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I've been dating a lady that is 12 years younger than me. We have sex often and she has given me numerous BJs. I dont think she is a super experienced, maybe only had sex with a handful of guys prior to me and tends to be more laid back. We've done every position including anal.

She has no clue that I have an implant. Pumping discretely before hand is always easy, just excuse my self to the restroom or to the kitchen and within 30 secs I am ready. If things begin to get more serious at some point I will tell her no problem.

FWIW, I've had sex with maybe 7 women since getting implanted and not a single one could tell. I ended up telling one of them and she thought it was kind of cool.

i don't know how is that possibile since the pump in the scrotum can be easly felt...

In my case it's impossibile to not notice that. Maybe if you go staight to the penetration than maybe the girl won't notice, but just and handjob would notice

ViaSwiss wrote:I've been dating a lady that is 12 years younger than me. We have sex often and she has given me numerous BJs. I dont think she is a super experienced, maybe only had sex with a handful of guys prior to me and tends to be more laid back. We've done every position including anal.

She has no clue that I have an implant. Pumping discretely before hand is always easy, just excuse my self to the restroom or to the kitchen and within 30 secs I am ready. If things begin to get more serious at some point I will tell her no problem.

FWIW, I've had sex with maybe 7 women since getting implanted and not a single one could tell. I ended up telling one of them and she thought it was kind of cool.

ViaSwiss,

Why did you need a revision just five months after the initial surgery? Just curious.

ViaSwiss, could you tell us more about how you approached the situation and how you disclosed it to the girl you told?

newhope wrote:i don't know how is that possibile since the pump in the scrotum can be easly felt...

In my case it's impossibile to not notice that. Maybe if you go staight to the penetration than maybe the girl won't notice, but just and handjob would notice

There is no reason for her to notice through a hand job unless you are pumped to 110%. The only way she would notice is if she is playing with your balls and in my case I always just tell girls at first that ever since getting my vasectomy it does not feel good to have my balls played with so not to do it.

ViaSwiss,

Why did you need a revision just five months after the initial surgery? Just curious.

My initial surgeon short changed me.

Thisworld wrote:ViaSwiss, could you tell us more about how you approached the situation and how you disclosed it to the girl you told?

The one that I told, she started to get really attached and I wasnt as in to her as she was into me. I sort of cooled off on her and right around the same time was when I had to get the revision. I ended up just telling her in person that I had an implant and that I had to have a surgery to get it fixed so that was why she hadn't heard or seen me lately. She was the first and so far only girl I have told so I was unsure of how to tell her or what to expect, but she didnt think it was as big of a deal as I did. By the time we discussed this she was already dating someone else, so we never hung out again.

ViaSwiss wrote:I've been dating a lady that is 12 years younger than me. We have sex often and she has given me numerous BJs. I dont think she is a super experienced, maybe only had sex with a handful of guys prior to me and tends to be more laid back. We've done every position including anal.

She has no clue that I have an implant. Pumping discretely before hand is always easy, just excuse my self to the restroom or to the kitchen and within 30 secs I am ready. If things begin to get more serious at some point I will tell her no problem.

FWIW, I've had sex with maybe 7 women since getting implanted and not a single one could tell. I ended up telling one of them and she thought it was kind of cool.

Yes, I agree this device CAN be made very covert and unnoticeable- if done right.
If I was a single guy I don't know if I would disclose my implant status to an unsuspecting partner.

That’s awesome news. I slept with around 7 women without being detected also. I did have one that was very curious and asking a lot of questions. Needless to say I didn’t call her back I didn’t see it working out long term anyways.
I did disclose it to my gf after 3 months of dating. She had no clue. Pretty sure I could have kept the act up. I’m glad I told her though, it’s quite a relief not worrying about it anymore with her. She actually loves the implant and the super powers it has.

If she touches around the shaft, would she not feel the tubing?

I have got caught several a few times when that happened

Am i right in assuming that your surgeons did a very neat job--cant one always feel the tubing around the shaft?