre pump when I’m anticipating sex. For me, it seems like around 10 pumps will get me hard enough, and you also can’t feel any dog ears. At 10 pumps, I can also point my cock up just enough that I could tuck it into my waist band.

First question with that- I naturally have a 3:30 erection angle. Had it before implant and also after. Because my natural angle is not 2 o’clock, I have to angle it up more. At 10 pumps I can change the angle easier and it doesn’t hurt. The harder I am, the less I can adjust the angle. At say, 20 pumps, it would be impossible to point my dick to 1 o’clock.

At 10 pumps I can get my dick to 1 o’clock pretty easily with just a normal amount of pressure to adjust the angle. I could get 12 o’clock too but I’d have to put more pressure to adjust the angle more- which worried me because I don’t want to mess anything up. Is this okay to do when 10 pumps in? Just want to make sure I won’t mess anything up by moving my 3:30 angled dick to 12 o’clock 70% inflated.I start getting a decent amount of resistance at 1 o’clock.

My plan was to do this, so I am hard enough and my dick feels like a normal dick. And then later on I could easily get a few more pumps. My reason for pre pumping is, what happens if I’m watching a movie with a girl and then she starts reaching in my pants or something while kissing? This is a typical scenario in my past experience. Needless to say, I want to be prepared when I know that moment is likely to come.

Thoughts? Advice? How can I make this all happen discreetly?

I have to ask, is this your first go at sex or your first go at sex after being implanted?

If you have had sex before, were your positions limited by your penis' angle? What positions were good for you both? I imagine a 3:00 or 3:30 angle would make doggie style particularly enjoyable for her (though many women are not enamored of their first encounter not being some version of face-to-face). There are plenty of positions that can accommodate a penis that does not point up

If you can manage it (and it is safe to do in your jurisdiction) you might consider hiring a professional woma to coach you through using your implanted penis. Sexual surrogate, sexual coach, call girl, whatever you can find and afford. A professional sexual surrogate (you may be able to get a referral from your urologist, counselor or surgeon) is a medical professional whose job it is to ease a man through the adjustment he makes to go from whatever condition he is in to full satisfactory sexual function. Practice with someone guaranteed to be non-judgemental and helpful is worth the effort to find her.

I will counsel you that, at a woman's late 30s, she has likely encountered men with issues in sex and equally likely to appreciate 1) honesty about your implant and 2) knowing your erection will not fail, no matter how unsure you may seem to her when the subject of sex comes up. Of course, this advice depends a great deal on if this is a one-night stand, casual hookup or a longer-term relationship (weeks, months or perhaps looking at years or a lifetime). I am just saying that women appreciate a man who faces his shortcomings and does not attempt to hide them from her. I say this from a position of some experience. Okay, unasked for advice is now concluded.

[frank66665]

As I understand it, I will beat Pd regardless of how long the relationship lasts, he doesn't want to be noticed about the implant, even when I go to paid girls I don't want to be noticed, I succeed more than 50% of the time, sometimes I say not to touch my balls and they don't notice anything, if they notice the pump I tell them that I had an accident with a motorcycle jump and my testicle was crushed, and that it was replaced with a fake testicle like a glass eye or a pacemaker , to make myself ready I swell before entering with 22/25 pumps, then when I do the bidet before having sex I give the other 10 pumps or so, I approach with the cock already in my hand nice and erect, and she says... Wow you are already ready, my wife on the other hand already knows everything and I swell when I use the bidet before having sex

[Iwillbeatpd]

Thanks guys.

I’d love to hear from some others:

1. If your partner does touch your sack and feels the pump, what do you say?

2. How do you get started when you get into foreplay? Are you already hard from pre pumping? Anyone not pre pump when they know sex is coming?

[oldbeek]

I have had mine for 5 years. I can pump it 10 times and wear it that way all night long. That is harder than most girls get ever. I wear David Archy separate pouch. Yes it bulges. I like it that way. Outline of the glans shows when wearing slacks. I am trolling for a woman that wants to be fucked. At rock hard 35 pumps it will still point any direction from against my belly to 4 o'clock. Gets painful at rock hard after an hour.

[Witheringhog]

Good plan, pump up 75 ish percent, then go from there.

[Bushpig]

I've had mine for four years now and have always pumped up 100% before the act. I usually drink a bit of water closer to the time then have a piss while pumping. The sound of the piss falling in 'kills' the duck quaking sound made from the pump when pumping.
I then return to the bedroom still fully clothed with my erection facing up and held back by the top elastic of my underware - get into bed and get busy. I dont allow my partner to handle my balls ( I say im very sensitive there after a football injury )

[Dtorres61]

Thanks guys you really helped me with your answers I’m 4 months post op still learning about the pump have many guys helping me along the way

[ThailandBound]

Thanks guys you really helped me with your answers I’m 4 months post op still learning about the pump have many guys helping me along the way

Hey buddy. It’s your friend from the facebook group. Welcome to the forum! Hope you find the support you need here. Great group of guys.