What’s the longest you’ve gone without sex?

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Desperado
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What’s the longest you’ve gone without sex?

Postby Desperado » Thu Sep 25, 2025 1:22 am

Hi.

I’m asking because my decision about an IPP is for me.

It’s been 22 years for me. It just happened.

I miss my erection.
56. Prostrate cancer (gone), 2022 Brachytherapy, ED hourglass PD, pills/shots failed. Prepping for IPP 2027, Restorex, VED, Shockwave, Supplements.

fucked0ne
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Re: What’s the longest you’ve gone without sex?

Postby fucked0ne » Fri Sep 26, 2025 12:41 am

Desperado wrote:Hi.

I’m asking because my decision about an IPP is for me.

It’s been 22 years for me. It just happened.

I miss my erection.


Going on 8; last time I had sex was 34. Dick stopped working at 36; had horrible ED for 4 years, so couldn’t have sex; was implanted at 40; have not used my LGX for sex as I don’t like the infirmness of the device, and am now considering a swap to a CX or a Tactra. (I also lost girth as the thing expanded in length.) I turn 42 this year.

Oddly enough, your body adapts to the lack of sex the same way your stomach adapts to a lack of food. At least that’s what I’ve noticed.
40. Implanted July 5, 2024, AMS LGX, 21cm cylinders + 2cm RTEs. Idiopathic "hard flaccid" ED following bacterial infection. Tried pulse waves, Cialis, TRT, even spinal injections. Nada.

ready2go
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Re: What’s the longest you’ve gone without sex?

Postby ready2go » Fri Sep 26, 2025 1:17 am

a few months
American , retired in the philippines .
tactra malleable 13 mm ,in new delhi India . on april 2024

Desperado
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Re: What’s the longest you’ve gone without sex?

Postby Desperado » Fri Sep 26, 2025 1:21 am

fucked0ne,

Thanks for sharing. Sounds awful. Have you tried a VED? I have no experience or expertise here.
56. Prostrate cancer (gone), 2022 Brachytherapy, ED hourglass PD, pills/shots failed. Prepping for IPP 2027, Restorex, VED, Shockwave, Supplements.

Desperado
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Re: What’s the longest you’ve gone without sex?

Postby Desperado » Fri Sep 26, 2025 1:23 am

ready2go,

For yourself sir, 2 months must feel like 20 years. ;)

Cheers
56. Prostrate cancer (gone), 2022 Brachytherapy, ED hourglass PD, pills/shots failed. Prepping for IPP 2027, Restorex, VED, Shockwave, Supplements.

ready2go
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Re: What’s the longest you’ve gone without sex?

Postby ready2go » Fri Sep 26, 2025 6:25 am

Desperado wrote:ready2go,

For yourself sir, 2 months must feel like 20 years. ;)

Cheers


well , i didn't really have ED per se until my early 60s that i treated with supplements and cialis ,and i ,of course with age i slowed down like in my 50s ,more so .
i married at early 30s, so sex was available when i wanted it .,and before that i would find girls to fool around with or live with .
now the wife is older and needs medical help . But she also left from where we retired 3 times to go visit family etc . Up to a year once, and i found girls who wanted company then as well .
i don't mind alone time , but i do like having female company and with the included intimacy . it's definitely more interesting , other than the sex .
yeah but now 2 months would be too long .
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CanGetItUpButNotOff
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Re: What’s the longest you’ve gone without sex?

Postby CanGetItUpButNotOff » Fri Sep 26, 2025 6:43 am

17 years.

But since I was 17 years old, just one three week period I can recall. Do blowjobs count?

Long ago, we were separated for two months but I still snuck in one blowjob so there might have been 4-5 weeks without.
Born 1954. Diabetes, hypertension, atherosclerosis. Sildenafil iffy. Tri-Mix 30/3/20 Pap/Phen/PGE1 godsend pending long-term efficacy. Daily Cialis. Tried LiESWT 4 times, Botox, PT141, Eroxon, QST, DUS, Vertica, Ferticare, cabergoline, psycho+hypnotherapy

fucked0ne
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Re: What’s the longest you’ve gone without sex?

Postby fucked0ne » Fri Sep 26, 2025 7:49 pm

Desperado wrote:fucked0ne,

Thanks for sharing. Sounds awful. Have you tried a VED? I have no experience or expertise here.


Not with the implant. Not sure how that would help with the instability.
40. Implanted July 5, 2024, AMS LGX, 21cm cylinders + 2cm RTEs. Idiopathic "hard flaccid" ED following bacterial infection. Tried pulse waves, Cialis, TRT, even spinal injections. Nada.

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Wooody
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Re: What’s the longest you’ve gone without sex?

Postby Wooody » Fri Sep 26, 2025 8:01 pm

Since I lost my virginity, maybe ~6months. I'm a nympho.. can't live without sex.. it's like oxygen for me, for real! :lol:
Titan Classic 22cm + 1cm RTEs - 2/25 - Dr Karpman, Bay Area CA

LGXDownunder
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Re: What’s the longest you’ve gone without sex?

Postby LGXDownunder » Fri Sep 26, 2025 9:22 pm

Similar to Wooody since no longer a virgin I've only abstained for medical reasons, maybe 6-8 weeks max. after surgery.
I too need regular sex. Probably also helps diffuse my OCD tendencies and relax me.
And I'm pretty much always horny now with my implant :D.
71, married, Sydney Oz. PC & nerve sparing RRP Mar 22, profound ED since. Tried pills, Trimix inj, focal shockwave, VED.
Finally implanted Mar 6 2025 AMS 700 LGX 21cm x 12mm, no RTEs, MS pump, Penoscrotal.
Recovery great so far but have a bend.


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